Reasons behind complaints.

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Louize said:
The thing is, there's nothing wrong with prioritising real life... There's a problem when you have 0 time for your own room and spend time in other rooms during the minimal time you are online whilst the mods you hired are running amok in the room you admin, and there's multiple complaints you're not dealing with on a forum.

He's been online and not responded to this thread even towards the people being respectful and fair... Doesn't that show a disregard for his room? Including him making jokes about it on other people's profiles?
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Well said, W
 
An idea just came to me about something potentially helpful, the only way this works is if everyone posts with grace. I want to say that in this room you have groups of people all over the world who have been raised differently so everyone has very different humor as well as issues that a bigger to them than the might be to someone else.

Here is my idea… All of you take a lot of screenshots of your kicks, all of you also know that you toe the lines with the rules of the room and down right violate them also. With that being said each of you post a screenshot from one of your kicks and think of the rules and put yourself in the shoes of the Mods as well as Admin and state what you would have done as a mod for that situation. Your reason can’t be because they mod hates me, the mod is soft, it has to be legit feedback. Don’t cause madness on this thread or it will get closed. Be respectful and show that you’re adults. This post is not made with the intention of bashing anyone but merely to see how we all would hold ourselves accountable and how you would like to see things reacted to. Maybe some healthy conversations can get going between everyone.
 
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Hiraeth said:
An idea just came to me about something potentially helpful, the only way this works is if everyone posts with grace. I want to say that in this room you have groups of people all over the world who have been raised differently so everyone has very different humor as well as issues that a bigger to them than the might be to someone else.

Here is my idea… All of you take a lot of screenshots of your kicks, all of you also know that you toe the lines with the rules of the room and down right violate them also. With that being said each of you post a screenshot from one of your kicks and think of the rules and put yourself in the shoes of the Mods as well as Admin and state what you would have done as a mod for that situation. Your reason can’t be because they mod hates me, the mod is soft, it has to be legit feedback. Don’t cause madness on this thread or it will get closed. Be respectful and show that you’re adults.
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They know what they're doing. There is no language barrier. What one gets kicked for, they let others do. When I modded, I tried to scroll up to get the whole situation because one person might be flagged but not flagging the instigator because they didn't care or think they'd get flag for something that most would just block someone over.

Ever notice that even the sweetest people are getting muted or kicked when they tend to avoid confrontation? One of the obsessive no lifers in there is hardcore who double browses and flags people from guest accounts. He'll even scroll up hours worth to look for people he doesn't like to flag anything border line. When the person isn't kicked, he jumps in the mods PMs to complain then takes it to main.

You used to be able to clown on each other as long as it didn't disrupt the room and wasn't over the line, now people are getting kicked for anything.
 
Boba Fett said:
They know what they're doing. There is no language barrier. What one gets kicked for, they let others do. When I modded, I tried to scroll up to get the whole situation because one person might be flagged but not flagging the instigator because they didn't care or think they'd get flag for something that most would just block someone over.

Ever notice that even the sweetest people are getting muted or kicked when they tend to avoid confrontation? One of the obsessive no lifers in there is hardcore who double browses and flags people from guest accounts. He'll even scroll up hours worth to look for people he doesn't like to flag anything border line. When the person isn't kicked, he jumps in the mods PMs to complain then takes it to main.

You used to be able to clown on each other as long as it didn't disrupt the room and wasn't over the line, now people are getting kicked for anything.
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I know this isn’t a language barrier, but there is the issue of some posts being offensive to some people and not others, like that people cross which some people are hey whatever about and some are deeply hurt by. I know that hardcore is a very big issue to some of you and not to others and i do think given he is forum banned it speaks a lot of the trouble he causes. BUT again my message is for self accountability and to get a conversation going as to what can be done differently, maybe about one’s intentions to get a better personal understanding for each person. It doesn’t hurt to try different ways to solve an issue.
 
There were NEVER this many problems before. People joked and if someone found it offensive you were warned and told why. None of this “you know what you’re doing” or “we know what you’re up to”

Look what happened when I posted the “Lucy Goosey” gif. It’s on the gif list and I got kicked for doxxing MULTIPLE TIMES even thou mods were told it was a Chat Ave gif. But because some of them don’t care for me I was targeted.
 
BeautifulDisaster77 said:
There were NEVER this many problems before. People joked and if someone found it offensive you were warned and told why. None of this “you know what you’re doing” or “we know what you’re up to”

Look what happened when I posted the “Lucy Goosey” gif. It’s on the gif list and I got kicked for doxxing MULTIPLE TIMES even thou mods were told it was a Chat Ave gif. But because some of them don’t care for me I was targeted.
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Yeah and the mod who kicked you last time over it, knew it. Then when the room posted ss of Dylan saying it's fine, she raged and started kicking people. That was one of his "diamond in the rough" picks, someone who'd go ballistic towards Infamous and get kicked/muted constantly for fighting with people.
 
Believe me, no one will fall for it...
We all know that the "Wasp Nest crew" wasn't successful and lost supremacy over the room and now they are trying to remove Dylan.
Things have changed, you need to leave the room and establish your evil practice elsewhere.
You're done, like deflated condoms.😉

Not to mention that Sang have all of your personal FB profiles.

Shame on you all...you let one person expose you all.👎
 
Bac said:
Believe me, no one will fall for it...
We all know that the "Wasp Nest crew" wasn't successful and lost supremacy over the room and now they are trying to remove Dylan.
Things have changed, you need to leave the room and establish your evil practice elsewhere.
You're done, like deflated condoms.😉

Not to mention that Sang have all of your personal FB profiles.

Shame on you all...you let one person expose you all.👎
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I don’t get the sense that anyone wants Dylan or any of the mods to be removed, maybe I’m wrong here. From the posts people have made everyone is just asking for the same clear and consistent treatment. I think maybe these posts seem as if they are made with the intent to be hurtful or cause issues for people but that’s not the case.
 
DynamicDylan said:
If you all think you can be a good moderator then apply. Show no favouritism behave show respect and I’ll give you a trial
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I don't have time to mod... So guess what, I wouldn't offer to take the position. Just like you've made it clear you have no time for the room, and yet you still took on admin.

You've got previous (awesome!) mods telling you there's issues, literally showing screenshots and doing it respectfully... How aren't you seeing the problem here? Why aren't you addressing those issues instead of writing two lines that are borderline mockery of "hurhurhur I'll give you a trial."

You can't ask for respect when you've given nobody that same treatment. Respect would be addressing the actual concerns and having an open discussion where you don't go on the defensive and/or pretend it isn't happening.

So many people collectively can't be wrong if they're all saying the same thing.
 
Hiraeth said:
I don’t get the sense that anyone wants Dylan or any of the mods to be removed, maybe I’m wrong here. From the posts people have made everyone is just asking for the same clear and consistent treatment. I think maybe these posts seem as if they are made with the intent to be hurtful or cause issues for people but that’s not the case.
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That guy uh...has a shady past, that's all I'm going to say.
 
Louize said:
I don't have time to mod... So guess what, I wouldn't offer to take the position. Just like you've made it clear you have no time for the room, and yet you still took on admin.

You've got previous (awesome!) mods telling you there's issues, literally showing screenshots and doing it respectfully... How aren't you seeing the problem here? Why aren't you addressing those issues instead of writing two lines that are borderline mockery of "hurhurhur I'll give you a trial."

You can't ask for respect when you've given nobody that same treatment. Respect would be addressing the actual concerns and having an open discussion where you don't go on the defensive and/or pretend it isn't happening.

So many people collectively can't be wrong if they're all saying the same thing.
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I didn’t remove Shyone or BARESY they quit on their own behalf because they didn’t want to follow guidelines set by the upper management and myself. I believe it was copy and pasting what users said into kick reasons and screenshotting why they are removing VIPS to document. Everyone is making it out like I treated them with disrespect but that’s not the case at all. This whole thread makes me and the staff to be tyrants which isn’t the case. I’ve been told by upper management things are max kick and not bannable offences things that people do. I do and we do not need to warn for these. If people aren’t familiar with rules then they can read them. I’m currently working on a more up to date version which is going to be like practically baby sitting. I’ve given inches and people take miles. And this doesn’t mean the rules are going to be petty. Means they are going to be explained like I’m telling toddlers how to behave. I personally have never had an issue with yourself who I’ve quoted or don’t want to have one (so don’t think I do) I just wanted to strictly reply to this one comment. Regulars do not need warnings for things that they do everyday to break rules rules which are easy to find on forums and infact in the infomation box Everytime they enter the room. Let’s say someone comes in and uses the n word. Why would we warn them (this being a regular everyday VIP chatter) who knows the rules and knows this word is prohibited. This doesn’t warrant a warning. The solution to problems isn’t to remove mods who work very hard (behind the scenes aswell) This thread is mainly about Chaos so I’m going to use her as an example. All the bots web whores and everything like that. She will create a list and I will ban this list. Will tell me the script texts which they use and this is added to the spam ban filter upon being seen by the Upper management team. Oreo who is also featured in this event. The mods you all moan the most about are the ones who inform me of this user clear his spam deal with Sang. This all warrants nothing apparently. All the good goes not seen. But when a reg is kicked OH NO. Which everyone knows the rules if not refresh memories and it turns into forum thread after forum thread and witch hunts. If I see staff do something in which I don’t think is the right coarse of action. I tell them. And offer advices differently and if you ask they will tell you this. We all want to do what’s best and right. Suggestions are open. Comment away with them
 
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