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I told you if you want a room where the admin bans ******** on your say so- yes find another room that is more to your liking. Excessive doxxing *with intent to cause harm* that involves a minor \ CAN resukt in a ban. read the rules written before you quote me thanks. And am I correct you are no longer a mod? If its serious perhaps something can be done. im NOT banning for the equivelant of chatter a drawing a moustache on ******** B pic. We want a fun room-not one that is hartsh and treats all ******** with contempt based on the bartest of threads of proof. Not going to happen.

Piladies, another one who fails to grasp rea]ity- wants me to ban on SS -an incomplete record- for really a off colour remark that a chatter apologized for. Which is an indication why he cant mod here-

HR there are families that are being targeted. Brothers and mothers. On both parts. This isn’t just about the ******** but their families.
I’ve sent you the screenshots and even told you - whilst you’ve been online - that I’ve flagged them.

whether my mod ship is still on, or off. There’s a serious problem in your room with doxxing. You ask the mods who run your chatroom and check kick histories.

how is this not harmful?!
 
Mate, I think it's you who are failing to grasp this right now.

I can accept the fact that someone can call it an "off colour remark" only after getting caught when previously he told us he was being absolutely serious, but you need to adjust the rules to accommodate this. Because your "zero tolerance" policy is now being changed to imply everything is hunky dory if you apologise for getting caught after the fact.

And please miss me with the lecture to grasp reality, you're calling us all trolls after completing involving us in drama we weren't even engaged in in the first place. It's not a death sentence, mate.
 
Right... The fight that Dess started WITH ME, but you seemed to under the impression that I started. Would you like me to repeat again what happened?
You know, the same mod who seems to already be on that month long break ( Can't confirm, I don't come in early these days ) that you wanted to minimodship me for? You know, to cover the hours missing...... I was really confused as to why you asked me and why you even worked out the details with me, but it's a bit more clear now.
We've all gotten into arguments at some point with mods about something or rather. You're acting like it's a death sentence.

And Aaaaccctually I did mod modern, just not gen modern. I was one of the first mods in DC for that transition so would you like to try AGAIN, or have you finish fishing out of the troll story pool yet?
no- you tried to make it about replacing hours of dess- because you love drama.ucant replace her as you lack people skills she has an abundance of. . All mods who do the hours she does should take a holiday-its wekll deserved. Ill be kin.d youhave fundamentally misunderstood the reality and intent. but its nudity your worried about right?
 
You know what, I hope all the admins, mods and CM sees this comment.

In every room - bar the adult and sex rooms - nudity is not allowed on main.

not just once by the way but everyday! Every single day.

I don’t care if this loses my mod ship for Lesbian Chat but I can’t not say anything.
HR - treat this as real life - would you allow underage kids in real life being exposed to d1ck pics?


this is an everyday thing. The mods know about it. HR even knows about it.
I don’t understand why he’s denying there is an issue in this room where there is.

You honestly don’t give a ****, and honestly, I don’t blame the regs for being frustrated, cause even I am.

sort your room out. You’re responsible for people in there. Excessive doxxing results in a ban. Everyday there is doxxing. The same people. Repeated kicks. Everyday.

How excessive do you want it to be?

I had to argue with you about Cassies pic that one time too!

Man. ****.
I know for a fact that other mods/admins would be like this. So I don’t understand why you’re getting away with being such careless with your admin role? If you don’t want to make sure your room is a safe place, give it to someone who does.

Sorry mods, admins and forum admins.

this is my last reply.
 
HR, you literally said to me " I want to cover the hours that Dess isn't in so we have a full staff instead of going a month without a mod". I don't know how that would make it drama anything. It's pretty clear cut and not even an unreasonable wish given what happens in gen. 8 mods are already stretching it kind thin in there. I think she SHOULD take a break, and that's not even a personal thing, you just seem to be under this notion I'm constantly attacking your or your mods and I'm NOT. I want gen to be a comfy place to be, not just for me personally but everyone who actually follows the rules. Mods have lives and need breaks too, who the **** do you think I am to be mistaking it as I'm attacking her for taking a break, ffs. It's honestly unreal.


Have I even honestly started on the nudity this time around? I think I did that last time around, but I put WAY more emphesis that was VERY CLEARLY IGNORED because "Oh, we can't prove the doxxed victim is a child, so we can't ban them." YOUR. WORDS.

You always try this **** when we get pissed off to the point of no return about the lack of anything conclusive or solid being done. HELL, I even praised your for ACTUALLY BANNING HOODIE because of all the doxxing going on, because someones family member that was clearly underaged was shown. I'm CONCERNED for people not even involved in this room being exposed to this **** and what could happen, as many of us are and have been, REGUARDLESS of if they're a minor or not. They don't choose who their family is, saying "Its okay cause they're an adult" is just..... It's something else, HR.


You accuse US of trying to be dramatic about this but you're clearly just eating this all up, and stirring up far more trouble because it suits your needs. **** the real life victims, this is more entertaining, am I right?
 
ive seen no proof anyone is targettted. I see ........................******** fighting like they do. nowadays. Posting personal info is .kickable. doxxing- the *intent* (proven with evidence acceptable to those responsible for .further act.ion to harm EXCESSIVELY CAN resu.lt in a ban. If that is easy to figure]]]] call saul. This is c.hat you folks take things way too serious and create dramas based on very little. If the boss says for me to ban every.one you target- ill be glad to oblige.
 

This is the conversation in question.

This was never meant to be the be-all end-all of your investigation, but merely a piece of the puzzle. COMBINED WITH other pieces of evidence that can be found here https://forum.chat-avenue.com/threads/alright.936443/ :

"And I'm not a pedo , one time I was joking that I'd ask mikah to **** with me and I didn't even notice that she's 15 oh boo hoo"
(Caught lying, the SS shows she claimed to be 15, he said he didn't care he'd jsut break out of prison, and what kinda loopy land have we entered where saying "I'm serious" means i'm joking?)

"and unlike u im not an actual pedo coz just because girls have kissed me irl and were underage that doesnt make me a pedo I already said that."
(Like they somehow forced you? Youre an adult, youre supposed to have better common sense than this)

COMBINED WITH your ability to check chat logs to confirm the legitimacy of these SSs (If this isn't in your ability to do, this place is more broken than I thought)

COMBINED WITH witness reports of not only just my friends but yours too (Lesley as an example)

COMBINED WITH the fact he's 22 and has been banned from the teens room for going there.

COMBINED WITH the fact you say he's admitted to this and apologised

This gives a very strong case that this chatter has violated the ATTEMPTED EXPLOITATION of a minor, which is supposed to be met with a ZERO TOLERANCE of a BAN. Not a supposed "Ban warning", because "It's a prank bro" is actually some sort of valid excuse that completely invalidates the idea of ZERO TOLERANCE.

And for doing the due diligence of reporting this to you, in PM, as requested, we're labelled mini modders and trolls that are selfish and in no way are just trying to look out for the safety of minors in this once loved chat room of ours.

This is ridiculous and inexcusable. Even if he WAS joking, it's called consequences of your own actions, because tolerating this based on a joke doesn't appear to be a case of ZERO TOLERANCE.

"This is c.hat you folks take things way too serious and create dramas based on very little"

I refuse to take this from someone who created a forum post dropping peoples names that were completely uninvolved in the original thread this thread was allegedly created to address.
 
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I have nine screen shots from last night alone of smokey and popo going at it, one of which has already been taken down. But I'll be fucking damned if I'm giving them to you in private at this point cause it CLEARLY DOES NOTHING.
 
You know what, I hope all the admins, mods and CM sees this comment.

In every room - bar the adult and sex rooms - nudity is not allowed on main.

not just once by the way but everyday! Every single day.

I don’t care if this loses my mod ship for Lesbian Chat but I can’t not say anything.
HR - treat this as real life - would you allow underage kids in real life being exposed to d1ck pics?


this is an everyday thing. The mods know about it. HR even knows about it.
I don’t understand why he’s denying there is an issue in this room where there is.

You honestly don’t give a ****, and honestly, I don’t blame the regs for being frustrated, cause even I am.

sort your room out. You’re responsible for people in there. Excessive doxxing results in a ban. Everyday there is doxxing. The same people. Repeated kicks. Everyday.

How excessive do you want it to be?

I had to argue with you about Cassies pic that one time too!

Man. ****.
I know for a fact that other mods/admins would be like this. So I don’t understand why you’re getting away with being such careless with your admin role? If you don’t want to make sure your room is a safe place, give it to someone who does.

Sorry mods, admins and forum admins.

this is my last reply.
Edit: the other mods/admins wouldn’t be like this.

guarantee that the age restricted rooms such as teens or kids - posting d1ck pics on main everyday, even when the offender gets kicked constantly for it.

general is a 13+

poor kids are seeing d1ck pics on there. How is this allowed?

I wish I could post the SS of the actual post that gets shared but I don’t want to get banned from forums.
 
Honestly may just do that....getting real fed up with getting ignored on the basis of being just a "bitter ex mod". Who the **** WOULDNT be bitter when this kind of issue is getting treated like it's just a joke...? Seriously.
 
Edit: the other mods/admins wouldn’t be like this.

guarantee that the age restricted rooms such as teens or kids - posting d1ck pics on main everyday, even when the offender gets kicked constantly for it.

general is a 13+

poor kids are seeing d1ck pics on there. How is this allowed?

I wish I could post the SS of the actual post that gets shared but I don’t want to get banned from forums.
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Edit: the other mods/admins wouldn’t be like this.

guarantee that the age restricted rooms such as teens or kids - posting d1ck pics on main everyday, even when the offender gets kicked constantly for it.

general is a 13+

poor kids are seeing d1ck pics on there. How is this allowed?

I wish I could post the SS of the actual post that gets shared but I don’t want to get banned from forums.
Ill drop your admin a note-if any of my mods made a stink over things that dont concern them they would b.e fired. Spoke to the cm team today. Im on point with bans unless .otherwise told.
 
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Ill drop your admin a note-if any of my mods made a stink over things that dont concern them they would b.e fired. Spoke to the cm team today. Im on point with bans unless .otherwise told.

please do. I don’t care if you pm my admin, and you are trying to threaten me because you won’t take this seriously? Nice one, bro!

ladies and gents - your general chat admin. Doesn’t want to deal with d1ck pics being sent to main chat for kids to see but doesn’t like the fact that a mod is commenting.

Fuuuuuuck me 😂

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Ill drop your admin a note-if any of my mods made a stink over things that dont concern them they would b.e fired. Spoke to the cm team today. Im on point with bans unless .otherwise told.
made a stink over things? You’re making it sound like we’re making this up.

my actions and feelings toward this has no reflection on the lesbian chat team - they’re amazing mods who do nothing but want to make the place clean. Bento is one of the best admins on this site.
 
To start off-this is Mimsy. This is an old forums account that wasn't ever deleted by CM so I just stopped logging in. I occasionally scroll through forums without logging in..but that's not really the point.

I've been in Gen Chat for eons--sad it is to say--try Java chat-- try circa Admin Missy. I've met some great people in there from all over the world who I have been able to build a genuine connection with. I'm able to differentiate between reality and what happens on the Internet as not being "real." Right now-- I have to speak out.

In my normal life-- I'm a social worker--mostly working with kids and families. I'm honestly disturbed by the amount of nudity that is being shown in chat, and how it's not necessarily a "bad thing" because it's not "porn." Before someone screams, "get over it, snowflake!"-- I'll say this-- I'm in no way shape or form against the human body (seeing as I am a human?) and I am 110% comfortable in my own skin--and encourage others to be so as well. HOWEVER-- I am against kids being exposed to nudity at an impressionable age. If I had logged into a chat room at 13 (which I did)-- and the first thing I saw was a penis- I would have been mortified. As a reminder-the chat is 13 and up. There are countless studies--and I've actually started researching this while I was typing this post. The very first thing that ****** says.. is this.. "Many studies found exposure to nudity in media has a significant impact on the attitudes and behaviour of children. Some found early exposure to sexual content can lead to "risky behaviour" like becoming sexually active at a young age and having casual sex more frequently. Jul 24, 2019." We aren't the parents to the kids that come into the chat--but.. honestly.. mods have a responsibility to appropriately handle inappropriate content when it arrives in chat.

I like to think that I'm a fairly neutral chatter- I'll talk to pretty much everyone- and if I have a problem with somebody, I usually just ignore them (Yes I do know how and where the ignore button is). I've only spoken out against a few ******** with valid reasoning. That brings me to these lovely gems that may be helpful. These are also taken directly from the Department of Justice web-site.

“Cyberthreats” can simply mean threatening communications that are conveyed via the Internet, cellphone, or other digital means. The communication in interstate commerce of threats to harm a person or property, to kidnap a person, or to damage a person’s reputation, is a violation of federal law pursuant to 18 U.S.C. § 875.

" Cyber Stalking" talking is a pattern of repeated and unwanted attention, harassment, contact, or any other course of conduct directed at a specific person that would cause a reasonable person to feel fear. Examples include-- Repeated, unwanted, intrusive, and frightening communications from the perpetrator by phone, mail, and/or email, Making direct or indirect threats to harm the victim, the victim's children, relatives, friends, or pets, Harassing the victim through the Internet • Posting information or spreading rumors about the victim on the Internet, in a public place, or by word of mouth, Obtaining personal information about the victim by accessing public records, using Internet search services, hiring private investigators, searching through the victim's garbage, following the victim, and contacting the victim's friends, family, co-workers, or neighbors, etc.

I hope somebody will have a heart and a set of balls and figure something out. Probably an unrealistic view. Also- I am open to have a discussion with any Gen Chat mod or HR. I am not here for drama.. I am not here for whatever bullshit reason I'm sure people will think of. Just tired of seeing the same thing ..over..and over..and over..again without any real change.

Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
 
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