Um. Mental health?

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Leila_rose

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Well, let’s just say I’m struggling aha. I have been doing very well recently, but life is taking its toll on me and causing me to lose my mind.
I am struggling with body image and people calling me fat etc, which has lead me to starving myself. I am fed up with everything and I wish I was able to not listen to such dickheads.

Sorry lol
 
You're beautiful and amazing no matter what anyone says. I've been called fat before and it's not the best feeling but do I care? No. Instead, if someone calls me fat, I turn a negative into a positive and say aww that's so sweet thank you for the nice compliment. I've also struggled with body image in the past but as the years have went on, I've learned to accept myself for who I am. I used to allow what people say get to me but honestly, not anymore cause I'm almost 26 years old and I've come to the realization that I can't live my life worrying about what other people think of me. I've learned to just shrug it off and say by them bullying me, that makes them more of a low life and they obviously have nothing better to do than to be a bully. There's a lot of idiots in this world, but sometimes you have to gain that careless attitude. If someone calls you fat, laugh it off and say aww that's so sweet. Live your life for you, don't live it worrying about low life people. Don't live your life worrying about what other people think of you cause all it'll do is bring you down and make you depressed. Trust me, I've been there and it's not fun
 
Jack_Skellington said:
You're beautiful and amazing no matter what anyone says. I've been called fat before and it's not the best feeling but do I care? No. Instead, if someone calls me fat, I turn a negative into a positive and say aww that's so sweet thank you for the nice compliment. I've also struggled with body image in the past but as the years have went on, I've learned to accept myself for who I am. I used to allow what people say get to me but honestly, not anymore cause I'm almost 26 years old and I've come to the realization that I can't live my life worrying about what other people think of me. I've learned to just shrug it off and say by them bullying me, that makes them more of a low life and they obviously have nothing better to do than to be a bully. There's a lot of idiots in this world, but sometimes you have to gain that careless attitude. If someone calls you fat, laugh it off and say aww that's so sweet. Live your life for you, don't live it worrying about low life people. Don't live your life worrying about what other people think of you cause all it'll do is bring you down and make you depressed. Trust me, I've been there and it's not fun
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I’m trying not to let it get to me but it’s very hard
 
It'll be hard at first but I can guarantee that you'll be able to not let it get to you in no time. It was hard for me but after a while, I gained that careless attitude. You'll get there eventually hun
 
Jack_Skellington said:
You're beautiful and amazing no matter what anyone says. I've been called fat before and it's not the best feeling but do I care? No. Instead, if someone calls me fat, I turn a negative into a positive and say aww that's so sweet thank you for the nice compliment. I've also struggled with body image in the past but as the years have went on, I've learned to accept myself for who I am. I used to allow what people say get to me but honestly, not anymore cause I'm almost 26 years old and I've come to the realization that I can't live my life worrying about what other people think of me. I've learned to just shrug it off and say by them bullying me, that makes them more of a low life and they obviously have nothing better to do than to be a bully. There's a lot of idiots in this world, but sometimes you have to gain that careless attitude. If someone calls you fat, laugh it off and say aww that's so sweet. Live your life for you, don't live it worrying about low life people. Don't live your life worrying about what other people think of you cause all it'll do is bring you down and make you depressed. Trust me, I've been there and it's not fun
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That's good of you jack that's why you're my favorite general chat mod 💛🙏🙂
 
One day I saw this and it set me on a very different path in my life, one where I started to heal a lot on my own. I hope that maybe this will help you, maybe it will light a spark inside of you like it did for me.

to the person i am today:
I promise i will start loving you again. i just need to remember how it feels to be proud of you, to look in the mirror and be in awe of you. I just need to remember what it was like before i told you you weren't good enough. I buried you alive, piling doubt and loathing onto your body like soil, so only i can bring you back to life.
and i promise i will ❤️❤️
 
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