Should we allow people who are male in lesbian chat?

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Chobits

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Absolutely not in my world.
Whatever happened to equality and fairness to the women???

In a rigid sense I think not, the surface may have changed for males wanting to exchange words with other lesbian’s but they are what they are. On a personal level I think it is right in any way.
 
I can't imagine a male has any good intentions in Lesbian chat, just like how I wouldn't expect a female in Gay chat to have any good intentions. However:
- Some femboys are listed as female in Gay Chat
- Some trans-women are listed as female in Gay Chat
So we can't blindly kick female-listed people because they might have legitimate reason to be there - some gay men are still into trans-women, so it wouldn't make sense to remove them entirely.

Just consider this when factoring in your opinion. It's valid, but not everything is black and white (especially in the LGBT community)
 
TheEridianNinja said:
I can't imagine a male has any good intentions in Lesbian chat, just like how I wouldn't expect a female in Gay chat to have any good intentions. However:
- Some femboys are listed as female in Gay Chat
- Some trans-women are listed as female in Gay Chat
So we can't blindly kick female-listed people because they might have legitimate reason to be there - some gay men are still into trans-women, so it wouldn't make sense to remove them entirely.

Just consider this when factoring in your opinion. It's valid, but not everything is black and white (especially in the LGBT community)
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Ahh! I see. I understand your point.

But, for a male to be listed as a trans-woman or whatever kind of female known. Does that make it okay? because it goes down entirely to what the Lesbian chat is all about which is. Women attracted to other women. Same goes for Women chatting to other women, or Lesbians chatting to lesbian’s

I know not everything is black and white, but I sure and hell wish it was! Because then, no more males would be allowed in the chatroom. A male does not identify as as female on their ID card

Anyways, I don’t think the issue will be resolved but that’s just my own opinion on the matter. Thanks for anyone reading this!
 
Chobits said:
Absolutely not in my world.
Whatever happened to equality and fairness to the women???

In a rigid sense I think not, the surface may have changed for males wanting to exchange words with other lesbian’s but they are what they are. On a personal level I think it is right in any way.
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Totally agree. Males in a female only room can only have bad intentions
 
Raphaella said:
As a Mod if I'm called I'd kick a man out of that room
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lol paranoid luv. Admin and Chatmaster are both males so it should mean when they're in there they're up to no good? Narrow thinking.

All these presumptive conclusions gosh.

I mean what would a guy wonna do in a full lesbian chat room on a lengthy basis or at all for sure but eh, they got no chance lol.
 
Blether said:
lol paranoid luv. Admin and Chatmaster are both males so it should mean when they're in there they're up to no good? Narrow thinking.

All these presumptive conclusions gosh.

I mean what would a guy wonna do in a full lesbian chat room on a lengthy basis or at all for sure but eh, they got no chance lol.
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Maybe just to cause issues is what normally it is
 
Raphaella said:
Maybe just to cause issues is what normally it is
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Car Stealing GIF
 
TheEridianNinja said:
I can't imagine a male has any good intentions in Lesbian chat, just like how I wouldn't expect a female in Gay chat to have any good intentions. However:
- Some femboys are listed as female in Gay Chat
- Some trans-women are listed as female in Gay Chat
So we can't blindly kick female-listed people because they might have legitimate reason to be there - some gay men are still into trans-women, so it wouldn't make sense to remove them entirely.

Just consider this when factoring in your opinion. It's valid, but not everything is black and white (especially in the LGBT community)
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It's kind of complicated isnt it.

"I can't imagine a male has any good intentions in Lesbian chat"
- so are you saying that males are males then? fundamentally different from females?

(by and large i agree with you, just playing devils advocate).

and on the other hand, I have a couple of female friends who hang out on gaychat because they find it more peaceful and less toxic than lesbian chat. (ofc i dont know if they are female, but i kinda trust them. people are more honest on gay chat i think).
(I'm friendly with loads of trans ppl, and ppl who feel differently, btw. I don't think it makes sense, but i'm happy to be friendly with lots of people.

'Lesbian' chat is full of self-hating toxic males, anyway.
(and yes, before u ask, I've checked it out, out of curiosity, and it was dreadful).
 
We can only try. If it says female only room that's what it should be. It's not for us to dig into everyone's profiles to manage this room.
 
RandomGuyUK said:
It's kind of complicated isnt it.

"I can't imagine a male has any good intentions in Lesbian chat"
- so are you saying that males are males then? fundamentally different from females?
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I want it noted that I specifically said that femboys and trans-women in Gay Chat tend to be somewhat popular, and I can't imagine it's different in Lesbian Chat with trans-men and tomboys.

I specifically mentioned my opinion with gender-curious or gender-vague people, and you brought a discussion about trans people across threads to this one, which largely has nothing to do with trans people.
 
TheEridianNinja said:
I want it noted that I specifically said that femboys and trans-women in Gay Chat tend to be somewhat popular, and I can't imagine it's different in Lesbian Chat with trans-men and tomboys.

I specifically mentioned my opinion with gender-curious or gender-vague people, and you brought a discussion about trans people across threads to this one, which largely has nothing to do with trans people.
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"gender-curious or gender-vague people ... largely has nothing to do with trans people."

If you like.
Logic isnt your strong-point then, I see.

LGBT (IQA blah blah) - alphabet soup --- includes all so-called gender vague/curious people.

PS it's all inter-related subjects. don't you think some MALES pretend to be women, and infest lesbian chat like viruses?
whether trans or not, they definitely do. It's called 'the internet', dude.
(I dont like it) but it's how it is.
 
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