Should we allow people who are male in lesbian chat?

Not even Chat Avenue has the sever capacity to create a distinct space for every politically correct definition/variation of “lesbian” that some long-winded forums author can spin. And to the best of my knowledge, technology has yet to bless us with the Anatomy-o-Meter so that each chatter can biometrically vouchsafe his gender as assigned at birth or the operating table. There simply is no way, and will never be, to keep men out—so the laziest and only thing to do is to state “men are allowed here.”

As a logical and tragic result, Les Chat has become a dumping ground: femboys proudly tout their offerings; straight, married “curious” women go there to sext with one another; males of every ilk are titillated by the mere word “lesbian” and go to convert other males pretending to be lesbians; poachers from “sex sites”/competing sites openly prey on the uninitiated—unchecked—and spammers and scammers have found refuge in the site that CA abandoned eons ago.

Another recent post on Forums was asking where the lesbians are? They’ve been driven away to other online platforms because Lesbian Chat has become a place where lesbians are the distinct minority. And wading through the catfish, bored housewives, and femboys just to have a decent conversation or a laugh or two isn’t worth the seizure-inducing spam, overt racism, and exposure to filth that would make Urban Dictionary cringe and blush—all as the site rules remind us every so often that “this is NOT a sex site.”
 
As a gay male, I wouldnt even think of stepping in lesbian chat. Nothing against lesbians, but its just not my thing obviously. Men should stick to mens chat and women should stick to womens chat.
 
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