Should we allow people who are male in lesbian chat?

Not even Chat Avenue has the sever capacity to create a distinct space for every politically correct definition/variation of “lesbian” that some long-winded forums author can spin. And to the best of my knowledge, technology has yet to bless us with the Anatomy-o-Meter so that each chatter can biometrically vouchsafe his gender as assigned at birth or the operating table. There simply is no way, and will never be, to keep men out—so the laziest and only thing to do is to state “men are allowed here.”

As a logical and tragic result, Les Chat has become a dumping ground: femboys proudly tout their offerings; straight, married “curious” women go there to sext with one another; males of every ilk are titillated by the mere word “lesbian” and go to convert other males pretending to be lesbians; poachers from “sex sites”/competing sites openly prey on the uninitiated—unchecked—and spammers and scammers have found refuge in the site that CA abandoned eons ago.

Another recent post on Forums was asking where the lesbians are? They’ve been driven away to other online platforms because Lesbian Chat has become a place where lesbians are the distinct minority. And wading through the catfish, bored housewives, and femboys just to have a decent conversation or a laugh or two isn’t worth the seizure-inducing spam, overt racism, and exposure to filth that would make Urban Dictionary cringe and blush—all as the site rules remind us every so often that “this is NOT a sex site.”
 
Bear42 said:
As a gay male, I wouldnt even think of stepping in lesbian chat. Nothing against lesbians, but its just not my thing obviously. Men should stick to mens chat and women should stick to womens chat.
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A lot of them are nut jobs in that room that room is always dead for the past 2 years LMAO 🤣 idk how folks even date inside that room ,plus there's loads of perverse dudes bombarding main and people pms with inappropriate choice of words.

I would see both genders asking for a girlfriend and love in main alot .I'm like go find that **** in real life instead rather,you probably got a better chance up on ebayyyyy to find someone loooooooool then in that room.

Gay men are wayyyyyy better and more interesting in my eyes. I have two gay cousins and gay guy friends I grew up with. I've always been a "Ally" to the gay community since a child, and always showed my support for them, they rule.

I'm glad they taught me how to "Vogue" when I was young. Cause alot of gay men know how to dance and are stylish, and very good designers ,and fashion icons
They will dress a person up like they are about to be in a fashion show they slay.

They make a woman look good and everytime I would dress up even if I wore a corset,my cousins would be so happy for me and hyping me up, and say omg you look so beautiful that corset or that dress omg lol
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We always listened to The Queen of Pop Madonna together too lol cause every gay guy loves Madonna and some vogue we paid homage.

I prefer to hang with gay men at least they won't like me, or obsess over me maybe I should pop in the gay room and see who's in there lol I'm easy to get along well with and I gel well with gay guys.

If I was also a guy ,I wouldn't even step foot in Les chat or date anyone in there either. There's also nothing in that room for anyone ,it's very boring and people will only waste their time there for sure 🤣nobody talks there and knows how to form a single sentence nor a conversation or is interesting🤣

Btw my favorite gay men are Matt bomer, perfume genius and Ricky Martin😎
 
C@T@$TROPHE said:
A lot of them are nut jobs in that room that room is always dead for the past 2 years LMAO 🤣 idk how folks even date inside that room ,plus there's loads of perverse dudes bombarding main and people pms with inappropriate choice of words.

I would see both genders asking for a girlfriend and love in main alot .I'm like go find that **** in real life instead rather,you probably got a better chance up on ebayyyyy to find someone loooooooool then in that room.

Gay men are wayyyyyy better and more interesting in my eyes. I have two gay cousins and gay guy friends I grew up with. I've always been a "Ally" to the gay community since a child, and always showed my support for them, they rule.

I'm glad they taught me how to "Vogue" when I was young. Cause alot of gay men know how to dance and are stylish, and very good designers ,and fashion icons
They will dress a person up like they are about to be in a fashion show they slay.

They make a woman look good and everytime I would dress up even if I wore a corset,my cousins would be so happy for me and hyping me up, and say omg you look so beautiful that corset or that dress omg lol
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We always listened to The Queen of Pop Madonna together too lol cause every gay guy loves Madonna and some vogue we paid homage.

I prefer to hang with gay men at least they won't like me, or obsess over me maybe I should pop in the gay room and see who's in there lol I'm easy to get along well with and I gel well with gay guys.

If I was also a guy ,I wouldn't even step foot in Les chat or date anyone in there either. There's also nothing in that room for anyone ,it's very boring and people will only waste their time there for sure 🤣nobody talks there and knows how to form a single sentence nor a conversation or is interesting🤣

Btw my favorite gay men are Matt bomer, perfume genius and Ricky Martin😎
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Gay chat is mostly guys asking for various forms of sex and rp. There are very few guys (at least that I have seen) that are there to actually talk.
 
Bear42 said:
Gay chat is mostly guys asking for various forms of sex and rp. There are very few guys (at least that I have seen) that are there to actually talk.
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I think in most of the rooms ,there's a lot of perverts roaming around in it, and asking for all kinds of disgusting/inappropriate stuff.

It's rare to see someone who wants to just actually chat ,and asks for nothing else.
 
Last year. I was asked to mod for gay chat , a mod pm me asking me if I was interested in modding , and told me they had availability and needed to fill spots up.

They had 6 spots to fill,but I didn't apply because I own my own sites, and staff in other chatsites owned by friends. I wouldn't want to be mod ,nor mod for this chatsite so I didn't apply.
 
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