If youre a straight woman, and your partner has sex with a man, is he gay or is he still straight?

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Im not asking if he's bisexual because bisexual would imply he's still into both sexes.

Im asking if you as a straight woman would believe he's straight after knowing he has commited gay acts with a man. Assuming he has already confessed to having sex with a gay man in his past.

Would you continue the relationship as if the gay acts never happened. Or would it instill an unsettling amount of doubt he's never been straight?

iE. Does your perspective of their sexuality change simply because they say it's changed? Or should their history matter?
 
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My boyfriend's pansexual openly. Most of my relationships have been with bi and pansexuals. If I am with a man and he tells me he's having sex with other men during the relationship and it's monogamous then I'd against the cheating more than questioning his sexuality. I'd like to think we're in a good enough relationship that he'd feel safe to just not have hang ups about his MLM experiences in the past. It would change nothing. I wouldn't feel insecure at all about the relationship. In fact we'd just have fun experiences to share.
 
Chaotica_x0x said:
If I am with a man and he tells me he's having sex with other men during the relationship and it's monogamous then I'd against the cheating more than questioning his sexuality. I'd like to think we're in a good enough relationship that he'd feel safe to just not have hang ups about his MLM experiences in the past. It would change nothing. I wouldn't feel insecure at all about the relationship. In fact we'd just have fun experiences to share.
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That's why I specifically stated this in the OP
Bread. said:
Im asking if you as a straight woman would believe he's straight after knowing he has commited gay acts with a man. Assuming he has already confessed to having sex with a gay man in his past.
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Because straight women aren't pansexual/bi therefore they don't have the same moral values.
Bread. said:
iE. Does your perspective of their sexuality change simply because they say it's changed? Or should their history matter?
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I specifically did not want this to be a topic of cheating.

The question is,
If your boyfriend has had sex with a guys peepee in the past but you didn't know, is it going to change your perspective of how you perceive him as a man in your current hetero relationship? If you all of a sudden found out he had?

- both him as a man as well as the straight orientation he claims to be.
 
Bread. said:
The question is,
If your boyfriend has had sex with a guys peepee in the past but you didn't know, is it going to change your perspective of how you perceive him as a man in your current hetero relationship? If you all of a sudden found out he had?

- both him as a man as well as the straight orientation he claims to be.
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I'd like to request more information. How would someone's past sexual experiences impact how you perceive their gender?
 
LostCause. said:
I'd like to request more information. How would someone's past sexual experiences impact how you perceive their gender?
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I don't know I'm not a woman.

But as a man, if I were to find out a guy that is seemingly In a hetero monogamous relationship, has sucked a **** before, done gay sex I would say he's still gay.

Straight men don't suck dicks, ever.

You can't unsuck a ****. So even if they said they were straight I wouldn't necessarily believe it.
 
Bread. said:
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That's an app for gays and I'm not gay
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The fact that you’ve taken an app “test” is enough to tell anyone enough about your sexuality. Why don’t you start a thread called “Is Bread gay?” Or “Is Bread straight?”

Bread. said:
Im not asking if he's bisexual because bisexual would imply he's still into both sexes.

Im asking if you as a straight woman would believe he's straight after knowing he has commited gay acts with a man. Assuming he has already confessed to having sex with a gay man in his past.
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The bit I’ve highlighted kinda undermines your whole debate question
 
Bread. said:
I don't know I'm not a woman.

But as a man, if I were to find out a guy that is seemingly In a hetero monogamous relationship, has sucked a **** before, done gay sex I would say he's still gay.

Straight men don't suck dicks, ever.

You can't unsuck a ****. So even if they said they were straight I wouldn't necessarily believe it.
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What I understand your post to say is that if a man performed sexual acts in his past with someone of the same sex, that would impact your perception of his sexuality. What it does not answer is how that would impact your perception of his gender. You're asking here if a straight woman's perception of him as a man would change:
Bread. said:
The question is,
If your boyfriend has had sex with a guys peepee in the past but you didn't know, is it going to change your perspective of how you perceive him as a man in your current hetero relationship? If you all of a sudden found out he had?

- both him as a man as well as the straight orientation he claims to be.
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And I still would like to understand how someone's past sexual experiences would impact how you perceive their gender. If you could please elaborate on this, I would appreciate it. I understand that you're not a woman, but you wouldn't ask the question unless you thought it was a consideration, so please elaborate.
 
Bread. said:
But as a man, if I were to find out a guy that is seemingly In a hetero monogamous relationship, has sucked a **** before, done gay sex I would say he's still gay.

Straight men don't suck dicks, ever.

You can't unsuck a ****. So even if they said they were straight I wouldn't necessarily believe it.
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Furthermore, if you flip the scenario, does the same logic apply? If you were to find out a guy that is seemingly in a homosexual monogamous relationship has ****ed a **** before or had straight relations, would you say he's straight? After all, gay men don't **** ****, ever. You can't un**** a ****. So even if they said they were gay, would you believe it?
 
Inkandtatts said:
The fact that you’ve taken an app “test” is enough to tell anyone enough about your sexuality. Why don’t you start a thread called “Is Bread gay?” Or “Is Bread straight?”
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Because I'm not soup LOL.

I already knew I was going to ace the test that's why I took it. Because I know I'm not gay. U mad?
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The bit I’ve highlighted kinda undermines your whole debate question
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? Elaborate
 
LostCause. said:
What I understand your post to say is that if a man performed sexual acts in his past with someone of the same sex, that would impact your perception of his sexuality. What it does not answer is how that would impact your perception of his gender. You're asking here if a straight woman's perception of him as a man would change:
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LostCause. said:
And I still would like to understand how someone's past sexual experiences would impact how you perceive their gender. If you could please elaborate on this, I would appreciate it. I understand that you're not a woman, but you wouldn't ask the question unless you thought it was a consideration, so please elaborate.
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When I asked straight women if you'd still think he's a man, I meant in response to his sexuality.

Regardless, real men don't do gay stuff. By real men I mean straight men.

LostCause. said:
Furthermore, if you flip the scenario, does the same logic apply? If you were to find out a guy that is seemingly in a homosexual monogamous relationship has ****ed a **** before or had straight relations, would you say he's straight? After all, gay men don't **** ****, ever. You can't un**** a ****. So even if they said they were gay, would you believe it?
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Not sure wym. Are you asking if a woman who ate poon is considered straight?

Are you telling me women and men are equals?
 
Inkandtatts said:
You be whatever you want to be and whatever your apps tell you that you are, while the rest of us don’t need apps - we just know.
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1. It's a quiz not an app. I would never install any gay apps on my device.

2. I already know what my sexuality is I am just using a quiz to display it because you guys can't accept the truth. That's why you guys keep harassing me and telling me I'm gay. Are you that afraid of straight men?
 
Bread. said:
When I asked straight women if you'd still think he's a man, I meant in response to his sexuality.

Regardless, real men don't do gay stuff. By real men I mean straight men.
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Says the guy who’s obsessed with gays and every indication is that you want a real man to show you a good time

As others have said, you might find that giving in to those feelings will set you free

Bread. said:
When I asked straight women if you'd still think he's a man, I meant in response to his sexuality.

Regardless, real men don't do gay stuff. By real men I mean straight men.


Not sure wym. Are you asking if a woman who ate poon is considered straight?

Are you telling me women and men are equals?
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^^^ I think the vulgarity and the various hate speech shown here is enough to demonstrate that this person has created these “debates” to spread his hate alongside his twisted sexual appetite
 
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