-Luka
Platinum Member
Correct it’s not. Her response wasn’t homophobic. I don’t see you as homophobic. And I also get you when you say “when I say it it’s homophobic”- hello you’re talking to probably the biggest “gay homophobe” again, subjective so I know and a few others do know what it’s like to get the homophobe bigot comments etcI mean youre right it is subjective, which is why I wanted to hear people's responses.
But you saying that doesn't make you a heterophobe(term that doesn't exist) much like it wouldn't make a woman a homophobe.
But me saying it is homophobic because people don't like me.
Its hard to say whether that would be enough to justify ending a relationship. That's all dependant on the individuals involved.
I don't think sexuality is as easy as saying youre gay one day and straight the next or as easy as saying you're straight when you have a history of plowing guys butts.
Your question has clearly been translated in a multitude of ways again proving subjective. But as you’ve said it’s personal and want people’s responses you can expect the usual. Same as they should hopefully expect the same.
I’m all for this gay **** for/against etc I’m constantly arguing it and constantly banned lol. The words pertaining to “phobic” particularly piss me off because I’m not scared. What. So. Ever.
The only phobia stems from the ones offended but that’s another story.