If youre a straight woman, and your partner has sex with a man, is he gay or is he still straight?

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Im not asking if he's bisexual because bisexual would imply he's still into both sexes.

Im asking if you as a straight woman would believe he's straight after knowing he has commited gay acts with a man. Assuming he has already confessed to having sex with a gay man in his past.

Would you continue the relationship as if the gay acts never happened. Or would it instill an unsettling amount of doubt he's never been straight?

iE. Does your perspective of their sexuality change simply because they say it's changed? Or should their history matter?
 
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My boyfriend's pansexual openly. Most of my relationships have been with bi and pansexuals. If I am with a man and he tells me he's having sex with other men during the relationship and it's monogamous then I'd against the cheating more than questioning his sexuality. I'd like to think we're in a good enough relationship that he'd feel safe to just not have hang ups about his MLM experiences in the past. It would change nothing. I wouldn't feel insecure at all about the relationship. In fact we'd just have fun experiences to share.
 
Chaotica_x0x said:
If I am with a man and he tells me he's having sex with other men during the relationship and it's monogamous then I'd against the cheating more than questioning his sexuality. I'd like to think we're in a good enough relationship that he'd feel safe to just not have hang ups about his MLM experiences in the past. It would change nothing. I wouldn't feel insecure at all about the relationship. In fact we'd just have fun experiences to share.
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That's why I specifically stated this in the OP
Bread. said:
Im asking if you as a straight woman would believe he's straight after knowing he has commited gay acts with a man. Assuming he has already confessed to having sex with a gay man in his past.
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Because straight women aren't pansexual/bi therefore they don't have the same moral values.
Bread. said:
iE. Does your perspective of their sexuality change simply because they say it's changed? Or should their history matter?
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I specifically did not want this to be a topic of cheating.

The question is,
If your boyfriend has had sex with a guys peepee in the past but you didn't know, is it going to change your perspective of how you perceive him as a man in your current hetero relationship? If you all of a sudden found out he had?

- both him as a man as well as the straight orientation he claims to be.
 
Bread. said:
The question is,
If your boyfriend has had sex with a guys peepee in the past but you didn't know, is it going to change your perspective of how you perceive him as a man in your current hetero relationship? If you all of a sudden found out he had?

- both him as a man as well as the straight orientation he claims to be.
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I'd like to request more information. How would someone's past sexual experiences impact how you perceive their gender?
 
LostCause. said:
I'd like to request more information. How would someone's past sexual experiences impact how you perceive their gender?
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I don't know I'm not a woman.

But as a man, if I were to find out a guy that is seemingly In a hetero monogamous relationship, has sucked a **** before, done gay sex I would say he's still gay.

Straight men don't suck dicks, ever.

You can't unsuck a ****. So even if they said they were straight I wouldn't necessarily believe it.
 
Bread. said:
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That's an app for gays and I'm not gay
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The fact that you’ve taken an app “test” is enough to tell anyone enough about your sexuality. Why don’t you start a thread called “Is Bread gay?” Or “Is Bread straight?”

Bread. said:
Im not asking if he's bisexual because bisexual would imply he's still into both sexes.

Im asking if you as a straight woman would believe he's straight after knowing he has commited gay acts with a man. Assuming he has already confessed to having sex with a gay man in his past.
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The bit I’ve highlighted kinda undermines your whole debate question
 
Bread. said:
I don't know I'm not a woman.

But as a man, if I were to find out a guy that is seemingly In a hetero monogamous relationship, has sucked a **** before, done gay sex I would say he's still gay.

Straight men don't suck dicks, ever.

You can't unsuck a ****. So even if they said they were straight I wouldn't necessarily believe it.
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What I understand your post to say is that if a man performed sexual acts in his past with someone of the same sex, that would impact your perception of his sexuality. What it does not answer is how that would impact your perception of his gender. You're asking here if a straight woman's perception of him as a man would change:
Bread. said:
The question is,
If your boyfriend has had sex with a guys peepee in the past but you didn't know, is it going to change your perspective of how you perceive him as a man in your current hetero relationship? If you all of a sudden found out he had?

- both him as a man as well as the straight orientation he claims to be.
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And I still would like to understand how someone's past sexual experiences would impact how you perceive their gender. If you could please elaborate on this, I would appreciate it. I understand that you're not a woman, but you wouldn't ask the question unless you thought it was a consideration, so please elaborate.
 
Bread. said:
But as a man, if I were to find out a guy that is seemingly In a hetero monogamous relationship, has sucked a **** before, done gay sex I would say he's still gay.

Straight men don't suck dicks, ever.

You can't unsuck a ****. So even if they said they were straight I wouldn't necessarily believe it.
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Furthermore, if you flip the scenario, does the same logic apply? If you were to find out a guy that is seemingly in a homosexual monogamous relationship has ****ed a **** before or had straight relations, would you say he's straight? After all, gay men don't **** ****, ever. You can't un**** a ****. So even if they said they were gay, would you believe it?
 
Inkandtatts said:
The fact that you’ve taken an app “test” is enough to tell anyone enough about your sexuality. Why don’t you start a thread called “Is Bread gay?” Or “Is Bread straight?”
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Because I'm not soup LOL.

I already knew I was going to ace the test that's why I took it. Because I know I'm not gay. U mad?
Inkandtatts said:
The bit I’ve highlighted kinda undermines your whole debate question
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? Elaborate
 
LostCause. said:
What I understand your post to say is that if a man performed sexual acts in his past with someone of the same sex, that would impact your perception of his sexuality. What it does not answer is how that would impact your perception of his gender. You're asking here if a straight woman's perception of him as a man would change:
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LostCause. said:
And I still would like to understand how someone's past sexual experiences would impact how you perceive their gender. If you could please elaborate on this, I would appreciate it. I understand that you're not a woman, but you wouldn't ask the question unless you thought it was a consideration, so please elaborate.
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When I asked straight women if you'd still think he's a man, I meant in response to his sexuality.

Regardless, real men don't do gay stuff. By real men I mean straight men.

LostCause. said:
Furthermore, if you flip the scenario, does the same logic apply? If you were to find out a guy that is seemingly in a homosexual monogamous relationship has ****ed a **** before or had straight relations, would you say he's straight? After all, gay men don't **** ****, ever. You can't un**** a ****. So even if they said they were gay, would you believe it?
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Not sure wym. Are you asking if a woman who ate poon is considered straight?

Are you telling me women and men are equals?
 
Inkandtatts said:
You be whatever you want to be and whatever your apps tell you that you are, while the rest of us don’t need apps - we just know.
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1. It's a quiz not an app. I would never install any gay apps on my device.

2. I already know what my sexuality is I am just using a quiz to display it because you guys can't accept the truth. That's why you guys keep harassing me and telling me I'm gay. Are you that afraid of straight men?
 
Bread. said:
When I asked straight women if you'd still think he's a man, I meant in response to his sexuality.

Regardless, real men don't do gay stuff. By real men I mean straight men.
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Says the guy who’s obsessed with gays and every indication is that you want a real man to show you a good time

As others have said, you might find that giving in to those feelings will set you free

Bread. said:
When I asked straight women if you'd still think he's a man, I meant in response to his sexuality.

Regardless, real men don't do gay stuff. By real men I mean straight men.


Not sure wym. Are you asking if a woman who ate poon is considered straight?

Are you telling me women and men are equals?
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^^^ I think the vulgarity and the various hate speech shown here is enough to demonstrate that this person has created these “debates” to spread his hate alongside his twisted sexual appetite
 
Bread. said:
Didn't you tell me 8 posts ago you don't care about anything? Yet you're still here replying.
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I don’t care about your sexuality, Bread. I care about your confidence and your self-esteem. Denial eats away at you slowly. It drives you crazy. Just be yourself. I accept you.
 
Finn2.0 said:
I don’t care about your sexuality, Bread. I care about your confidence and your self-esteem. Denial eats away at you slowly. It drives you crazy. Just be yourself. I accept you.
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Not sure what you're taking about. I'm not the one making threads quoting 80 things without context. Seems like someones driving ink crazy
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The same people that tell me I'm a homophobe tell me I'm gay. I know what I am and it's not a gay or a homophobe but keep entertaining me.

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Everyone else is afraid to take these quizes because they're afraid of how the public will perceive them.

I am me.
 
Bread. said:
Everyone else is afraid to take these quizes because they're afraid of how the public will perceive them.

I am me.
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Nobody else feels the need to have their sexuality confirmed by some dodgy online quiz. The only ones that do are those that are questioning their own sexuality or their own beliefs.

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Bread. said:
Not sure wym. Are you asking if a woman who ate poon is considered straight?
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I wasn't asking about women in my question. I'll post it below for reference.
LostCause. said:
Furthermore, if you flip the scenario, does the same logic apply? If you were to find out a guy that is seemingly in a homosexual monogamous relationship has ****ed a **** before or had straight relations, would you say he's straight? After all, gay men don't **** ****, ever. You can't un**** a ****. So even if they said they were gay, would you believe it?
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My question was, if you applied the same logic that you did in this post to a gay man:
Bread. said:
But as a man, if I were to find out a guy that is seemingly In a hetero monogamous relationship, has sucked a **** before, done gay sex I would say he's still gay.

Straight men don't suck dicks, ever.

You can't unsuck a ****. So even if they said they were straight I wouldn't necessarily believe it.
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As in, if a gay man performed heterosexual acts, by your logic, would he be considered straight?
 
The reason bisexuality is dismissed in the first is clear:
The OP erases the possibility of being bisexual by the way the question is asked. The usual boring biphobia. "You can't like both." "Either gay or straight"

Like the solution is easy. "Oh my partner isn't completely straight I guess he's pan/bisexual. Cool. This has no further impact on the relationship so we'll just move on."
 
Bread. said:
Im not asking if he's bisexual because bisexual would imply he's still into both sexes.

Im asking if you as a straight woman would believe he's straight after knowing he has commited gay acts with a man. Assuming he has already confessed to having sex with a gay man in his past.

Would you continue the relationship as if the gay acts never happened. Or would it instill an unsettling amount of doubt he's never been straight?

iE. Does your perspective of their sexuality change simply because they say it's changed? Or should their history matter?
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To actually answer the topic of this thread... Whether I'm a girlie, gay, or they, the gender of my partner's previous intimate partners would not have an impact as to whether or not I continued the relationship. All past partners are in the past for a reason, and my primary concern about who they've had relations with prior to me is whether or not they test clean.

It would likewise not impact my view of their sexuality because a) it's not up to me to determine their sexuality and b) it doesn't actually matter what their sexuality is. They could have spent their entire life up until now having relations with partners that are the opposite gender of me and it wouldn't matter. If they're here with me now and enjoy their time with me now, that's all that matters now.
 
Bread. said:
They don't tell me who I am they just reinforce what I already know.
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LostCause. said:
I wasn't asking about women in my question. I'll post it below for reference.

My question was, if you applied the same logic that you did in this post to a gay man:

As in, if a gay man performed heterosexual acts, by your logic, would he be considered straight?
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People aren't born gay so would say he can no longer be straight because he's gay now
 
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i mean...the people i'm attracted to and that i've had sex with is probably a lot more accurate than an online quiz to determine my sexuality. so not sure the point of taking one
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Same. Quizzes are for fun mostly.

As I've stated they don't determine my sexuality, or my homophobia, or my Asperger's, or my autism. (When I say my, its as an individual not that I agree I have these traits)They just agree with what I already know.
 
Chaotica_x0x said:
The reason bisexuality is dismissed in the first is clear:
The OP erases the possibility of being bisexual by the way the question is asked. The usual boring biphobia. "You can't like both." "Either gay or straight"

Like the solution is easy. "Oh my partner isn't completely straight I guess he's pan/bisexual. Cool. This has no further impact on the relationship so we'll just move on."
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The reason I stated is in the beginning. If hes still currently doing male to male activities then by all implications, if he's currently with a female it means he's bi.

My question was in regards to gays/straights not bis.
 
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LostCause. said:
To actually answer the topic of this thread... Whether I'm a girlie, gay, or they, the gender of my partner's previous intimate partners would not have an impact as to whether or not I continued the relationship. All past partners are in the past for a reason, and my primary concern about who they've had relations with prior to me is whether or not they test clean.

It would likewise not impact my view of their sexuality because a) it's not up to me to determine their sexuality and b) it doesn't actually matter what their sexuality is. They could have spent their entire life up until now having relations with partners that are the opposite gender of me and it wouldn't matter. If they're here with me now and enjoy their time with me now, that's all that matters now.
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The thing is you can't answer the question because you don't have the same moral values. Therefore your opinion is biased.

It's kind of like if I ask a bunch of gay people if they think child grooming in bdsm parades is ok. They're all going to say yes (bias).
 
I would assume you guys will all bash a straight woman that says they agree their "hetero" male SO is gay and she won't stand for that, just like you are bashing me?

And call her homophobic?
 
Bread. said:
It's kind of like if I ask a bunch of gay people if they think child grooming in bdsm parades is ok. They're all going to say yes (bias).
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Special kind of stupid to think a Pride March is a “bdsm parade”.

Come back when you’ve counted all the kids that have been groomed and abused by priests, nuns, and other religious nutjobs over the years - and that’s men and women abusing both sexes, all in the name of your Father. Idiot.
 
I'm sure you can find statistics somewhere and it probably outweighs gay abuse because 95% of the world is straight
 
Bread. said:
I'm sure you can find statistics somewhere and it probably outweighs gay abuse because 95% of the world is straight
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It’s not gay/straight abuse. Abuse is abuse whoever inflicts it.

The fact that those who follow your Father that you’re in a relationship with should be enough for you to avoid generalising child abuse in the way that you have.

You claim a gay pride march is a child grooming bdsm parade. I could claim that a church service is a grooming event for Christians to pick out which kid they’re going to abuse. That claim, should I make it, would carry far much more weight since there is plenty of evidence of it happening and plenty of evidence that it’s not just the odd rogue priest - there have been whole coverups by those higher up.

Let he without sin cast the first stone
 
Inkandtatts said:
It’s not gay/straight abuse. Abuse is abuse whoever inflicts it.

The fact that those who follow your Father that you’re in a relationship with should be enough for you to avoid generalising child abuse in the way that you have.

You claim a gay pride march is a child grooming bdsm parade. I could claim that a church service is a grooming event for Christians to pick out which kid they’re going to abuse. That claim, should I make it, would carry far much more weight since there is plenty of evidence of it happening and plenty of evidence that it’s not just the odd rogue priest - there have been whole coverups by those higher up.

Let he without sin cast the first stone
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I don't worship çhild rapists but keep trying to say that I am. Sounds like you're projecting some fantasies
 
Bread. said:
I don't worship çhild rapists but keep trying to say that I am
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He that you worship (your Father that you’re in a relationship with) has within his House many many child rapists. There’s no escaping that. That’s not the same as saying you worship those people.

Bread. said:
Sounds like you're projecting some fantasies
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Oh honey, your whole presence on here is a series of projections. We all know that. As long as they’re legal, nobody is going to hate you for it. Jesus still loves you.

Only when someone knows they’re losing an argument do they stoop as low as you just have

#MasturbatorNotMasterDebater
 
Bread. said:
Likewise there is rapists in your special community what is your point? People rape?
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No, and if you can’t work out the point then that’s okay but I’m not going to explain it to you. Live and let live, sweetie
 
Inkandtatts said:
when someone knows they’re losing an argument do they stoop as low as you just have

#MasturbatorNotMasterDebater
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LOL at your hypocrisy.

Funny enough this thread isn't a debate.

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Look who started implying users rape children on page 2 of a debate
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You know you're losing an argument on page 2 so you stoop to this.
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Bread. said:
LOL at your hypocrisy.

Funny enough this thread isn't a debate.

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You know you're losing an argument on page 2 so you stoop to this.
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That’s a fact, not an implication about you. You may have taken it that way. That’s your choice; your Father gave you free will while requiring you to worship him and while you’re massdebating on an internet forum.

Bread. said:
Waiting for your point
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You’re the type who’d go in search of a long wait
 
Bread. said:
Likewise there is rapists in your special community what is your point? People rape?
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Nah brah, there's a statistically significant amount of church based predators who are institutionally covered for, moved around, and blocked from accountability. From evangelicals, to Jehovah's Witnesses and especially the Catholic Church.

Plus there's the sus push by some evangelical church to allow for child marriages. Ew. **** Cons. Also Matt Gaetz exists.
 
I wait for God's Return

At which point he will cast a rain of fire on sinners like he did on Sodom and Gomorrah.
 
Chaotica_x0x said:
Nah brah, there's a statistically significant amount of church based predators who are institutionally covered for, moved around, and blocked from accountability. From evangelicals, to Jehovah's Witnesses and especially the Catholic Church.

Plus there's the sus push by some evangelical church to allow for child marriages. Ew. **** Cons. Also Matt Gaetz exists.
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What's your point? People commit sin ?

I already know that and it's because of Satan.

These people deserve to burn in a lake of fire no matter if they're evangelist, Catholic etc..

But you guys keep implying I support them

Satan is the Lord of deception.
 
Bread. said:
What's your point? People commit sin ?

I already know that and it's because of Satan.

These people deserve to burn in a lake of fire no matter if they're evangelist, Catholic etc..

But you guys keep implying I support them

Satan is the Lord of deception.
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You put forward the groomer liable (similar to Blood Liable) and myth that's been used to persecute my people as if Christian institutions are not just centers of child abuse and indoctrination into a death cult. That's why.
 
Bread. said:
The question says hetero monogamous relationship and talks about a persons history.
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History can also repeat itself. Which would then make your original question more
Plausible.

Don’t live in the past, maybe? Hypothetical situation or not.
 
Chaotica_x0x said:
You put forward the groomer liable (similar to Blood Liable) and myth that's been used to persecute my people as if Christian institutions are not just centers of child abuse and indoctrination into a death cult. That's why.
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Speak simple English
 
Luka said:
History can also repeat itself. Which would then make your original question more
Plausible.

Don’t live in the past, maybe? Hypothetical situation or not.
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So you agree that history repeats itself.

Therefore you would agree a person with a gay past would be unquestionably more likely to do something gay compared to a straight male In a straight monogamous relationship.
 
Bread. said:
So you agree that history repeats itself.

Therefore you would agree a person with a gay past would be unquestionably more likely to do something gay compared to a straight male In a straight monogamous relationship.
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Unquestionably isn’t the word of use.
People experiment (consenting adults!) if it’s not for them they wouldn’t do it again.

Been with more straight men than gay men, it happens more than you think and they go back to their wives. Same as wives would do. I think you’re trying to reason with the idea of a “man” rather than a straight “man”.
 
Bread. said:
Speak simple English
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Look up blood libel and Fascism and see why perpetuating the Groomer Libel in modern times is a similar myth made to dehumanize queer people enough to pass repressive legislation at best, and "lulz—Woodchipper" at worst.
 
Luka said:
Unquestionably isn’t the word of use.
People experiment (consenting adults!) if it’s not for them they wouldn’t do it again.

Been with more straight men than gay men, it happens more than you think and they go back to their wives. Same as wives would do. I think you’re trying to reason with the idea of a “man” rather than a straight “man”.
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I would argue those people ain't straight if they're having sex with you.

I'm reasoning both ideas.

For example everyone here is pretty much LGBT supporter so I know the responses are going to be skewed.

Yesterday I asked a woman I know to be straight and she said if she found out her husband had sucked a **** before she would dump his ass because that's gay. She isn't a homophobe.

Her perception of a man, probably much like mine, is that real men don't suck D.

I use the terms straight and MAN interchangeablly. A MAN is straight, though I know it takes 2 Men to be gay. Get it?
 
Chaotica_x0x said:
Look up blood libel and Fascism and see why perpetuating the Groomer Libel in modern times is a similar myth made to dehumanize queer people enough to pass repressive legislation at best, and "lulz—Woodchipper" at worst.
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Sounds like political stuff, I don't want to get into politics. This is a sexuality forum. Though you can pm if you want.

I don't think queer people are less than human if that answers anything
 
Bread. said:
I would argue those people ain't straight if they're having sex with you.

I'm reasoning both ideas.

For example everyone here is pretty much LGBT supporter so I know the responses are going to be skewed.

Yesterday I asked a woman I know to be straight and she said if she found out her husband had sucked a **** before she would dump his ass because that's gay. She isn't a homophobe.

Her perception of a man, probably much like mine, is that real men don't suck D.

I use the terms straight and MAN interchangeablly. A MAN is straight, though I know it takes 2 Men to be gay. Get it?
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I understand that. To me as an outsider, not as a woofter, but as a rational human being I think I’d have the same initial reaction as her. Doesn’t make her homophobic, no just because she says it’s gay. It is gay because it’s man on man. It’d be the same reaction if my male partner said they’d gone down to poonani land and I didn’t know. Yeah you bet your backside I’d be calling him all the fannybandits going. Would I care? Not enough to destroy a relationship; more ammo I have in the relationship the better.

It’s all subjective.

A man is straight until his inhibitions kick in. Same as women.
 
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Luka said:
I understand that. To me as an outsider, not as a woofter, but as a rational human being I think I’d have the same initial reaction as her. Doesn’t make her homophobic, no just because she says it’s gay. It is gay because it’s man on man. It’d be the same reaction if my male partner said they’d gone down to poonani land and I didn’t know. Yeah you bet your backside I’d be calling him all the fannybandits going. Would I care? Not enough to destroy a relationship; more ammo I have in the relationship the better.

It’s all subjective.

A man is straight until his inhibitions kick in. Same as women.
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I mean youre right it is subjective, which is why I wanted to hear people's responses.

But you saying that doesn't make you a heterophobe(term that doesn't exist) much like it wouldn't make a woman a homophobe.

But me saying it is homophobic because people don't like me.

Its hard to say whether that would be enough to justify ending a relationship. That's all dependant on the individuals involved.

I don't think sexuality is as easy as saying youre gay one day and straight the next or as easy as saying you're straight when you have a history of plowing guys butts.
 
Bread. said:
A gay man
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Bread. said:
I mean youre right it is subjective, which is why I wanted to hear people's responses.

But you saying that doesn't make you a heterophobe(term that doesn't exist) much like it wouldn't make a woman a homophobe.

But me saying it is homophobic because people don't like me.

Its hard to say whether that would be enough to justify ending a relationship. That's all dependant on the individuals involved.

I don't think sexuality is as easy as saying youre gay one day and straight the next or as easy as saying you're straight when you have a history of plowing guys butts.
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Correct it’s not. Her response wasn’t homophobic. I don’t see you as homophobic. And I also get you when you say “when I say it it’s homophobic”- hello you’re talking to probably the biggest “gay homophobe” again, subjective so I know and a few others do know what it’s like to get the homophobe bigot comments etc

Your question has clearly been translated in a multitude of ways again proving subjective. But as you’ve said it’s personal and want people’s responses you can expect the usual. Same as they should hopefully expect the same.


I’m all for this gay **** for/against etc I’m constantly arguing it and constantly banned lol. The words pertaining to “phobic” particularly piss me off because I’m not scared. What. So. Ever.

The only phobia stems from the ones offended but that’s another story.
 
little cindy lou who said:
And By That Analogy Professor Bread 🙄 You Are Stating That Gay Men Are Not "Real Men"

The American South Said That About African American Men Before The Civil Rights Act of 1964 "Negro" Men Were Called "Boy" ....

They Needed To Do That To Instill White Supremacy In Southern Society ...

So You Are Stating That Gay Men Are Not "Real" Men Because They Are Gay

And This Is How You Validate Heterosexual Supremacy Over Homosexuals ?

Gay Men Serve In The US Military And Have Died For This Country Wearing A US Military Uniform .. Sounds Like A "Real" Man To Me

Perhaps What You Should Expound Upon Is How YOU Determine What A "Real" Man Is Other Than Not Sucking D ...

Cause If That's All Ya Got Dahling Then.. You Don't Suck D .... You Just ..
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I don't think a woman would see them as such.

You are also steering this into a political debate by mentioning the military (govt).

Perhaps you can explain to me what you conclude to be a real man because everything i say is wrong since it's all subjective.
 
Luka said:
Correct it’s not. Her response wasn’t homophobic. I don’t see you as homophobic. And I also get you when you say “when I say it it’s homophobic”- hello you’re talking to probably the biggest “gay homophobe” again, subjective so I know and a few others do know what it’s like to get the homophobe bigot comments etc

Your question has clearly been translated in a multitude of ways again proving subjective. But as you’ve said it’s personal and want people’s responses you can expect the usual. Same as they should hopefully expect the same.
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Luka said:
I’m all for this gay **** for/against etc I’m constantly arguing it and constantly banned lol. The words pertaining to “phobic” particularly piss me off because I’m not scared. What. So. Ever.

The only phobia stems from the ones offended but that’s another story.
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Arguments are that homophobia is the fear of societal acceptance of gays, not actually gays themselves. But the reality is it's just a way for them to be able to retort in a hateful way.

It's self segration and the same views that colored people use to cause division and hate
 
Bread. said:
I don't think a woman would see them as such.


Perhaps you can explain to me what you conclude to be a real man
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A Real Man Accepts His Responsibilities In Life Such As His Responsibilities For Statements He Makes In An Online Forum

You Used The Designation "Real Man" For Heterosexual Men But Deny That To Homosexual Men Because They Suck D 🙄 Geeeezus ..SMH

A Woman See's A Handsome Marine In Uniform Then Finds Out He Likes Men Sexually .. Okay A Little Bit Of "Wish He Was Straight"

But He Sure Looks Good In His Marine Uniform .. Then He Goes Off To War And Gets Killed ...

But You Say "He Isn't A Real Man Because He Is Gay"

So I Guess The Medals For Bravery And Courage Under Fire Really Don't Mean Much To You

Because As You Say "He Isn't A Real Man .. He Is A Gay Man" ..... Like I Said .. You Don't Suck D ..

You Just ..
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Up late at night there’s plenty of things you can choose to do on the internet. Bread, lately, has been making threads like these.

That increase of brain activity during late night/sleep deprivation periods resulting in this kind of stuff just shows you’re in the closet, Bread. Deny it if you want and then when this thread devolves into insults and eventually locked, try not to make another thread like this immediately and if you want to (try and) convince us it’s not the truth.
 
Soundz123 said:
Up late at night there’s plenty of things you can choose to do on the internet. Bread, lately, has been making threads like these.

That increase of brain activity during late night/sleep deprivation periods resulting in this kind of stuff just shows you’re in the closet, Bread. Deny it if you want and then when this thread devolves into insults and eventually locked, try not to make another thread like this immediately and if you want to (try and) convince us it’s not the truth.
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Homophobia Test

The Homophobia Test is a scientifically validated instrument to measure homophobic tendencies along multiple empirical dimensions.
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I wanna see how many of you LGBT supporters ace the test
 
Bread. said:
Darth Erica lacks reading comprehension and context
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My reading skills are perfectly intact unlike your life skills. Try comprehending life beyond your own narrow world view and you might actually be a happier person. Who knows, you may even start to like yourself and find a hobby beyond shitposting on an Internet forum all day everyday 😉
 
Soundz123 said:
Up late at night there’s plenty of things you can choose to do on the internet. Bread, lately, has been making threads like these.

That increase of brain activity during late night/sleep deprivation periods resulting in this kind of stuff just shows you’re in the closet, Bread. Deny it if you want and then when this thread devolves into insults and eventually locked, try not to make another thread like this immediately and if you want to (try and) convince us it’s not the truth.
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Soundz and everyone who is LGBT is apparently a licensed and accredited sexologist.

The only person that can tell you your sexual orientation is YOU. Because sexual orientation is about YOUR beliefs and YOUR feelings(and choices LOL)

The only clinical affiliation people like soundz, Darth Erica, and inktats have is their diagnosed mental illnesses.

While you guys are here losing sleep about my "homophobia" I'm out enjoying my life, exploring, listening to live music and sipping on wine.

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https://imgur.com/OiCYqHY

But I'm the one that needs to "touch the grass" while you plebs are glued to your phones waiting for my next response .
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It’s ironic that Bread thinks more about gays than I do, thinks more about **** than I do, craves the attention of men and gays more than anyone on a pride march, is desperate for **** and salivates at the thought of having **** in his mouth and even creates this whole fantasy scenario that he’s decided to add to his massdebating schedule. I hope the few seconds of pleasure was worth it

Bread. said:
The only clinical affiliation people like soundz, Darth Erica, and inktats have is their diagnosed mental illnesses.
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It’s a well known fact that those suffering from mental illnesses turn to religion so perhaps that explains why your whole belief system is that of an ignorant waste of sperm
 
Bread. said:
Im not asking if he's bisexual because bisexual would imply he's still into both sexes.

Im asking if you as a straight woman would believe he's straight after knowing he has commited gay acts with a man. Assuming he has already confessed to having sex with a gay man in his past.

Would you continue the relationship as if the gay acts never happened. Or would it instill an unsettling amount of doubt he's never been straight?

iE. Does your perspective of their sexuality change simply because they say it's changed? Or should their history matter?
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Not only that...
The issue with dudes that insist on anal sex when in a relationship with a dudette is a huge red flag.
Since there is no difference between male/female anus, no one can guarantee you that one day the dude may switch.
 
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