If youre a straight woman, and your partner has sex with a man, is he gay or is he still straight?

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I mean youre right it is subjective, which is why I wanted to hear people's responses.

But you saying that doesn't make you a heterophobe(term that doesn't exist) much like it wouldn't make a woman a homophobe.

But me saying it is homophobic because people don't like me.

Its hard to say whether that would be enough to justify ending a relationship. That's all dependant on the individuals involved.

I don't think sexuality is as easy as saying youre gay one day and straight the next or as easy as saying you're straight when you have a history of plowing guys butts.
Correct it’s not. Her response wasn’t homophobic. I don’t see you as homophobic. And I also get you when you say “when I say it it’s homophobic”- hello you’re talking to probably the biggest “gay homophobe” again, subjective so I know and a few others do know what it’s like to get the homophobe bigot comments etc

Your question has clearly been translated in a multitude of ways again proving subjective. But as you’ve said it’s personal and want people’s responses you can expect the usual. Same as they should hopefully expect the same.


I’m all for this gay **** for/against etc I’m constantly arguing it and constantly banned lol. The words pertaining to “phobic” particularly piss me off because I’m not scared. What. So. Ever.

The only phobia stems from the ones offended but that’s another story.
 
And By That Analogy Professor Bread 🙄 You Are Stating That Gay Men Are Not "Real Men"

The American South Said That About African American Men Before The Civil Rights Act of 1964 "Negro" Men Were Called "Boy" ....

They Needed To Do That To Instill White Supremacy In Southern Society ...

So You Are Stating That Gay Men Are Not "Real" Men Because They Are Gay

And This Is How You Validate Heterosexual Supremacy Over Homosexuals ?

Gay Men Serve In The US Military And Have Died For This Country Wearing A US Military Uniform .. Sounds Like A "Real" Man To Me

Perhaps What You Should Expound Upon Is How YOU Determine What A "Real" Man Is Other Than Not Sucking D ...

Cause If That's All Ya Got Dahling Then.. You Don't Suck D .... You Just ..
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I don't think a woman would see them as such.

You are also steering this into a political debate by mentioning the military (govt).

Perhaps you can explain to me what you conclude to be a real man because everything i say is wrong since it's all subjective.
 
Correct it’s not. Her response wasn’t homophobic. I don’t see you as homophobic. And I also get you when you say “when I say it it’s homophobic”- hello you’re talking to probably the biggest “gay homophobe” again, subjective so I know and a few others do know what it’s like to get the homophobe bigot comments etc

Your question has clearly been translated in a multitude of ways again proving subjective. But as you’ve said it’s personal and want people’s responses you can expect the usual. Same as they should hopefully expect the same.
I’m all for this gay **** for/against etc I’m constantly arguing it and constantly banned lol. The words pertaining to “phobic” particularly piss me off because I’m not scared. What. So. Ever.

The only phobia stems from the ones offended but that’s another story.
Arguments are that homophobia is the fear of societal acceptance of gays, not actually gays themselves. But the reality is it's just a way for them to be able to retort in a hateful way.

It's self segration and the same views that colored people use to cause division and hate
 
I don't think a woman would see them as such.


Perhaps you can explain to me what you conclude to be a real man
A Real Man Accepts His Responsibilities In Life Such As His Responsibilities For Statements He Makes In An Online Forum

You Used The Designation "Real Man" For Heterosexual Men But Deny That To Homosexual Men Because They Suck D 🙄 Geeeezus ..SMH

A Woman See's A Handsome Marine In Uniform Then Finds Out He Likes Men Sexually .. Okay A Little Bit Of "Wish He Was Straight"

But He Sure Looks Good In His Marine Uniform .. Then He Goes Off To War And Gets Killed ...

But You Say "He Isn't A Real Man Because He Is Gay"

So I Guess The Medals For Bravery And Courage Under Fire Really Don't Mean Much To You

Because As You Say "He Isn't A Real Man .. He Is A Gay Man" ..... Like I Said .. You Don't Suck D ..

You Just ..
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Up late at night there’s plenty of things you can choose to do on the internet. Bread, lately, has been making threads like these.

That increase of brain activity during late night/sleep deprivation periods resulting in this kind of stuff just shows you’re in the closet, Bread. Deny it if you want and then when this thread devolves into insults and eventually locked, try not to make another thread like this immediately and if you want to (try and) convince us it’s not the truth.
 
Up late at night there’s plenty of things you can choose to do on the internet. Bread, lately, has been making threads like these.

That increase of brain activity during late night/sleep deprivation periods resulting in this kind of stuff just shows you’re in the closet, Bread. Deny it if you want and then when this thread devolves into insults and eventually locked, try not to make another thread like this immediately and if you want to (try and) convince us it’s not the truth.
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You Knocked That One Outta The Ballpark Dahling 👍😎👍
 

I wanna see how many of you LGBT supporters ace the test
 
Darth Erica lacks reading comprehension and context
My reading skills are perfectly intact unlike your life skills. Try comprehending life beyond your own narrow world view and you might actually be a happier person. Who knows, you may even start to like yourself and find a hobby beyond shitposting on an Internet forum all day everyday 😉
 
Up late at night there’s plenty of things you can choose to do on the internet. Bread, lately, has been making threads like these.

That increase of brain activity during late night/sleep deprivation periods resulting in this kind of stuff just shows you’re in the closet, Bread. Deny it if you want and then when this thread devolves into insults and eventually locked, try not to make another thread like this immediately and if you want to (try and) convince us it’s not the truth.
Soundz and everyone who is LGBT is apparently a licensed and accredited sexologist.

The only person that can tell you your sexual orientation is YOU. Because sexual orientation is about YOUR beliefs and YOUR feelings(and choices LOL)

The only clinical affiliation people like soundz, Darth Erica, and inktats have is their diagnosed mental illnesses.

While you guys are here losing sleep about my "homophobia" I'm out enjoying my life, exploring, listening to live music and sipping on wine.

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But I'm the one that needs to "touch the grass" while you plebs are glued to your phones waiting for my next response .
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It’s ironic that Bread thinks more about gays than I do, thinks more about **** than I do, craves the attention of men and gays more than anyone on a pride march, is desperate for **** and salivates at the thought of having **** in his mouth and even creates this whole fantasy scenario that he’s decided to add to his massdebating schedule. I hope the few seconds of pleasure was worth it

The only clinical affiliation people like soundz, Darth Erica, and inktats have is their diagnosed mental illnesses.
It’s a well known fact that those suffering from mental illnesses turn to religion so perhaps that explains why your whole belief system is that of an ignorant waste of sperm
 
Im not asking if he's bisexual because bisexual would imply he's still into both sexes.

Im asking if you as a straight woman would believe he's straight after knowing he has commited gay acts with a man. Assuming he has already confessed to having sex with a gay man in his past.

Would you continue the relationship as if the gay acts never happened. Or would it instill an unsettling amount of doubt he's never been straight?

iE. Does your perspective of their sexuality change simply because they say it's changed? Or should their history matter?
Not only that...
The issue with dudes that insist on anal sex when in a relationship with a dudette is a huge red flag.
Since there is no difference between male/female anus, no one can guarantee you that one day the dude may switch.
 
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