If youre a straight woman, and your partner has sex with a man, is he gay or is he still straight?

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Bread. said:
Didn't you tell me 8 posts ago you don't care about anything? Yet you're still here replying.
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I don’t care about your sexuality, Bread. I care about your confidence and your self-esteem. Denial eats away at you slowly. It drives you crazy. Just be yourself. I accept you.
 
Finn2.0 said:
I don’t care about your sexuality, Bread. I care about your confidence and your self-esteem. Denial eats away at you slowly. It drives you crazy. Just be yourself. I accept you.
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Not sure what you're taking about. I'm not the one making threads quoting 80 things without context. Seems like someones driving ink crazy
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The same people that tell me I'm a homophobe tell me I'm gay. I know what I am and it's not a gay or a homophobe but keep entertaining me.

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Everyone else is afraid to take these quizes because they're afraid of how the public will perceive them.

I am me.
 
Bread. said:
Everyone else is afraid to take these quizes because they're afraid of how the public will perceive them.

I am me.
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Nobody else feels the need to have their sexuality confirmed by some dodgy online quiz. The only ones that do are those that are questioning their own sexuality or their own beliefs.

Keep being you. God loves you regardless of your sexuality. Amen 🙏🔯✝️☪️☯️🪯🕎✡️☸️🕉️🛐☦️📿🙏
 
Bread. said:
Not sure wym. Are you asking if a woman who ate poon is considered straight?
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I wasn't asking about women in my question. I'll post it below for reference.
LostCause. said:
Furthermore, if you flip the scenario, does the same logic apply? If you were to find out a guy that is seemingly in a homosexual monogamous relationship has ****ed a **** before or had straight relations, would you say he's straight? After all, gay men don't **** ****, ever. You can't un**** a ****. So even if they said they were gay, would you believe it?
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My question was, if you applied the same logic that you did in this post to a gay man:
Bread. said:
But as a man, if I were to find out a guy that is seemingly In a hetero monogamous relationship, has sucked a **** before, done gay sex I would say he's still gay.

Straight men don't suck dicks, ever.

You can't unsuck a ****. So even if they said they were straight I wouldn't necessarily believe it.
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As in, if a gay man performed heterosexual acts, by your logic, would he be considered straight?
 
The reason bisexuality is dismissed in the first is clear:
The OP erases the possibility of being bisexual by the way the question is asked. The usual boring biphobia. "You can't like both." "Either gay or straight"

Like the solution is easy. "Oh my partner isn't completely straight I guess he's pan/bisexual. Cool. This has no further impact on the relationship so we'll just move on."
 
Bread. said:
Im not asking if he's bisexual because bisexual would imply he's still into both sexes.

Im asking if you as a straight woman would believe he's straight after knowing he has commited gay acts with a man. Assuming he has already confessed to having sex with a gay man in his past.

Would you continue the relationship as if the gay acts never happened. Or would it instill an unsettling amount of doubt he's never been straight?

iE. Does your perspective of their sexuality change simply because they say it's changed? Or should their history matter?
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To actually answer the topic of this thread... Whether I'm a girlie, gay, or they, the gender of my partner's previous intimate partners would not have an impact as to whether or not I continued the relationship. All past partners are in the past for a reason, and my primary concern about who they've had relations with prior to me is whether or not they test clean.

It would likewise not impact my view of their sexuality because a) it's not up to me to determine their sexuality and b) it doesn't actually matter what their sexuality is. They could have spent their entire life up until now having relations with partners that are the opposite gender of me and it wouldn't matter. If they're here with me now and enjoy their time with me now, that's all that matters now.
 
Bread. said:
They don't tell me who I am they just reinforce what I already know.
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LostCause. said:
I wasn't asking about women in my question. I'll post it below for reference.

My question was, if you applied the same logic that you did in this post to a gay man:

As in, if a gay man performed heterosexual acts, by your logic, would he be considered straight?
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People aren't born gay so would say he can no longer be straight because he's gay now
 
rapinoes smirking revenge said:
i mean...the people i'm attracted to and that i've had sex with is probably a lot more accurate than an online quiz to determine my sexuality. so not sure the point of taking one
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Same. Quizzes are for fun mostly.

As I've stated they don't determine my sexuality, or my homophobia, or my Asperger's, or my autism. (When I say my, its as an individual not that I agree I have these traits)They just agree with what I already know.
 
Chaotica_x0x said:
The reason bisexuality is dismissed in the first is clear:
The OP erases the possibility of being bisexual by the way the question is asked. The usual boring biphobia. "You can't like both." "Either gay or straight"

Like the solution is easy. "Oh my partner isn't completely straight I guess he's pan/bisexual. Cool. This has no further impact on the relationship so we'll just move on."
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The reason I stated is in the beginning. If hes still currently doing male to male activities then by all implications, if he's currently with a female it means he's bi.

My question was in regards to gays/straights not bis.
 
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LostCause. said:
To actually answer the topic of this thread... Whether I'm a girlie, gay, or they, the gender of my partner's previous intimate partners would not have an impact as to whether or not I continued the relationship. All past partners are in the past for a reason, and my primary concern about who they've had relations with prior to me is whether or not they test clean.

It would likewise not impact my view of their sexuality because a) it's not up to me to determine their sexuality and b) it doesn't actually matter what their sexuality is. They could have spent their entire life up until now having relations with partners that are the opposite gender of me and it wouldn't matter. If they're here with me now and enjoy their time with me now, that's all that matters now.
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The thing is you can't answer the question because you don't have the same moral values. Therefore your opinion is biased.

It's kind of like if I ask a bunch of gay people if they think child grooming in bdsm parades is ok. They're all going to say yes (bias).
 
I would assume you guys will all bash a straight woman that says they agree their "hetero" male SO is gay and she won't stand for that, just like you are bashing me?

And call her homophobic?
 
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