Re *im sick of it*

  • Thread starter Thread starter Deleted member 263960
  • Start date Start date
Status
Not open for further replies.
D

Deleted member 263960

Guest
Report nudity to the mods who will kick offenders .-and are . aware to up kick times for repeat offenders.

Nudity is not porn, and likely not bannable. use the ignore feature. report nudity to mods by flag, staff cannot be there 24-7 and I no longer do day to day modding---- if you want ******** banned for ..simple nudity you will need to have the boss tell me that because as far as I know thats not likely going to happen. Try calming down and if you repost ..and do not post personal information in these forums if you are so traumatized by addresses then dont repost them.

edit for clarity: Neither Simple Nudity or porn are allowed in this room. How we deal with either is different depending on severity etc

Every chatter posting phone numbers etc has been kicked by mods so that makes it clear the complaint is more one group wants a chatter banned than anyone caring about the room or its rules.

Wildwestwanderer aka ocean minded- is so concerned with nudity...then why has he posted his pelvis in your room for. months- and interesting his very good pal drew-piladieis-another ex mod who simply could not follow directions and was kick happy .... they make interesting bed fellows. Drama is all they want and their crocodile tears dont fool me or anyone who knows our room.

The mods of Gen chat are doing exactly what they should do which is why they are not ex mods like the two i mentioned. Also i find this so called crisis probably specious as not one chatter has sent me a flag-which tells me the mods are doing their jobs well.

Cozmokittee? just feeding drama. Another ex that would kick so many so fast she would be fired yet again- no you cant be a mod!

edit: was just in room- piladeis and pal ocean minded have no flagged one of the skimpy outfits being gifed. Smokey spoken to- and he denies posting anything like the ex mods say he did, and I note- no proof shown to me by anyone.

I do not ban on the word of known trolls, or ex mods or by any chatter without proof. And before I take any action like banning, I will investigate and warn where appropriate. This site does not want mods who robotically kick or admins who hand out bans without a second thought.

@Kim @purplerose OP answered this can be closed and if any gen ******** post on your forums nudity-porn or addresses etc feel free gto take any action you need to 🙂 thank you
 
Last edited by a moderator:
I wasn't going to involve myself in these recent forum posts but seeing as my name is now being dropped anyway, here we go.

I stopped reporting and flagging because I was made fun of for doing such things, being called a mini-mod and other such bullshit rhetoric. This forum is a great example of this, I'm a very evidence based guy, when I saw a 22 year old soliciting sex from a 15 year old, I took screenshots that were time stamped and provided them in a private message, exactly what you ask us to do. That is not just "the word" of someone when you can verify this yourself using your very own chat logs and to prove the SSs were not doctored.

And even after following these directions, I'm now having my name flung around the forums. Since when did disliking sex offenders and child molesters become a bad thing? Why is this suddenly a "crocodile tear" thing and not being a normal, decent human being?

Again, I think you're completely missing the point of these complaints and labelling any criticism you don't like as "trolling". It's ridiculous and dehumanising. Every complaint that we've taken to management recently has been dismissed as "not a death sentence". You realise 99% of bad things that happen in this world isn't a death sentence, right?

Is this not a blatant contradiction to say that "Nudity is not porn" yet criticise us for not reporting "skimpy" outfits? It seems like you cant win here, damned if you do, damned if you don't. So are skimpy outfits allowed or not, because i've seen apple pie DIRECTLY ask if its ok to post these gifs, being given "1 minute of free-for-all" gif posting of skimpy outfits.

I have so, so many things I want to say but I feel as though its useless and will be hand waved regardless.
 
Last edited:
I think a lot of regular ******** actually agree that the way this place is run is getting worse. I mean did anyone read Black Raidah's post where he admitted to trying to solicit sexual things from underage ********? Not to mention how every time someone has an opinion on the safety of others in the chat they're dismissed as being cry babies, angry ex mods etc etc. It's gotten so bad lately and honestly with the way HR has been presenting in chat I'm concerned about his ability to be an impartial and fair admin. It really does seem like he's cracking under any scrutiny of his methods.
 
Schism said:
I think a lot of regular ******** actually agree that the way this place is run is getting worse. I mean did anyone read Black Raidah's post where he admitted to trying to solicit sexual things from underage ********? Not to mention how every time someone has an opinion on the safety of others in the chat they're dismissed as being cry babies, angry ex mods etc etc. It's gotten so bad lately and honestly with the way HR has been presenting in chat I'm concerned about his ability to be an impartial and fair admin. It really does seem like he's cracking under any scrutiny of his methods.
Click to expand...
Kick me again for posting links to forums. PLEASE! I'm gonna get myself banned over this and I really can't give a ****, but if you care about this chat not being overrun by literal fucking retards follow this link and make a comment: https://forum.chat-avenue.com/threads/re-im-sick-of-it.936534/
 
Well then, isn't this interesting. Did you...perhaps...just maaaybe forget this? I think you did. Let me remind you.
Edit : Mini refering to "Minimodding" in the sence that the admin can grant me modship directly in the room without CMs knowledge or permission, effectively skipping the mod limit.
https://imgur.com/J90Tqe2

Let me also remind you that we're asking for bans on people who have been doxxing each other and their targets FAMILIES, not just the issues we've had with nudes being spread. Nudity isn't allowed in there because there's kids in there, HR. Plain and simple. We're not asking for the world, we're just asking you do SOMETHING about the absolute hell that is going on.


Oh and one more thing, HR, I've quit all three times I've stopped modding.=3 Glad to see you're following the trolls tall tales of all mods are fired, looks real good on you.
 
HR man, I know it's you kicking me on chat right now for posting a link to this forum post.
It's fine though, even though it's known that posting links to forums on General is not a kickable offense. Are you ashamed of something you've said here or something? That's what the edit button is for, not the kick button.
This post makes me pretty much 100% sure you've not asked a single one of the mods you're in charge of about this whole issue. If you had they would tell you that they've been kicking Smokey for posting screenshots of him talking to the families of ******** on Facebook, posting their private photos and plastering chat with photos of popo's fully frontal nudes. ******** get kicked for posting girls in bikinis but when ******** are sick of a chatter posting fully frontal nudes of a chatter with his penis in full clear view in a room meant for 13 yos and up, that's not so bad. And you don't ask the mods, who you can supposedly trust, you ask the person posting the offensive content. How does that make sense? Of course anyone would tell lies in the face of punitive action so they can continue with their activity. It's not the first time a chatter has been known to pull this on you.
If you don't want to believe Drew or Ocean or Cozmo about this- Ask Badger, TOC or Rapi. They will tell you that they're sick of kicking the same 3 ******** every damned day for this same nonsense.
 
PLEIAÐES said:
I wasn't going to involve myself in these recent forum posts but seeing as my name is now being dropped anyway, here we go.

I stopped reporting and flagging because I was made fun of for doing such things, being called a mini-mod and other such bullshit rhetoric. This forum is a great example of this, I'm a very evidence based guy, when I saw a 22 year old soliciting sex from a 15 year old, I took screenshots that were time stamped and provided them in a private message, exactly what you ask us to do. That is not just "the word" of someone when you can verify this yourself using your very own chat logs and to prove the SSs were not doctored.

And even after following these directions, I'm now having my name flung around the forums. Since when did disliking sex offenders and child molesters become a bad thing? Why is this suddenly a "crocodile tear" thing and not being a normal, decent human being?

Again, I think you're completely missing the point of these complaints and labelling any criticism you don't like as "trolling". It's ridiculous and dehumanising. Every complaint that we've taken to management recently has been dismissed as "not a death sentence". You realise 99% of bad things that happen in this world isn't a death sentence, right?

Is this not a blatant contradiction to say that "Nudity is not porn" yet criticise us for not reporting "skimpy" outfits? It seems like you cant win here, damned if you do, damned if you don't.

I have so, so many things I want to say but I feel as though its useless and will be hand waved regardless.
Click to expand...
your complaints are based on wanting disliked ******** banned for your selfish reasons. You lack people skills, and thats why you cant fathom why things have to go a certain way. Life isnt a test tube. And yes you are who your friends are. And remember tghe sword you ask me to draw is 2 edged, the processes in place prevent me from banning a chatter found in another room for example. Thts why your concern is phoney you want your enemies treated harshly on offhanded remarks-ss yet turn a blind eye to other SS of interesting things.

Its obvious that you are incapable of grasping the irony of being ok with skimpy suits but outraged with your enemy. WE follow guidliners here- not known failures at modding. Or like schism who just
Schism said:
I think a lot of regular ******** actually agree that the way this place is run is getting worse. I mean did anyone read Black Raidah's post where he admitted to trying to solicit sexual things from underage ********? Not to mention how every time someone has an opinion on the safety of others in the chat they're dismissed as being cry babies, angry ex mods etc etc. It's gotten so bad lately and honestly with the way HR has been presenting in chat I'm concerned about his ability to be an impartial and fair admin. It really does seem like he's cracking under any scrutiny of his methods.
Click to expand...
Hello schism, how is your petition to get the c bomb allowed in our room?
IsThisFun said:
HR man, I know it's you kicking me on chat right now for posting a link to this forum post.
It's fine though, even though it's known that posting links to forums on General is not a kickable offense. Are you ashamed of something you've said here or something? That's what the edit button is for, not the kick button.
This post makes me pretty much 100% sure you've not asked a single one of the mods you're in charge of about this whole issue. If you had they would tell you that they've been kicking Smokey for posting screenshots of him talking to the families of ******** on Facebook, posting their private photos and plastering chat with photos of popo's fully frontal nudes. ******** get kicked for posting girls in bikinis but when ******** are sick of a chatter posting fully frontal nudes of a chatter with his penis in full clear view in a room meant for 13 yos and up, that's not so bad. And you don't ask the mods, who you can supposedly trust, you ask the person posting the offensive content. How does that make sense? Of course anyone would tell lies in the face of punitive action so they can continue with their activity. It's not the first time a chatter has been known to pull this on you.
If you don't want to believe Drew or Ocean or Cozmo about this- Ask Badger, TOC or Rapi. They will tell you that they're sick of kicking the same 3 ******** every damned day for this same nonsense.
Click to expand...
you cant spam our room plain and simple
 
HR - I’ve done this in pm.
You know that this is going on. Your rules even mention excessive doxxing is a ban. Your mods kick everyday the same people for doxxing.
If you check the kick history - you will see it too. The mods will tell you.

I’m being told in PM to maybe find another room because I’m telling you there is an issue in your room with doxxing.

I don’t appreciate this, as mods are meant to be making this place safe and so are admins.

Sort the room out.
 
HR do you not understand the difference between humor and being serious? That was a tongue in cheek post intended to be humorous. But nice deflection there. Proving my point that anytime your methods are scrutinised you deflect and dismiss it by desperately trying to find anything you can to invalidate the person scrutinizing you.
 
So why is the reason listed for my kick "links" and not "spam"?
DZJ1yut.png
 
"your complaints are based on wanting disliked ******** banned for your selfish reasons. "

My complaints are based on wanting ******** like black raidah banned for SOLICITNG SEX FROM MINORS.

If that's selfish, you need to take a looooooooooong look at yourself in the mirror, and possibly ****** the definition of selfish.

Doxxing, too, has real world effects. ****** "swatting deaths" if you don't believe this. I've never advocated bans for differing opinions or basic arguments, just the things that cross real world lines into abuse. Based on your own goddamn rules:

"Any evidence of a person attempting to exploit a minor will be turned over to law enforcement and your ISP reported. There is zero tolerance for this behavior and you will receive a ban."

Yet it appears as though saying "I apologise it was a prank" (when the SSs show otherwise) is an absolutely valid tolerance?

No one said they were ok with skimpy outfits, mate, similar to how you told cassie "I don't agree with that picture morally but there's nothing under the rules we can do" the same logic applies to us.
 
H.R. PufnStuf said:
Report nudity to the mods who will kick offenders .-and are . aware to up kick times for repeat offenders.

Nudity is not porn, and likely not bannable. use the ignore feature. report nudity to mods by flag, staff cannot be there 24-7 and I no longer do day to day modding---- if you want ******** banned for ..simple nudity you will need to have the boss tell me that because as far as I know thats not likely going to happen. Try calming down and if you repost ..and do not post personal information in these forums if you are so traumatized by addresses then dont repost them.

Every chatter posting phone numbers etc has been kicked by mods so that makes it clear the complaint is more one group wants a chatter banned than anyone caring about the room or its rules.

Wildwestwanderer aka ocean minded- is so concerned with nudity...then why has he posted his pelvis in your room for. months- and interesting his very good pal drew-piladieis-another ex mod who simply could not follow directions and was kick happy .... they make interesting bed fellows. Drama is all they want and their crocodile tears dont fool me or anyone who knows our room.

The mods of Gen chat are doing exactly what they should do which is why they are not ex mods like the two i mentioned. Also i find this so called crisis probably specious as not one chatter has sent me a flag-which tells me the mods are doing their jobs well.

Cozmokittee? just feeding drama. Another ex that would kick so many so fast she would be fired yet again- no you cant be a mod!

edit: was just in room- piladeis and pal ocean minded have no flagged one of the skimpy outfits being gifed. Smokey spoken to- and he denies posting anything like the ex mods say he did, and I note- no proof shown to me by anyone.

I do not ban on the word of known trolls, or ex mods or by any chatter without proof. And before I take any action like banning, I will investigate and warn where appropriate. This site does not want mods who robotically kick or admins who hand out bans without a second thought.

@Kim @purplerose OP answered this can be closed and if any gen ******** post on your forums nudity-porn or addresses etc feel free gto take any action you need to 🙂 thank you
Click to expand...
Interesting. "Nudity is not porn" So, the D pic a pedophile sent me "is not porn"? Oh, it's just a bloody nude pic, no big deal. Jesus Christ.
Stop contradicting yourself and do your job, the mods too. It makes me mad how you think your poor excuses will get you anywhere.
 
cozmokittee said:
Well then, isn't this interesting. Did you...perhaps...just maaaybe forget this? I think you did. Let me remind you.
Edit : Mini refering to "Minimodding" in the sence that the admin can grant me modship directly in the room without CMs knowledge or permission, effectively skipping the mod limit.
https://imgur.com/J90Tqe2

Let me also remind you that we're asking for bans on people who have been doxxing each other and their targets FAMILIES, not just the issues we've had with nudes being spread. Nudity isn't allowed in there because there's kids in there, HR. Plain and simple. We're not asking for the world, we're just asking you do SOMETHING about the absolute hell that is going on.


Oh and one more thing, HR, I've quit all three times I've stopped modding.=3 Glad to see you're following the trolls tall tales of all mods are fired, looks real good on you.
Click to expand...
I think you misunderstood the whole point. You can never mod in gen chat after fighting with another mod, and especailly after you told me you called a peer the c bomb- and you will note- I have never modded you-mini or otherwise. Its a known running joke you mini mod all the time. And no we dont grant it in the main room- unless there was perhaps a exploit or spamming we couldnt stop. see? here you are again- mini modding because you hhave nev er held a position in modern.

Nudity is not bannable we kick for it and will 100000 times if we must

Pieck said:
Interesting. "Nudity is not porn" So, the D pic a pedophile sent me "is not porn"? Oh, it's just a bloody nude pic, no big deal. Jesus Christ.
Stop contradicting yourself and do your job, the mods too. It makes me mad how you think your poor excuses will get you anywhere.
Click to expand...
redacted ss are not proof.
 
Okay, if nudity isn't bannable, how about all the posts of popo's mother's name all over chat?
Or about other chatter's full names posted all over chat? And screenshots of their social media profiles all over chat?
► Do not post personal information belonging to anyone else- this includes (but not limited to) full names, address, emails, social media and photos. *Doxxing*- is the intentional sharing of personal information intended to harm another person. It is not allowed in this room. Excessive doxxing, or doxxing that involves children can result in a Ban.
 
Right... The fight that Dess started WITH ME, but you seemed to under the impression that I started. Would you like me to repeat again what happened?
You know, the same mod who seems to already be on that month long break ( Can't confirm, I don't come in early these days ) that you wanted to minimodship me for? You know, to cover the hours missing...... I was really confused as to why you asked me and why you even worked out the details with me, but it's a bit more clear now.
We've all gotten into arguments at some point with mods about something or rather. You're acting like it's a death sentence.

And Aaaaccctually I did mod modern, just not gen modern. I was one of the first mods in DC for that transition so would you like to try AGAIN, or have you finish fishing out of the troll story pool yet?
 
ElSerto said:
HR - I’ve done this in pm.
You know that this is going on. Your rules even mention excessive doxxing is a ban. Your mods kick everyday the same people for doxxing.
If you check the kick history - you will see it too. The mods will tell you.

I’m being told in PM to maybe find another room because I’m telling you there is an issue in your room with doxxing.

I don’t appreciate this, as mods are meant to be making this place safe and so are admins.

Sort the room out.
Click to expand...
I told you if you want a room where the admin bans ******** on your say so- yes find another room that is more to your liking. Excessive doxxing *with intent to cause harm* that involves a minor \ CAN resukt in a ban. read the rules written before you quote me thanks. And am I correct you are no longer a mod? If its serious perhaps something can be done. im NOT banning for the equivelant of chatter a drawing a moustache on ******** B pic. We want a fun room-not one that is hartsh and treats all ******** with contempt based on the bartest of threads of proof. Not going to happen.

Piladies, another one who fails to grasp rea]ity- wants me to ban on SS -an incomplete record- for really a off colour remark that a chatter apologized for. Which is an indication why he cant mod here-
 
H.R. PufnStuf said:
I told you if you want a room where the admin bans ******** on your say so- yes find another room that is more to your liking. Excessive doxxing *with intent to cause harm* that involves a minor \ CAN resukt in a ban. read the rules written before you quote me thanks. And am I correct you are no longer a mod? If its serious perhaps something can be done. im NOT banning for the equivelant of chatter a drawing a moustache on ******** B pic. We want a fun room-not one that is hartsh and treats all ******** with contempt based on the bartest of threads of proof. Not going to happen.

Piladies, another one who fails to grasp rea]ity- wants me to ban on SS -an incomplete record- for really a off colour remark that a chatter apologized for. Which is an indication why he cant mod here-
Click to expand...

HR there are families that are being targeted. Brothers and mothers. On both parts. This isn’t just about the ******** but their families.
I’ve sent you the screenshots and even told you - whilst you’ve been online - that I’ve flagged them.

whether my mod ship is still on, or off. There’s a serious problem in your room with doxxing. You ask the mods who run your chatroom and check kick histories.

how is this not harmful?!
 
Mate, I think it's you who are failing to grasp this right now.

I can accept the fact that someone can call it an "off colour remark" only after getting caught when previously he told us he was being absolutely serious, but you need to adjust the rules to accommodate this. Because your "zero tolerance" policy is now being changed to imply everything is hunky dory if you apologise for getting caught after the fact.

And please miss me with the lecture to grasp reality, you're calling us all trolls after completing involving us in drama we weren't even engaged in in the first place. It's not a death sentence, mate.
 
cozmokittee said:
Right... The fight that Dess started WITH ME, but you seemed to under the impression that I started. Would you like me to repeat again what happened?
You know, the same mod who seems to already be on that month long break ( Can't confirm, I don't come in early these days ) that you wanted to minimodship me for? You know, to cover the hours missing...... I was really confused as to why you asked me and why you even worked out the details with me, but it's a bit more clear now.
We've all gotten into arguments at some point with mods about something or rather. You're acting like it's a death sentence.

And Aaaaccctually I did mod modern, just not gen modern. I was one of the first mods in DC for that transition so would you like to try AGAIN, or have you finish fishing out of the troll story pool yet?
Click to expand...
no- you tried to make it about replacing hours of dess- because you love drama.ucant replace her as you lack people skills she has an abundance of. . All mods who do the hours she does should take a holiday-its wekll deserved. Ill be kin.d youhave fundamentally misunderstood the reality and intent. but its nudity your worried about right?
 
You know what, I hope all the admins, mods and CM sees this comment.

In every room - bar the adult and sex rooms - nudity is not allowed on main.

not just once by the way but everyday! Every single day.

I don’t care if this loses my mod ship for Lesbian Chat but I can’t not say anything.
HR - treat this as real life - would you allow underage kids in real life being exposed to d1ck pics?


this is an everyday thing. The mods know about it. HR even knows about it.
I don’t understand why he’s denying there is an issue in this room where there is.

You honestly don’t give a ****, and honestly, I don’t blame the regs for being frustrated, cause even I am.

sort your room out. You’re responsible for people in there. Excessive doxxing results in a ban. Everyday there is doxxing. The same people. Repeated kicks. Everyday.

How excessive do you want it to be?

I had to argue with you about Cassies pic that one time too!

Man. ****.
I know for a fact that other mods/admins would be like this. So I don’t understand why you’re getting away with being such careless with your admin role? If you don’t want to make sure your room is a safe place, give it to someone who does.

Sorry mods, admins and forum admins.

this is my last reply.
 
HR, you literally said to me " I want to cover the hours that Dess isn't in so we have a full staff instead of going a month without a mod". I don't know how that would make it drama anything. It's pretty clear cut and not even an unreasonable wish given what happens in gen. 8 mods are already stretching it kind thin in there. I think she SHOULD take a break, and that's not even a personal thing, you just seem to be under this notion I'm constantly attacking your or your mods and I'm NOT. I want gen to be a comfy place to be, not just for me personally but everyone who actually follows the rules. Mods have lives and need breaks too, who the **** do you think I am to be mistaking it as I'm attacking her for taking a break, ffs. It's honestly unreal.


Have I even honestly started on the nudity this time around? I think I did that last time around, but I put WAY more emphesis that was VERY CLEARLY IGNORED because "Oh, we can't prove the doxxed victim is a child, so we can't ban them." YOUR. WORDS.

You always try this **** when we get pissed off to the point of no return about the lack of anything conclusive or solid being done. HELL, I even praised your for ACTUALLY BANNING HOODIE because of all the doxxing going on, because someones family member that was clearly underaged was shown. I'm CONCERNED for people not even involved in this room being exposed to this **** and what could happen, as many of us are and have been, REGUARDLESS of if they're a minor or not. They don't choose who their family is, saying "Its okay cause they're an adult" is just..... It's something else, HR.


You accuse US of trying to be dramatic about this but you're clearly just eating this all up, and stirring up far more trouble because it suits your needs. **** the real life victims, this is more entertaining, am I right?
 
ive seen no proof anyone is targettted. I see ........................******** fighting like they do. nowadays. Posting personal info is .kickable. doxxing- the *intent* (proven with evidence acceptable to those responsible for .further act.ion to harm EXCESSIVELY CAN resu.lt in a ban. If that is easy to figure]]]] call saul. This is c.hat you folks take things way too serious and create dramas based on very little. If the boss says for me to ban every.one you target- ill be glad to oblige.
 
imgur.com

imgur.com

Imgur: The magic of the Internet
imgur.com imgur.com

This is the conversation in question.

This was never meant to be the be-all end-all of your investigation, but merely a piece of the puzzle. COMBINED WITH other pieces of evidence that can be found here https://forum.chat-avenue.com/threads/alright.936443/ :

"And I'm not a **** , one time I was joking that I'd ask mikah to **** with me and I didn't even notice that she's 15 oh boo hoo"
(Caught lying, the SS shows she claimed to be 15, he said he didn't care he'd jsut break out of prison, and what kinda loopy land have we entered where saying "I'm serious" means i'm joking?)

"and unlike u im not an actual **** coz just because girls have kissed me irl and were underage that doesnt make me a **** I already said that."
(Like they somehow forced you? Youre an adult, youre supposed to have better common sense than this)

COMBINED WITH your ability to check chat logs to confirm the legitimacy of these SSs (If this isn't in your ability to do, this place is more broken than I thought)

COMBINED WITH witness reports of not only just my friends but yours too (Lesley as an example)

COMBINED WITH the fact he's 22 and has been banned from the teens room for going there.

COMBINED WITH the fact you say he's admitted to this and apologised

This gives a very strong case that this chatter has violated the ATTEMPTED EXPLOITATION of a minor, which is supposed to be met with a ZERO TOLERANCE of a BAN. Not a supposed "Ban warning", because "It's a prank bro" is actually some sort of valid excuse that completely invalidates the idea of ZERO TOLERANCE.

And for doing the due diligence of reporting this to you, in PM, as requested, we're labelled mini modders and trolls that are selfish and in no way are just trying to look out for the safety of minors in this once loved chat room of ours.

This is ridiculous and inexcusable. Even if he WAS joking, it's called consequences of your own actions, because tolerating this based on a joke doesn't appear to be a case of ZERO TOLERANCE.

"This is c.hat you folks take things way too serious and create dramas based on very little"

I refuse to take this from someone who created a forum post dropping peoples names that were completely uninvolved in the original thread this thread was allegedly created to address.
 
Last edited:
I have nine screen shots from last night alone of smokey and popo going at it, one of which has already been taken down. But I'll be fucking damned if I'm giving them to you in private at this point cause it CLEARLY DOES NOTHING.
 
ElSerto said:
You know what, I hope all the admins, mods and CM sees this comment.

In every room - bar the adult and sex rooms - nudity is not allowed on main.

not just once by the way but everyday! Every single day.

I don’t care if this loses my mod ship for Lesbian Chat but I can’t not say anything.
HR - treat this as real life - would you allow underage kids in real life being exposed to d1ck pics?


this is an everyday thing. The mods know about it. HR even knows about it.
I don’t understand why he’s denying there is an issue in this room where there is.

You honestly don’t give a ****, and honestly, I don’t blame the regs for being frustrated, cause even I am.

sort your room out. You’re responsible for people in there. Excessive doxxing results in a ban. Everyday there is doxxing. The same people. Repeated kicks. Everyday.

How excessive do you want it to be?

I had to argue with you about Cassies pic that one time too!

Man. ****.
I know for a fact that other mods/admins would be like this. So I don’t understand why you’re getting away with being such careless with your admin role? If you don’t want to make sure your room is a safe place, give it to someone who does.

Sorry mods, admins and forum admins.

this is my last reply.
Click to expand...
Edit: the other mods/admins wouldn’t be like this.

guarantee that the age restricted rooms such as teens or kids - posting d1ck pics on main everyday, even when the offender gets kicked constantly for it.

general is a 13+

poor kids are seeing d1ck pics on there. How is this allowed?

I wish I could post the SS of the actual post that gets shared but I don’t want to get banned from forums.
 
Honestly may just do that....getting real fed up with getting ignored on the basis of being just a "bitter ex mod". Who the **** WOULDNT be bitter when this kind of issue is getting treated like it's just a joke...? Seriously.
 
ElSerto said:
Edit: the other mods/admins wouldn’t be like this.

guarantee that the age restricted rooms such as teens or kids - posting d1ck pics on main everyday, even when the offender gets kicked constantly for it.

general is a 13+

poor kids are seeing d1ck pics on there. How is this allowed?

I wish I could post the SS of the actual post that gets shared but I don’t want to get banned from forums.
Click to expand...
.
ElSerto said:
Edit: the other mods/admins wouldn’t be like this.

guarantee that the age restricted rooms such as teens or kids - posting d1ck pics on main everyday, even when the offender gets kicked constantly for it.

general is a 13+

poor kids are seeing d1ck pics on there. How is this allowed?

I wish I could post the SS of the actual post that gets shared but I don’t want to get banned from forums.
Click to expand...
Ill drop your admin a note-if any of my mods made a stink over things that dont concern them they would b.e fired. Spoke to the cm team today. Im on point with bans unless .otherwise told.
 
H.R. PufnStuf said:
.

Ill drop your admin a note-if any of my mods made a stink over things that dont concern them they would b.e fired. Spoke to the cm team today. Im on point with bans unless .otherwise told.
Click to expand...

please do. I don’t care if you pm my admin, and you are trying to threaten me because you won’t take this seriously? Nice one, bro!

ladies and gents - your general chat admin. Doesn’t want to deal with d1ck pics being sent to main chat for kids to see but doesn’t like the fact that a mod is commenting.

Fuuuuuuck me 😂

H.R. PufnStuf said:
.

Ill drop your admin a note-if any of my mods made a stink over things that dont concern them they would b.e fired. Spoke to the cm team today. Im on point with bans unless .otherwise told.
Click to expand...
made a stink over things? You’re making it sound like we’re making this up.

my actions and feelings toward this has no reflection on the lesbian chat team - they’re amazing mods who do nothing but want to make the place clean. Bento is one of the best admins on this site.
 
To start off-this is Mimsy. This is an old forums account that wasn't ever deleted by CM so I just stopped logging in. I occasionally scroll through forums without logging in..but that's not really the point.

I've been in Gen Chat for eons--sad it is to say--try Java chat-- try circa Admin Missy. I've met some great people in there from all over the world who I have been able to build a genuine connection with. I'm able to differentiate between reality and what happens on the Internet as not being "real." Right now-- I have to speak out.

In my normal life-- I'm a social worker--mostly working with kids and families. I'm honestly disturbed by the amount of nudity that is being shown in chat, and how it's not necessarily a "bad thing" because it's not "porn." Before someone screams, "get over it, snowflake!"-- I'll say this-- I'm in no way shape or form against the human body (seeing as I am a human?) and I am 110% comfortable in my own skin--and encourage others to be so as well. HOWEVER-- I am against kids being exposed to nudity at an impressionable age. If I had logged into a chat room at 13 (which I did)-- and the first thing I saw was a penis- I would have been mortified. As a reminder-the chat is 13 and up. There are countless studies--and I've actually started researching this while I was typing this post. The very first thing that ****** says.. is this.. "Many studies found exposure to nudity in media has a significant impact on the attitudes and behaviour of children. Some found early exposure to sexual content can lead to "risky behaviour" like becoming sexually active at a young age and having casual sex more frequently. Jul 24, 2019." We aren't the parents to the kids that come into the chat--but.. honestly.. mods have a responsibility to appropriately handle inappropriate content when it arrives in chat.

I like to think that I'm a fairly neutral chatter- I'll talk to pretty much everyone- and if I have a problem with somebody, I usually just ignore them (Yes I do know how and where the ignore button is). I've only spoken out against a few ******** with valid reasoning. That brings me to these lovely gems that may be helpful. These are also taken directly from the Department of Justice web-site.

“Cyberthreats” can simply mean threatening communications that are conveyed via the Internet, cellphone, or other digital means. The communication in interstate commerce of threats to harm a person or property, to kidnap a person, or to damage a person’s reputation, is a violation of federal law pursuant to 18 U.S.C. § 875.

" Cyber Stalking" talking is a pattern of repeated and unwanted attention, harassment, contact, or any other course of conduct directed at a specific person that would cause a reasonable person to feel fear. Examples include-- Repeated, unwanted, intrusive, and frightening communications from the perpetrator by phone, mail, and/or email, Making direct or indirect threats to harm the victim, the victim's children, relatives, friends, or pets, Harassing the victim through the Internet • Posting information or spreading rumors about the victim on the Internet, in a public place, or by word of mouth, Obtaining personal information about the victim by accessing public records, using Internet search services, hiring private investigators, searching through the victim's garbage, following the victim, and contacting the victim's friends, family, co-workers, or neighbors, etc.

I hope somebody will have a heart and a set of balls and figure something out. Probably an unrealistic view. Also- I am open to have a discussion with any Gen Chat mod or HR. I am not here for drama.. I am not here for whatever bullshit reason I'm sure people will think of. Just tired of seeing the same thing ..over..and over..and over..again without any real change.

Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
 
AP'sGirl1984 said:
To start off-this is Mimsy. This is an old forums account that wasn't ever deleted by CM so I just stopped logging in. I occasionally scroll through forums without logging in..but that's not really the point.

I've been in Gen Chat for eons--sad it is to say--try Java chat-- try circa Admin Missy. I've met some great people in there from all over the world who I have been able to build a genuine connection with. I'm able to differentiate between reality and what happens on the Internet as not being "real." Right now-- I have to speak out.

In my normal life-- I'm a social worker--mostly working with kids and families. I'm honestly disturbed by the amount of nudity that is being shown in chat, and how it's not necessarily a "bad thing" because it's not "porn." Before someone screams, "get over it, snowflake!"-- I'll say this-- I'm in no way shape or form against the human body (seeing as I am a human?) and I am 110% comfortable in my own skin--and encourage others to be so as well. HOWEVER-- I am against kids being exposed to nudity at an impressionable age. If I had logged into a chat room at 13 (which I did)-- and the first thing I saw was a penis- I would have been mortified. As a reminder-the chat is 13 and up. There are countless studies--and I've actually started researching this while I was typing this post. The very first thing that ****** says.. is this.. "Many studies found exposure to nudity in media has a significant impact on the attitudes and behaviour of children. Some found early exposure to sexual content can lead to "risky behaviour" like becoming sexually active at a young age and having casual sex more frequently. Jul 24, 2019." We aren't the parents to the kids that come into the chat--but.. honestly.. mods have a responsibility to appropriately handle inappropriate content when it arrives in chat.

I like to think that I'm a fairly neutral chatter- I'll talk to pretty much everyone- and if I have a problem with somebody, I usually just ignore them (Yes I do know how and where the ignore button is). I've only spoken out against a few ******** with valid reasoning. That brings me to these lovely gems that may be helpful. These are also taken directly from the Department of Justice web-site.

“Cyberthreats” can simply mean threatening communications that are conveyed via the Internet, cellphone, or other digital means. The communication in interstate commerce of threats to harm a person or property, to kidnap a person, or to damage a person’s reputation, is a violation of federal law pursuant to 18 U.S.C. § 875.

" Cyber Stalking" talking is a pattern of repeated and unwanted attention, harassment, contact, or any other course of conduct directed at a specific person that would cause a reasonable person to feel fear. Examples include-- Repeated, unwanted, intrusive, and frightening communications from the perpetrator by phone, mail, and/or email, Making direct or indirect threats to harm the victim, the victim's children, relatives, friends, or pets, Harassing the victim through the Internet • Posting information or spreading rumors about the victim on the Internet, in a public place, or by word of mouth, Obtaining personal information about the victim by accessing public records, using Internet search services, hiring private investigators, searching through the victim's garbage, following the victim, and contacting the victim's friends, family, co-workers, or neighbors, etc.

I hope somebody will have a heart and a set of balls and figure something out. Probably an unrealistic view. Also- I am open to have a discussion with any Gen Chat mod or HR. I am not here for drama.. I am not here for whatever bullshit reason I'm sure people will think of. Just tired of seeing the same thing ..over..and over..and over..again without any real change.

Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
Click to expand...
THANK YOU!!!!

all of this ^^^^^^^^^
 
ElSerto said:
please do. I don’t care if you pm my admin, and you are trying to threaten me because you won’t take this seriously? Nice one, bro!

ladies and gents - your general chat admin. Doesn’t want to deal with d1ck pics being sent to main chat for kids to see but doesn’t like the fact that a mod is commenting.

Fuuuuuuck me 😂
Click to expand...
@Bento
 
PLEIAÐES said:
imgur.com

imgur.com

Imgur: The magic of the Internet
imgur.com imgur.com

This is the conversation in question.

This was never meant to be the be-all end-all of your investigation, but merely a piece of the puzzle. COMBINED WITH other pieces of evidence that can be found here https://forum.chat-avenue.com/threads/alright.936443/ :

"And I'm not a **** , one time I was joking that I'd ask mikah to **** with me and I didn't even notice that she's 15 oh boo hoo"
(Caught lying, the SS shows she claimed to be 15, he said he didn't care he'd jsut break out of prison, and what kinda loopy land have we entered where saying "I'm serious" means i'm joking?)

"and unlike u im not an actual **** coz just because girls have kissed me irl and were underage that doesnt make me a **** I already said that."
(Like they somehow forced you? Youre an adult, youre supposed to have better common sense than this)

COMBINED WITH your ability to check chat logs to confirm the legitimacy of these SSs (If this isn't in your ability to do, this place is more broken than I thought)

COMBINED WITH witness reports of not only just my friends but yours too (Lesley as an example)

COMBINED WITH the fact he's 22 and has been banned from the teens room for going there.

COMBINED WITH the fact you say he's admitted to this and apologised

This gives a very strong case that this chatter has violated the ATTEMPTED EXPLOITATION of a minor, which is supposed to be met with a ZERO TOLERANCE of a BAN. Not a supposed "Ban warning", because "It's a prank bro" is actually some sort of valid excuse that completely invalidates the idea of ZERO TOLERANCE.

And for doing the due diligence of reporting this to you, in PM, as requested, we're labelled mini modders and trolls that are selfish and in no way are just trying to look out for the safety of minors in this once loved chat room of ours.

This is ridiculous and inexcusable. Even if he WAS joking, it's called consequences of your own actions, because tolerating this based on a joke doesn't appear to be a case of ZERO TOLERANCE.
Click to expand...

Bumped for visibility, as I feel like this is INCREDIBLY important and being buried under other fights and spam posting
 
I cannot believe this muppet. I gave proof, a censored screenshot. (It shouldn't matter if it's censored or not!) Clearly if I censored it, it has to be something bad. But nope, it got disregarded. Any screenie is proof! Bloody stupid. And also this:
Zombo-Droid-25072021233838.jpg

I reported this guy a thousand times, I went to the mods, and nothing. Some even said they would tell HR, which is clear they haven't. Or they did and he just chooses to do nothing!

EditorInChief said:
If you're a reasonable chatter, I implore you to follow this link and post a comment on what you've seen going on in this chatroom recently: https://forum.chat-avenue.com/threads/re-im-sick-of-it.936534/
Click to expand...
Keep preaching. Something is bound to happen. Maybe HR will get fired. Lmfao.
 
Holy fucking ****, Admin having a meltdown on aisle 3. Clean up required.

HR if you don't like people who have been on the site for 8 years and who have modded in gen and other rooms as well as using other chat sites in the past telling you how to do your job, do your job the way it's supposed to be done and stop trying to cover up and clean up Chat Avenue's **** problem by hoping it'll go away if people don't mention it. It won't.
 
L'Angelo d'Mysterioso said:
Holy fucking ****, Admin having a meltdown on aisle 3. Clean up required.

HR if you don't like people who have been on the site for 8 years and who have modded in gen and other rooms as well as using other chat sites in the past telling you how to do your job, do your job the way it's supposed to be done and stop trying to cover up and clean up Chat Avenue's **** problem by hoping it'll go away if people don't mention it. It won't.
Click to expand...
It's nice having smart people like you here. And everyone else whom isn't HR. :3
 
Honestly who uses the word pelvis. He's referring to photos of people at the beach or shirtless, that are ABOVE the waist.

Not surprising you have no idea about the human anatomy.

So nudity isnt bannable. But you'll ban me for pictures of my "pelvis".

The double-standards and hypocrisy is glaringly apparent...
 
H.R. PufnStuf said:
https://forum.chat-avenue.com/threads/alright.936443/page-3 clearly shows why that radair chatter was not banned. And wish as we might- nudity is not bannable t.hat I know of. I dont answer to ********, I answer to the admin-and Im clear on my role amd limits. And th.ats what Ill keep doing 🙂
Click to expand...
It seems your speech impediment is showing. If nudity isn't ban-able, then you should unban all those pedos who sent D pics. After all, they are "just nudes". .-.
 
We know why he wasn't banned, you've completely ignored my statement where I've said change your rules to reflect that, because lying about "not being serious" after being caught saying "I was serious" isn't a case of ZERO TOLERANCE.

How are we at all supposed to take the rules of these room seriously and "flag stuff against the rules" if a way out of a zero tolerance policy is to say "It's a prank bro" essentially? This sets a precedent, not only can you just make stuff up after the fact to get out of breaking them, or what is in the rules isn't exactly believable or reflected in reality.

And I'm confident in my statement he's lying when he's said "She never told me she was 15" when it was IN HER PROFILE and my SS shows mikah telling him DIRECTLY she is 15, only to be answered by "I'll break out of jail for you".

Anyone can lie when caught. Again, amazing we are labelled trolls when we have genuine concern, yet you're essentially saying this guy is "Shock trolling" and that's all of a sudden fine. Never seen you start a thread about him trolling.
 
PLEIAÐES said:
We know why he wasn't banned, you've completely ignored my statement where I've said change your rules to reflect that, because lying about "not being serious" after being caught saying "I was serious" isn't a case of ZERO TOLERANCE.

How are we at all supposed to take the rules of these room seriously and "flag stuff against the rules" if a way out of a zero tolerance policy is to say "It's a prank bro" essentially? This sets a precedent, not only can you just make stuff up after the fact to get out of breaking them, or what is in the rules isn't exactly believable or reflected in reality.

And I'm confident in my statement he's lying when he's said "She never told me she was 15" when it was IN HER PROFILE and my SS shows mikah telling him DIRECTLY she is 15, only to be answered by "I'll break out of jail for you".

Anyone can lie when caught. Again, amazing we are labelled trolls when we have genuine concern, yet you're essentially saying this guy is "Shock trolling" and that's all of a sudden fine. Never seen you start a thread about him trolling.
Click to expand...
HR once said I was "mini modding" even though I wasn't. I showed how users were getting muted for no reason. Including me. I was talking about how a **** didn't get banned and how the mods didn't do anything. And I got muted. And yet, that's considered "mini modding"? Bruv, HR is quite special.
 
H.R. PufnStuf said:
I think you misunderstood the whole point. You can never mod in gen chat after fighting with another mod, and especailly after you told me you called a peer the c bomb- and you will note- I have never modded you-mini or otherwise. Its a known running joke you mini mod all the time. And no we dont grant it in the main room- unless there was perhaps a exploit or spamming we couldnt stop. see? here you are again- mini modding because you hhave nev er held a position in modern.
Click to expand...
Dude, you know you can edit your posts right? I mean, typing like a lobotomised 5 year old with brain damage does not make you look like an admin who has their house in order.
 
Last edited:
That's what I said early in this forum, I stopped flagging stuff because I was made fun of for mini-modding when doing so. Yet we're being criticised for not-flagging "skimpy" posts? The same thing HR has said "I don't agree with morally but can't do anything against the rules"? Damned if we do, damned if we don't.
 
cozmokittee said:
Screen shots with less breakage of rules, part 2


https://imgur.com/Xu7Krc1
https://imgur.com/xJcsPFG
https://imgur.com/j4yoDUb
https://imgur.com/Gg8rzKj

now y'all can get a better grip of the reality of what we're worried about.
Click to expand...
Now you know we can't do anything at all about this because those are doctored screenshots and you could have blanked out perfectly acceptable conversations, I mean the chatter may think your brother has a female dog, right? It's not like he's saying nasty things or threatening someone.

This is sarcasm, btw.
 
ElSerto said:
Edit: the other mods/admins wouldn’t be like this.

guarantee that the age restricted rooms such as teens or kids - posting d1ck pics on main everyday, even when the offender gets kicked constantly for it.

general is a 13+

poor kids are seeing d1ck pics on there. How is this allowed?

I wish I could post the SS of the actual post that gets shared but I don’t want to get banned from forums.
Click to expand...
I chose to reply to this single comment as I think the context impact more the one room. Protection of minors should obviously be the number one priority for any staff member or decent person. The issues like this, minors being exploited is not just confined to General Chat. Now before I go on, this is not a witch hunt post against H.R. Its more a comment that I hope gets seen and something can be done as a whole. These same types of things happen in Girls Chat as well, so much so that a staff member is actively involved. As most know, Girls Chat is 13+ so sexual things right there in main would be a no go, or so you would think. While a good portion is removed by a couple of the moderators, one even being so fed up with it she quit (Although rehired now). Although somehow only the chatter are blamed when a staff member is involved more than anyone else. I've presented proof to Enchantress, who then doesn't even bother to acknowledge the overly sexual nature of the comments to both adults and minors by one of her own staff members. Furthermore, this staff member is incredibly close to a person who was banned from this site, a lifetime ban I believe, for grooming minors and then created her own site (Which the staff member in question has done and been banned for multiple times on various accounts). Maybe somebody can answer the question for me, these things going on and admins allowing it to happen as in giving a platform for this behavior, can the site become vulnerable? The very last thing I'd ever want to see is something happen to this site, especially when the problems can be easily fixed. When I was a moderator, I didnt kick for pleasure so this isnt saying I want to see people kicked left and right or anything of that nature. Acts like doxxing, exploitation of minors, and other abuses are things Id assume anyone would agree are the big issues. An Admin is supposed to be the leader of a room, promote whats right and keep it a fun place, am I wrong? Over the last 8 months, in the room Ive been part of for almost 9 years, its been filled with the things Ive mentioned (along with person things done to me i.e. photoshopped things but thats another story for another time). As I said, I spoke to the admin of the room I visit, supplied proof, and all I got was yet an accusation thrown my way that I own a chat site, which I dont. I dont go to General Chat, so again I wont make a definitive comment about H.R. one way or the other, but what I do know is the interactions Ive had on serious matters with my rooms admin and how they have not been handled at all. Mute and kick people for a lip biting GIF or asking why a friend feels the need to look over their shoulder, but a moderator openly telling minors how she touches herself is not a big deal? What is the end game for these things? Is there one? Or is it a case where the site has to take a hit before something is done? This is my 2 cents, my concerns, and my experiences when it comes to peoples safety as of late. So again, it seems to be a growing problem not just in one room.

Lastly I just want to thank the Admins and Moderators from every room that do try to keep this place safe, successful, and fun. In no way shape or form is that a troll post to bash this site or the staff as a whole. Just wanted to make sure people get the credit they deserve and make it so this post wasnt all about negativity. 🙂
 
i put this in another thread but every time i come in chat room there are a ridiculous amount of flags, like if the mods arent been active enough, we need new ones. it can be difficult to deal with 50 flags and watch chat, ect. i dont like complaining about things but i dont wanna be a one person army.
 
napping princess said:
i put this in another thread but every time i come in chat room there are a ridiculous amount of flags, like if the mods arent been active enough, we need new ones. it can be difficult to deal with 50 flags and watch chat, ect. i dont like complaining about things but i dont wanna be a one person army.
Click to expand...
I can’t imagine how tough it is in there. I bet it is difficult especially with so many things going on at once. Thank you for trying though, you are definitely appreciated
 
napping princess said:
i put this in another thread but every time i come in chat room there are a ridiculous amount of flags, like if the mods arent been active enough, we need new ones. it can be difficult to deal with 50 flags and watch chat, ect. i dont like complaining about things but i dont wanna be a one person army.
Click to expand...
I dont mind it but yeah, it can be overwhelming. I had to deal with 65 flags when I logged on at 8 a.m. I know how you feel.
 
Boba Fett said:
I dont mind it but yeah, it can be overwhelming. I had to deal with 65 flags when I logged on at 8 a.m. I know how you feel.
Click to expand...
Do you guys think it’s an issue with the doxxing? I’m not sure how it works for communication but HR is making it sound like it doesn’t get reported. I just wanna know from a mods place on this because you guys have to deal with the slack every time you come on.
 
The problem we're having is that there aren't even attempts at banning people for this. We wouldn't be nearly as frustrated if that were the case because most of us understand how it goes. But letting it skirt by and attacking people for "being mini bitter ex mods" is a bit much. Going by the word of one person saying they didn't do something, that they're just joking, ect, over the testimony, flags, and screen shots provided by multiple people from differing groups ( some of which dislike each other, mind you, or usually disagree with each other ) is fucking insanity. Attacking mods from other rooms that don't want to stand by and be silent cause it's "not their room" is also a serious issue.
 
ElSerto said:
Do you guys think it’s an issue with the doxxing? I’m not sure how it works for communication but HR is making it sound like it doesn’t get reported. I just wanna know from a mods place on this because you guys have to deal with the slack every time you come on.
Click to expand...
I dont see the doxing, the one offender who posted beef missile pics was banned. My reply to napping was not to criticize but honestly, we cant have mods on 24/7 because its impossible. These flags occur from 4 am on when most people are sleeping. I actually log on and mod for a bit in the morning while remote working. The people mentioned are known disruptors but I havent seen, personally, any doxxing or nudes being posted since one got banned.
 
Boba Fett said:
I dont see the doxing, the one offender who posted beef missile pics was banned. My reply to napping was not to criticize but honestly, we cant have mods on 24/7 because its impossible. These flags occur from 4 am on when most people are sleeping. I actually log on and mod for a bit in the morning while remote working. The people mentioned are known disruptors but I havent seen, personally, any doxxing or nudes being posted since one got banned.
Click to expand...
Oh no, I was just asking, if you guys had because it’s always being flagged. Oh mate, trust me, the nudes that keep being post is vile. I actually feel sorry for the kids in the room. I know the mods can’t be on, and I cannot thank you enough for attempting to keep it clean and the room stable when you guys are on.
 
ElSerto said:
Oh no, I was just asking, if you guys had because it’s always being flagged. Oh mate, trust me, the nudes that keep being post is vile. I actually feel sorry for the kids in the room. I know the mods can’t be on, and I cannot thank you enough for attempting to keep it clean and the room stable when you guys are on.
Click to expand...
If it's the nude of one of the guys mentioned among the known disruptors, I havent seen it since Hoodie was banned. HR is getting too much **** for this as hes a grown man who has a lot on his plate. There are bigger issues hes dealing with behind the scenes and to be honest, I know hes not okay with the doxxing and all of that.

I will say, if asked for input, I would be totally on board with carnage and Smokeyyy being banned. None of them vare for the rules, they actually brag about how many times theyve been muted or kicked. When I warn them to stop fighting and disrupting chat, they act like dysfunctional teenagers asking "why?" And saying "damn, you cant have fun anymore". Last I checked, getting intoxicated by 11 am and threatening people in a chat room never appeared to be fun. Its disruptive and then they start tagging others to drag them in which gives us another problem to handle.
 
Boba Fett said:
If it's the nude of one of the guys mentioned among the known disruptors, I havent seen it since Hoodie was banned. HR is getting too much **** for this as hes a grown man who has a lot on his plate. There are bigger issues hes dealing with behind the scenes and to be honest, I know hes not okay with the doxxing and all of that.

I will say, if asked for input, I would be totally on board with carnage and Smokeyyy being banned. None of them vare for the rules, they actually brag about how many times theyve been muted or kicked. When I warn them to stop fighting and disrupting chat, they act like dysfunctional teenagers asking "why?" And saying "damn, you cant have fun anymore". Last I checked, getting intoxicated by 11 am and threatening people in a chat room never appeared to be fun. Its disruptive and then they start tagging others to drag them in which gives us another problem to handle.
Click to expand...
I think it’s Carnage’s nudes that are being leaked. Smokey even sent it to his mother too.

Honestly, they’re very immature. And I’ve seen what they can be like towards the mods, so I feel you on that. It is very chaotic but there is some lovely people on there.
 
We understand that HR is an adult with responsibilities outside of chat. So he decided on his own to spend that time to make a response to a thread, making statements to people who weren't related to said thread, and then attacking us when we don't just politely sit back and take it, and I have no sympathy. He's had over a month ( Since I started picking up on it, it had been going on longer than that ) to decide what the best course of action was, and this is what he chose. He's made blatant lies his truths, deflections his only defense, and shot down simple logical notions that could be done.

Don't be mistaken, I get how difficult of a position he's in, as I've stated to him in private, but I'm not going to accept that CM said this was okay. None of this is normal or okay. We need to stop treating it like it is.
 
@ElSerto what about your room? You're shouting out at General Chat Admin what about your room Admin? Your room is 17+. Your room Admin says its not sex chat for making sex related comments then kicks users, right after that she screams "I want to Bite Her Ass" isn't it sex related comment?

Fix your room issues first before shouting on GC Admin.
 
WhiteShield- said:
@ElSerto what about your room? You're shouting out at General Chat Admin what about your room Admin? Your room is 17+. Your room Admin says its not sex chat for making sex related comments then kicks users, right after that she screams "I want to Bite Her Ass" isn't it sex related comment?

Fix your room issues first before shouting on GC Admin.
Click to expand...


WhiteShield, we do sort our room out. And Bento is very helpful as an admin, trust me. That woman is the best admin that Lesbian Chat has ever had. When she’s in there, she’s proactive and if there are pedos, they get banned.
 
ElSerto said:
WhiteShield, we do sort our room out. And Bento is very helpful as an admin, trust me. That woman is the best admin that Lesbian Chat has ever had. When she’s in there, she’s proactive and if there are pedos, they get banned.
Click to expand...
Admin should not kick any user for something that Admin doesn't follow or breaks on her own. It makes some users mad for an example Strella2.

Yes we have information she does a good job.
 
WhiteShield- said:
Admin should not kick any user for something that Admin doesn't follow or breaks on her own. It makes some users mad for an example Strella2.

Yes we have information she does a good job.
Click to expand...

I can’t comment on the comment that was made but I’ll defend her through anything. I’ve been going in that room for many years and it’s been chaotic, she’s been the first admin to be in there proactively modding, when we need her to do something or need to report pedos, or those who are repeat offenders, she will work to resolve it. The woman is very busy at work and she’s still here trying to make the room a better place.

Not only that, she’s been so supportive of me when I was getting abused in lesbian chat for being trans. She stuck up for me and made sure I was alright. And if us mods do break the rules, she will talk to us and lay down the rules.

you couldn’t ask for a better person to mod that room, she honestly gets **** done.
 
WhiteShield- said:
@ElSerto what about your room? You're shouting out at General Chat Admin what about your room Admin? Your room is 17+. Your room Admin says its not sex chat for making sex related comments then kicks users, right after that she screams "I want to Bite Her Ass" isn't it sex related comment?

Fix your room issues first before shouting on GC Admin.
Click to expand...
Lol who's ass am I even biting? If you're on about the Strella posts, all of the screenshots he takes are taken out of context. Too bad he just singles out the one comment made. 😉
 
When mods attack ******** over some nonsense they were not even here as ******** on the site to personally witness, it really does make them look bad. We know you're just parroting things other people have said, you really don't know for sure and it's real pathetic you gotta bend to that level just so you can dismiss very valid claims someone has made.
That being said, I'm glad that Boba Fett openly admits that smokeyy and carnage are problems BECAUSE THEY ARE and are the head perpetrators of what I was originally making a complaint about. It's not okay the kinds of things they're doing and the longer they're allowed to be on chat, the worse it will get and more people will be encouraged to join in on their frankly shitty behaviours- as we're seeing with Hannah, popo and other ******** who form this gaggle of idiots.
I can flag but those get cleared before HR ever sees the room. I can ignore, but their ignorance spills over to other ******** and still reaches my screen. The mods can kick, but they still come back after their short kicks and continue to do the same thing after the mods leave. Ban them. It's been irritating for even seasoned ******** who had to deal with the insane people since classic days. So many people have recently told me that they no longer care to come to chat because of this group of idiots constantly stinking up the place. REASONABLE regulars are leaving because of this, it's not just "troublemakers" and "trolls" and "bitter people with personal vendettas" anymore. WE EVEN GOT MIMSY, sweet bunny Mimsy, to comment on this. HOW MUCH MORE CAN WE COMPLAIN?
I think more mods need to come out and speak out about this and the patterns of behaviour that certain ******** have been displaying recently. Make formal complaints to HR because it seems like it's been mostly his business to dismiss any complaints when they come from normal ********. Do it if you even care a tiny bit about maintaining peace, then you won't have to worry about seeing 60 flags for Smokey et al when you log in. We don't want that for you, and I know you'd like it too.
HR I don't know how you communicate with your mods, but it's clear some of them have their own personal interpretation of the rules as well, clarify with them exactly what the rules mean because we have some mods who think doxxing is calling someone their former chat name and kicking for it and some who see this Facebook profile posting thing and warn the users like they should be doing that at this point when the offenses are SO MANYYYYYYY.
I know I'm gonna get told "I'm taking this too seriously" or something but I really don't care. There was a time when General WAS NOT this damn bad. I was there for it. HR, you were there for it too. Don't wave away these complaints. Don't attack the legitimacy of claims because they come from certain people. Sit and analyse why so many are having these constant issues and actually do something. People are tired of the excuses now.
 
Pieck said:
Screenies are not proof? I'm pretty sure they are. Last I checked, they were and will always be. Is that the only thing you could point out from what I said? Wow.
Click to expand...
Your screenshot you sent is not ban worthy because you didn’t show Dess the whole thing. How is that not understandable. Police can’t arrest someone for being under the influence of alcohol without taking the test and having the valid proof are they. It’s the same for the room. No SOLID 100% proof = NO ACTION
 
As another long time user of Gen Chat both here and classic, the constant doxxing daily from both smokey, carnage, DK, Hannah etc as well as others is out of control. Everytime I enter the chat room you are faced with smokey posting carnages **** pic or pictures about his family and visa vera. Hoodie might has been banned out of the room but he clearly enters the room all the time under guest names, posting about how he went to visit another chatter house to murder them and posting pictures of bullets with said ******** name on them. Even posting pictures of the persons house and yard of the person he was intending to murder.

This is not a vigilante exercise to be rid of some ******** ~ and not an attack on the mods or Admin, its just beyond stupidity now. These ******** know they will not be dealt with and continue to spam the room with each others information, smokeys common saying is im drunk i dont give a f**k, i dont follow the rules who gives a f**k about the rules I will be kicked and I will come back and do the same crap again as there is no consequences to my actions.

Whale meat was banned not long ago for saying to a teen chatter im horny in PM, then claimed in main it was a joke and he would say it to his own daughter, is clearly unacceptable behaviour it its finest ~ thank god he was sent on his way. Along with others who deserved it. Everytime I am in there and another user Mark38 (i think that is the number) asking repeatedly for any young girls 12 - 15 who are still virgins to hit him up in PM so he can f**k them like a real good daddy, this is on a guest account but uses the same name daily and I have flagged it everytime it and it still comes in daily and does the same repeated bullshit.

Another example was the other day KissArmy was clearly engaging endless with a teengirl who stated she was 13, when i voiced my concern at his engagement I was trolled endlessly by him saying I was a nazi and a prison warden and he could talk to whoever the **** he wanted as its not illegal to talk to a child, and this teenager was laughing at him and egging him on and he did it more. This idiot did not understand that flirting with said teenager (no doubt it was some old man on fake profile) was not appropriate behaviour in a 13+ room. I ended up putting him on ignore as the stupidity is endless with that one, even other ******** were trying to advice him it was not appropriate behaviour and he just keep on screaming (CAPS) i did nothing wrong not illegal to flirt or chat to teenagers.

Clearly this is a huge issue in the Gen Chat room - the room is full of dirty ole sick men/women who are preying on these teenagers, and I have asked many times even to CM in Classic why not raise the age too 18+ and it would be a much nicer safer place for the younger ones to go to teen chat, boys chat and girls chat. I was advised by CM (i dont know if its the same CM as now) that they had every right to be in there and most of them didnt want to engage the other chat room as they were boring. I am still at cross roads with this as what teenager would want to engage with older adults is beyond me, and what would any sensible adult have to engage with a teenager? Maybe we can visit this 18+ again or maybe we can have another general room for 18+ so we dont have to deal with the so called teenagers in the room asking for RP, slaves or kinky sex to name a few. Or look at this list with names like daddydominates, teenagebustyqueen, bigdick (who claims his name is short for richard), maninhismotherspantyhose, pantyhoselover. I know this site is making money of the sexual side of it, but if you are seriously concerned for protecting the underage users this would be clearly resolved by CM and site Admin coming in to clean up the rooms.

General Classic chat had fewer issues, much nicer banter and no so much doxxing or spamming ~ any idea's why it is so rampant in this chat?
 
Wow. Even the mods are awake on this issue.

For those who are seriously unclear,
¹Nudity is where majority of your skin is exposed. This can be debated, but in a general matter, nudity mostly involves with being completely naked, and usually the genitals are exposed.
³Is that p0rn? People might debate on that considering nudity has a history of being used for other purposes outside of being sexual.
⁴Is it still NSFW? Yes. Even if the purpose of nudity is artistic, political, etc. Content that involved nudity is majority of the time, censored and has a warning before being revealed for a reason.
⁵Nudity and/or obscenity involving minors is illegal in majority of countries / areas. This means if a users sends a minor nudity and/or obscene content, that minor (and/or the guardian of the minor, or literally anybody who witnessed the scene) can report to the police or government about that, and the user who shared the content can spend time behind bars for that.

Those who participate in putting nudity in a 13+ chat especially if the victim user is clearly u/a, should be banned.
I'd understand if the user did it by accident but it should be highly encouraged that users check eachothers ages and if they continue to participate in nudity-related actions specifically towards those who are u/a then they definitely need to be banned permanently.

If u/a users cant be respected in that way, you might as well make the chatroom at least 18+, that way we can prevent serious issues like that happening in the first place.
 
Last edited:
ElSerto said:
I can’t comment on the comment that was made
Click to expand...
You can comment on comment. It doesn't matter what room it is.

It was an just example on how an Admin should not treat other users.

Pieck said:
I cannot believe this muppet. I gave proof, a censored screenshot. (It shouldn't matter if it's censored or not!) Clearly if I censored it, it has to be something bad. But nope, it got disregarded. Any screenie is proof! Bloody stupid. And also this:
Zombo-Droid-25072021233838.jpg

I reported this guy a thousand times, I went to the mods, and nothing. Some even said they would tell HR, which is clear they haven't. Or they did and he just chooses to do nothing!
Click to expand...
@H.R. PufnStuf does nothing regarding this type of problem. All he does is kicks, mutes any user he doesn't like. He doesn't even feel the need of explanation why a user is kicked or muted but He's friend like this "Victor" are allowed to post NUDITY, use 'R' 'N' word, sexual stuff, Racial slurs. He does nothing about these users. But he abuses his power like an INCOMPETENT ADMIN to kick non VIP users and Guests users. He doesn't even think that guest and Reg non VIP users are actually USER.
He treats different users differently.

He (H.R. Pufnstuf) loves to kiss VIP users ass who are his friend. And he harasses other users who aren't his Friend. He harasses users, he didn't like in the past. This thread started with this harassment statement. This thread is the proof how he harasses other users he doesn't like or who aren't his Friend.
 
With this many respected regular ******** calling this behaviour out surely something has to be done about this soon. It's not trolls complaining about a kick or a mute.. it's long time respected members of this site calling for a change in attitude regarding the safety of other ******** and MINORS who use the site. Most of the mods do their job extremely well, but I can't help but wonder if they get frustrated at the lack of enforcement of the rules and lack of care from admin. HR you can try to deflect as much as you like by in invalidating anybody who casts doubt on your quality of administratorship but the fact remains, a lot of people think your attitude regarding the safety of others is unacceptable.
 
napping princess said:
i put this in another thread but every time i come in chat room there are a ridiculous amount of flags, like if the mods arent been active enough, we need new ones. it can be difficult to deal with 50 flags and watch chat, ect. i dont like complaining about things but i dont wanna be a one person army.
Click to expand...
Just like boba said dealing with other flags that is too much is overwhelming when I was in kids chat I was the only mod there there was like 160 flags too deal with I did some of them and modded for a little bit until another mod showed up
 
Either HR can resign or CM will have to remove HR's admin status.

Chances of either of those outcomes? Id say less than 50%.
 
aflyingdonut said:
Just like boba said dealing with other flags that is too much is overwhelming when I was in kids chat I was the only mod there there was like 160 flags too deal with I did some of them and modded for a little bit until another mod showed up
Click to expand...
hey bro, I know it’s frustrating having to deal with so many flags and then trying to look after chaotic main chat. Don’t worry, no one has an issue with that. Everyone has an issue with HR dismissing there is a problem with General Chat with its repeat offenders doxxing, posting nudity and so forth.
 
wildwestwanderer said:
To summarize; everyone thinks you should resign Hr. You suck.
Click to expand...
Its comical that a guy who has 90% of the room on ban but still manages to try and harass them and slander them, thinks anyone wants his input on anything. There isnt a single mod you dont like and when you're eventually removed for disrupting the room, you take your clown shoes and clown horn on over to Singles and start up on those people.
 
DynamicDylan said:
Your screenshot you sent is not ban worthy because you didn’t show Dess the whole thing. How is that not understandable. Police can’t arrest someone for being under the influence of alcohol without taking the test and having the valid proof are they. It’s the same for the room. No SOLID 100% proof = NO ACTION
Click to expand...
Bruv, why the hell would it be censored, if it was something good? Any screenie should be acceptable. I wouldn't have censored it if it was "just his face". It was proof and Dess disregarded it.
Voca said:
Either HR can resign or CM will have to remove HR's admin status.

Chances of either of those outcomes? Id say less than 50%.
Click to expand...
None of those are likely to happen. It seems some people, including CM, enjoy HR's stupidity. So he will probably be staying wether we like it or not.
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
Top