Re *im sick of it*

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To start off-this is Mimsy. This is an old forums account that wasn't ever deleted by CM so I just stopped logging in. I occasionally scroll through forums without logging in..but that's not really the point.

I've been in Gen Chat for eons--sad it is to say--try Java chat-- try circa Admin Missy. I've met some great people in there from all over the world who I have been able to build a genuine connection with. I'm able to differentiate between reality and what happens on the Internet as not being "real." Right now-- I have to speak out.

In my normal life-- I'm a social worker--mostly working with kids and families. I'm honestly disturbed by the amount of nudity that is being shown in chat, and how it's not necessarily a "bad thing" because it's not "porn." Before someone screams, "get over it, snowflake!"-- I'll say this-- I'm in no way shape or form against the human body (seeing as I am a human?) and I am 110% comfortable in my own skin--and encourage others to be so as well. HOWEVER-- I am against kids being exposed to nudity at an impressionable age. If I had logged into a chat room at 13 (which I did)-- and the first thing I saw was a penis- I would have been mortified. As a reminder-the chat is 13 and up. There are countless studies--and I've actually started researching this while I was typing this post. The very first thing that ****** says.. is this.. "Many studies found exposure to nudity in media has a significant impact on the attitudes and behaviour of children. Some found early exposure to sexual content can lead to "risky behaviour" like becoming sexually active at a young age and having casual sex more frequently. Jul 24, 2019." We aren't the parents to the kids that come into the chat--but.. honestly.. mods have a responsibility to appropriately handle inappropriate content when it arrives in chat.

I like to think that I'm a fairly neutral chatter- I'll talk to pretty much everyone- and if I have a problem with somebody, I usually just ignore them (Yes I do know how and where the ignore button is). I've only spoken out against a few ******** with valid reasoning. That brings me to these lovely gems that may be helpful. These are also taken directly from the Department of Justice web-site.

“Cyberthreats” can simply mean threatening communications that are conveyed via the Internet, cellphone, or other digital means. The communication in interstate commerce of threats to harm a person or property, to kidnap a person, or to damage a person’s reputation, is a violation of federal law pursuant to 18 U.S.C. § 875.

" Cyber Stalking" talking is a pattern of repeated and unwanted attention, harassment, contact, or any other course of conduct directed at a specific person that would cause a reasonable person to feel fear. Examples include-- Repeated, unwanted, intrusive, and frightening communications from the perpetrator by phone, mail, and/or email, Making direct or indirect threats to harm the victim, the victim's children, relatives, friends, or pets, Harassing the victim through the Internet • Posting information or spreading rumors about the victim on the Internet, in a public place, or by word of mouth, Obtaining personal information about the victim by accessing public records, using Internet search services, hiring private investigators, searching through the victim's garbage, following the victim, and contacting the victim's friends, family, co-workers, or neighbors, etc.

I hope somebody will have a heart and a set of balls and figure something out. Probably an unrealistic view. Also- I am open to have a discussion with any Gen Chat mod or HR. I am not here for drama.. I am not here for whatever bullshit reason I'm sure people will think of. Just tired of seeing the same thing ..over..and over..and over..again without any real change.

Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
THANK YOU!!!!

all of this ^^^^^^^^^
 
please do. I don’t care if you pm my admin, and you are trying to threaten me because you won’t take this seriously? Nice one, bro!

ladies and gents - your general chat admin. Doesn’t want to deal with d1ck pics being sent to main chat for kids to see but doesn’t like the fact that a mod is commenting.

Fuuuuuuck me 😂
@Bento
 

This is the conversation in question.

This was never meant to be the be-all end-all of your investigation, but merely a piece of the puzzle. COMBINED WITH other pieces of evidence that can be found here https://forum.chat-avenue.com/threads/alright.936443/ :

"And I'm not a pedo , one time I was joking that I'd ask mikah to **** with me and I didn't even notice that she's 15 oh boo hoo"
(Caught lying, the SS shows she claimed to be 15, he said he didn't care he'd jsut break out of prison, and what kinda loopy land have we entered where saying "I'm serious" means i'm joking?)

"and unlike u im not an actual pedo coz just because girls have kissed me irl and were underage that doesnt make me a pedo I already said that."
(Like they somehow forced you? Youre an adult, youre supposed to have better common sense than this)

COMBINED WITH your ability to check chat logs to confirm the legitimacy of these SSs (If this isn't in your ability to do, this place is more broken than I thought)

COMBINED WITH witness reports of not only just my friends but yours too (Lesley as an example)

COMBINED WITH the fact he's 22 and has been banned from the teens room for going there.

COMBINED WITH the fact you say he's admitted to this and apologised

This gives a very strong case that this chatter has violated the ATTEMPTED EXPLOITATION of a minor, which is supposed to be met with a ZERO TOLERANCE of a BAN. Not a supposed "Ban warning", because "It's a prank bro" is actually some sort of valid excuse that completely invalidates the idea of ZERO TOLERANCE.

And for doing the due diligence of reporting this to you, in PM, as requested, we're labelled mini modders and trolls that are selfish and in no way are just trying to look out for the safety of minors in this once loved chat room of ours.

This is ridiculous and inexcusable. Even if he WAS joking, it's called consequences of your own actions, because tolerating this based on a joke doesn't appear to be a case of ZERO TOLERANCE.

Bumped for visibility, as I feel like this is INCREDIBLY important and being buried under other fights and spam posting
 
I cannot believe this muppet. I gave proof, a censored screenshot. (It shouldn't matter if it's censored or not!) Clearly if I censored it, it has to be something bad. But nope, it got disregarded. Any screenie is proof! Bloody stupid. And also this:
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I reported this guy a thousand times, I went to the mods, and nothing. Some even said they would tell HR, which is clear they haven't. Or they did and he just chooses to do nothing!

If you're a reasonable chatter, I implore you to follow this link and post a comment on what you've seen going on in this chatroom recently: https://forum.chat-avenue.com/threads/re-im-sick-of-it.936534/
Keep preaching. Something is bound to happen. Maybe HR will get fired. Lmfao.
 
Holy fucking ****, Admin having a meltdown on aisle 3. Clean up required.

HR if you don't like people who have been on the site for 8 years and who have modded in gen and other rooms as well as using other chat sites in the past telling you how to do your job, do your job the way it's supposed to be done and stop trying to cover up and clean up Chat Avenue's pedo problem by hoping it'll go away if people don't mention it. It won't.
 
Holy fucking ****, Admin having a meltdown on aisle 3. Clean up required.

HR if you don't like people who have been on the site for 8 years and who have modded in gen and other rooms as well as using other chat sites in the past telling you how to do your job, do your job the way it's supposed to be done and stop trying to cover up and clean up Chat Avenue's pedo problem by hoping it'll go away if people don't mention it. It won't.
It's nice having smart people like you here. And everyone else whom isn't HR. :3
 
Honestly who uses the word pelvis. He's referring to photos of people at the beach or shirtless, that are ABOVE the waist.

Not surprising you have no idea about the human anatomy.

So nudity isnt bannable. But you'll ban me for pictures of my "pelvis".

The double-standards and hypocrisy is glaringly apparent...
 
https://forum.chat-avenue.com/threads/alright.936443/page-3 clearly shows why that radair chatter was not banned. And wish as we might- nudity is not bannable t.hat I know of. I dont answer to ********, I answer to the admin-and Im clear on my role amd limits. And th.ats what Ill keep doing 🙂
It seems your speech impediment is showing. If nudity isn't ban-able, then you should unban all those pedos who sent D pics. After all, they are "just nudes". .-.
 
We know why he wasn't banned, you've completely ignored my statement where I've said change your rules to reflect that, because lying about "not being serious" after being caught saying "I was serious" isn't a case of ZERO TOLERANCE.

How are we at all supposed to take the rules of these room seriously and "flag stuff against the rules" if a way out of a zero tolerance policy is to say "It's a prank bro" essentially? This sets a precedent, not only can you just make stuff up after the fact to get out of breaking them, or what is in the rules isn't exactly believable or reflected in reality.

And I'm confident in my statement he's lying when he's said "She never told me she was 15" when it was IN HER PROFILE and my SS shows mikah telling him DIRECTLY she is 15, only to be answered by "I'll break out of jail for you".

Anyone can lie when caught. Again, amazing we are labelled trolls when we have genuine concern, yet you're essentially saying this guy is "Shock trolling" and that's all of a sudden fine. Never seen you start a thread about him trolling.
 
We know why he wasn't banned, you've completely ignored my statement where I've said change your rules to reflect that, because lying about "not being serious" after being caught saying "I was serious" isn't a case of ZERO TOLERANCE.

How are we at all supposed to take the rules of these room seriously and "flag stuff against the rules" if a way out of a zero tolerance policy is to say "It's a prank bro" essentially? This sets a precedent, not only can you just make stuff up after the fact to get out of breaking them, or what is in the rules isn't exactly believable or reflected in reality.

And I'm confident in my statement he's lying when he's said "She never told me she was 15" when it was IN HER PROFILE and my SS shows mikah telling him DIRECTLY she is 15, only to be answered by "I'll break out of jail for you".

Anyone can lie when caught. Again, amazing we are labelled trolls when we have genuine concern, yet you're essentially saying this guy is "Shock trolling" and that's all of a sudden fine. Never seen you start a thread about him trolling.
HR once said I was "mini modding" even though I wasn't. I showed how users were getting muted for no reason. Including me. I was talking about how a pedo didn't get banned and how the mods didn't do anything. And I got muted. And yet, that's considered "mini modding"? Bruv, HR is quite special.
 
I think you misunderstood the whole point. You can never mod in gen chat after fighting with another mod, and especailly after you told me you called a peer the c bomb- and you will note- I have never modded you-mini or otherwise. Its a known running joke you mini mod all the time. And no we dont grant it in the main room- unless there was perhaps a exploit or spamming we couldnt stop. see? here you are again- mini modding because you hhave nev er held a position in modern.
Dude, you know you can edit your posts right? I mean, typing like a lobotomised 5 year old with brain damage does not make you look like an admin who has their house in order.
 
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That's what I said early in this forum, I stopped flagging stuff because I was made fun of for mini-modding when doing so. Yet we're being criticised for not-flagging "skimpy" posts? The same thing HR has said "I don't agree with morally but can't do anything against the rules"? Damned if we do, damned if we don't.
 
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