Suicide Talk for Attention

Is talking about Suicide for Attention normal & socially acceptable???

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Abigail 19 said:
get a life Kim. After all these years, you still stalk me to post the crap you and mememe made up about me. Cloning my account and posting rubbish about killing myself. This was the admin & mod folks !!! These are older adult women folks !!! Kim, your incessant obsession with stalking me many years later and reviving your antics only goes to show your psychopathy is pathological. Hey, I'll even post the lingerie pic so you and mememe can go completely ballistic with jealousy. Grown adult women folks!!! There it is.
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Lets back up to this ^^^ Not sure who you think i am , always was Kim for the 14 years ive been here . Who is/was mememe ? cloning accounts where exactly , my PC skills just about stretched to IP bans . What lingerie pic ? completely baffled here , this is hilarious .
We are talking about the digi days and pretty sure accounts came after that.
 
Abigail 19 said:
perhaps your father would not have killed himself if he felt he could have talked about it........ and not been silenced or accused of attention-seeking... just think about it. And sorry to hear for your loss.
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How do you know he was silenced and accused of being an attention-seeker? What a dumb thing to say. Do you know Babydollaā€™s family personally? Some people are given all the opportunities to talk freely about their problems, but still end up taking their lives. Talking about your problems helps, but itā€™s not a panacea. The brain is a complex organ. Talking does little to adjust certain chemical imbalances, even if there are no chemical imbalance at all, societal relations that cause psychosocial problems are too complex to solve by having a conversation about them. Some people donā€™t want to talk about their problems and itā€™s hard for loved ones to gage whatā€™s going on.

Now **** off, you insensitive reprobate.
 
Abigail 19 said:
perhaps your father would not have killed himself if he felt he could have talked about it........ and not been silenced or accused of attention-seeking... just think about it. And sorry to hear for your loss.
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u understand that talking about, or bringing up suicide for attention is something that is pretty much unique to the internet right??? i mean u should know, u literally went on a whole tirade about killing urself & pinning ur *death* on Sammy bc he banned u & u couldnt take the bullying & abuse believing that it should has been basically every regular user that wont tolerate ur sry sh*t that should has been banned & not u...

big time LOL

we all seen it, u can deny it & try gaslighting us all u want but thats the facts, u are quite literally one of the prime examples of exactly why even mentioning suicide on chat-avenue should be a bannable offense... for more than one reason;

1. u literally has used suicide for ur own selfish ulterior motives in trying to manipulate Sammy into unbanning u & banning those u think are *attacking you*, as well for attention

2. ur insensitive to the victims of those who has or had luv'd ones that did kill themselves, such as wat you said about my father... do u think he spent his entire life on various internet communities like ur old ass has??? ofc not, bc he was a normal functioning adult unlike u, my father was never silenced he obviously chose to not speak about it & made it seem like there wasn't anything wrong which often is the case with ppl who are genuinely suicidal bc they dont want to burden their luv'd ones with their problems more than they feel they already do & that is often why the one suffering suffers silently...

u should maybe take a chapter out of my daddy's book, maybe u will be able to fake ur suicide more effectively, bitch l0l
 
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Kim said:
Lets back up to this ^^^ Not sure who you think i am , always was Kim for the 14 years ive been here . Who is/was mememe ? cloning accounts where exactly , my PC skills just about stretched to IP bans . What lingerie pic ? completely baffled here , this is hilarious .
We are talking about the digi days and pretty sure accounts came after that.
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@Kim I am Mememe my name in classic chat before the transition thats how long that vile critter has been going at this bullshit, she/he/it claims I was jealous of a fake lingerie picture from ****** and thats why she/he/it was attacked.

I have no jealousy or interest in she/he/its fake life or pretend offense at the absolute vile rantings that comes out of the critters delusions.
 
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@Kim I am Mememe my name in classic chat before the transition thats how long that vile critter has been going at this bullshit, she/he/it claims I was jealous of a fake lingerie picture from ****** and thats why she/he/it was attacked.

I have no jealousy or interest in she/he/its fake life or pretend offense at the absolute vile rantings that comes out of the critters delusions.
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So we can both confirm that we do not know each other or have ever chatted in the past . I did think she thought maybe i was a previous AC Admin Courage Under fire who i do believe is called Kim ? And the only reason i know this is because of a Pm last yearish from a random saying CUF you are still here . CUF was Admin waaaaayyyyyyy way before me .
 
Kim said:
So we can both confirm that we do not know each other or have ever chatted in the past . I did think she thought maybe i was a previous AC Admin Courage Under fire who i do believe is called Kim ? And the only reason i know this is because of a Pm last yearish from a random saying CUF you are still here . CUF was Admin waaaaayyyyyyy way before me .
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cuf was an adult chat user... when there was only one chat... she then was teen chat admin then general chat admin. then like the roll of time, stuck to forums with various titles until she was done and walked off into the sunset. her real name is kim. at the time she was here, aged 30s-40s. lived in aus or nz. (ofc all of told freely by her no doxxing of her)

sang has been around since the moving of the rooms and when adult became adult, and singles was a side room of adult. because of that it wasnt uncommon for adult users to be seen in singles even after the split.
 
purplerose said:
cuf was an adult chat user... when there was only one chat... she then was teen chat admin then general chat admin. then like the roll of time, stuck to forums with various titles until she was done and walked off into the sunset. her real name is kim. at the time she was here, aged 30s-40s. lived in aus or nz. (ofc all of told freely by her no doxxing of her)

sang has been around since the moving of the rooms and when adult became adult, and singles was a side room of adult. because of that it wasnt uncommon for adult users to be seen in singles even after the split.
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Thanks @purplerose , i should have tagged you in that post to clarify initially. I think this is who sang has me mistaken with .
 
redcrazykid said:
Because eventually they'll get bored and find something else to do. šŸ™‚
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l0l no they wont, r u smokinā€™ crack???

so long as theyre continued to be fed attention, as long as there are ppl who will pity them, & as long as it remains something u wont be banned for; theyā€™ll never stop, or become bored of it, bc these are emotional vampires masquerading as depressed peopleā€¦

even if one does get bored or tired of it, & move on to something else another one will appear & start doing it too, & until this is a bannable offense the vicious cycle will continueā€¦
 
babydolla said:
l0l no they wont, r u smokinā€™ crack???

so long as theyre continued to be fed attention, as long as there are ppl who will pity them, & as long as it remains something u wont be banned for; theyā€™ll never stop, or become bored of it, bc these are emotional vampires masquerading as depressed peopleā€¦

even if one does get bored or tired of it, & move on to something else another one will appear & start doing it too, & until this is a bannable offense the vicious cycle will continueā€¦
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Why don't you post another gif of yourself you self absorbed, nothing of substance to say, air headed, attention seeking fuckwit?
 
Triggeringfailures said:
Why don't you post another gif of yourself you self absorbed, nothing of substance to say, air headed, attention seeking fuckwit?
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how about u kick rocks šŸ‘…

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Talking/joking about suicide FOR ATTENTION PURPOSES ONLY is what the thread is all about. Not about mental health or anyone actually considering self harm. Trolling or spamming about suicide is a slap in the face to all the families who have lost someone to it. Itā€™s immoral and does a disservice to everyone who is actually suffering. As someone who was suicidal just a couple years ago and was actually hospitalized for it I can say I never thought about ranting online about it all day every day. Anyone defending people who use suicide talk for attention/entertainment purposes are just as sick as those who do it in the first place. And again, @babydolla im so sorry for your loss. Stay strong šŸ’Ŗ
 
if youre struggling with suicidal thoughts, if you has a luv'd one that has committed suicide, or are concerned a luv'd one may be suicidal & genuinely need to seek help you should rly be considering reading this thread & not droning on about it on whichever chat you use; https://forum.chat-avenue.com/threads/chat-avenue-suicide-prevention-thread.946142/#post-1201800

THIS thread, that i made, is specifically for the debate on whether or not suicide talk, joking about suicide, or using suicide to emotionally manipulate people should be a bannable offense...

it should be a bannable offense because there are clear resources available for those who are sincerely contemplating taking their own lives & need help, there are people who care... this also goes to show that by no means should a moderator be obligated to step in & intervene themselves in something as fragile as someone's mental health, their ONLY obligation is enforcing the rules & keeping the chat safe...

so with this thread, now the mods too has a resource that they can redirect them to, & can proceed to removing them from the chat accordingly with the presumption that they are likely only fishing for pity...

okie, lets continue ~
 
babydolla said:
u understand that talking about, or bringing up suicide for attention is something that is pretty much unique to the internet right??? i mean u should know, u literally went on a whole tirade about killing urself & pinning ur *death* on Sammy bc he banned u & u couldnt take the bullying & abuse believing that it should has been basically every regular user that wont tolerate ur sry sh*t that should has been banned & not u...

big time LOL

we all seen it, u can deny it & try gaslighting us all u want but thats the facts, u are quite literally one of the prime examples of exactly why even mentioning suicide on chat-avenue should be a bannable offense... for more than one reason;

1. u literally has used suicide for ur own selfish ulterior motives in trying to manipulate Sammy into unbanning u & banning those u think are *attacking you*, as well for attention

2. ur insensitive to the victims of those who has or had luv'd ones that did kill themselves, such as wat you said about my father... do u think he spent his entire life on various internet communities like ur old ass has??? ofc not, bc he was a normal functioning adult unlike u, my father was never silenced he obviously chose to not speak about it & made it seem like there wasn't anything wrong which often is the case with ppl who are genuinely suicidal bc they dont want to burden their luv'd ones with their problems more than they feel they already do & that is often why the one suffering suffers silently...

u should maybe take a chapter out of my daddy's book, maybe u will be able to fake ur suicide more effectively, bitch l0l
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god you're an idiot. You just repeat what the trolls post. If any of it was true, I'd care. All I see are mentally ill people trying to control others on this chat site by cloning, attacking and trolling. And then trying to silence anyone who dares to confront their anti-social behaviour.
YOU don't decide what is and is not appropriate regarding the topic of suicide. You are clearly intent on milking your father's mental illness which took his life for you own attention-seeking efforts. you HATE it when all attention isn't on you (it's nauseating). You CONSTANTLY play the victim and never take any responsibility for your decisions and choices. Grow up. And stop doing drugs. Start living your life in the real world.

And as for HR, he needs to believe the trolls as well. I've honestly given up trying to communicate with him as an adult. He needs to believe and add to a false narrative created out of malice, so as to power trip - good for him. Instead of addressing the real abuse that goes on here, he picks the path of least resistance to score points with the trolls/regs. Says more about him than me. I've never given this place the value that a bunch of stalking harassing obsessed trolls give it. Enjoy whatever it is you think you're achieving here.

As for the whether people should talk about suicide, many studies carried out by the real professionals in the medical world show that if people are permitted to talk openly about feeling suicidal, they are more likely to get the support they need and/or not carry through on killing themselves. I would genuinely advise all of you NOT to be submitting to the rantings of drug-affected, attention seekers who are incapable of seeing beyond her own victimhood for attention-seeking purposes, then projecting that onto matters they are in no way qualified to be commenting on.
 
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DontCostYaNuffin said:
How do you know he was silenced and accused of being an attention-seeker? What a dumb thing to say. Do you know Babydollaā€™s family personally? Some people are given all the opportunities to talk freely about their problems, but still end up taking their lives. Talking about your problems helps, but itā€™s not a panacea. The brain is a complex organ. Talking does little to adjust certain chemical imbalances, even if there are no chemical imbalance at all, societal relations that cause psychosocial problems are too complex to solve by having a conversation about them. Some people donā€™t want to talk about their problems and itā€™s hard for loved ones to gage whatā€™s going on.

Now **** off, you insensitive reprobate.
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It's not what I said. Please don't misrepresent what I said. I was hypothetical in stating that perhaps it may have changed the outcome had he been able to talk to someone. Refrain from paraphrasing my comments so as to have an excuse to abuse me to score points with the trolls. You are a well-known ass-kisser to the trolls.
 
Abigail 19 said:
It's not what I said. Please don't misrepresent what I said. I was hypothetical in stating that perhaps it may have changed the outcome had he been able to talk to someone. Refrain from paraphrasing my comments so as to have an excuse to abuse me to score points with the trolls. You are a well-known ass-kisser to the trolls.
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You clearly failed to understand my post. Talking does little to adjust certain chemical imbalances, even if there are no chemical imbalance at all, societal relations that cause psychosocial problems are too complex to solve by having a conversation about them. So letā€™s say he did talk about them, thereā€™s no guarantee it would have prevented him from committing suicide. In the end itā€™s all just assumption and speculation.
 
DontCostYaNuffin said:
You clearly failed to understand my post. Talking does little to adjust certain chemical imbalances, even if there are no chemical imbalance at all, societal relations that cause psychosocial problems are too complex to solve by having a conversation about them. So letā€™s say he did talk about them, thereā€™s no guarantee it would have prevented him from committing suicide. In the end itā€™s all just assumption and speculation.
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I agree with you. It doesn't guarantee anything. But why deny that person the chance it might. Medical studies have shown that by de-stigmatising suicide and openly talking about it, it HAS saved lives. You shouldn't be punishing someone because they state they're hurting and want to pain to stop. Which is what babydolla wants to happen on this chat site because it takes away attention from her constant attention-seeking bullshit.
 
Abigail 19 said:
I agree with you. It doesn't guarantee anything. But why deny that person the chance it might. Medical studies have shown that by de-stigmatising suicide and openly talking about it, it HAS saved lives.
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Talking openly about suicide doesnā€™t necessarily lead to de-stigmatization, because people reason from preconceived notions they have about the person theyā€™re discussing suicide with. Itā€™s hard for outsiders to gage what is going on and theyā€™re likely to misinterpret the situation and the personā€™s thoughts and draw conclusions that could actually do more harm. Forcing someone to talk works counterproductive. Keeping an eye on someone as to make sure they donā€™t cause harm to themselves would be a more sensible strategy in my humble opinion. You canā€™t force someone to open up about their feelings. Make sure the person in question feels loved and make sure that person feels that they matter to you and everyone around them and hopefully theyā€™ll open up and then itā€™s time to sit down and talk, not on my terms but on theirs.
 
DontCostYaNuffin said:
Talking openly about suicide doesnā€™t necessarily lead to de-stigmatization, because people reason from preconceived notions they have about the person theyā€™re discussing suicide with. Itā€™s hard for outsiders to gage what is going on and theyā€™re likely to misinterpret the situation and the personā€™s thoughts and draw conclusions that could actually do more harm. Forcing someone to talk works counterproductive. Keeping an eye on someone as to make sure they donā€™t cause harm to themselves would be a more sensible strategy in my humble opinion. You canā€™t force someone to open up about their feelings. Make sure the person in question feels loved and make sure that person feels that they matter to you and everyone around them and hopefully theyā€™ll open up and then itā€™s time to sit down and talk, not on my terms but on theirs.
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again, I didn't say force them to speak. I said the option should be available to them if they want it. Kicking them hardly allows that.
 
Abigail 19 said:
again, I didn't say force them to speak. I said the option should be available to them if they want it. Kicking them hardly allows that.
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You were discussing Babydollaā€™s father, though. Donā€™t keep referencing multiple conversations. Your comment about her father was unnecessarily insensitive. Thatā€™s hitting below the belt tbf.
 
DontCostYaNuffin said:
You were discussing Babydollaā€™s father, though. Donā€™t keep referencing multiple conversations. Your comment about her father was unnecessarily insensitive. Thatā€™s hitting below the belt tbf.
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Don't make things up thanks. Stop misrepresenting what I've posted to score points with the trolls. Your efforts are hitting below the belt tbf. Babydolla can apologise to all the people she's attacked and been unnecessarily insensitive to. She's not the only person here whose feelings matter. The selfish and self-absorbed thread she started says it all really. SHE doesn't own this website to decide who can and cannot be here, inciting trolls to gang up on vulnerable people, where do I stop?
 
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babydolla said:
so with this thread, now the mods too has a resource that they can redirect them to, & can proceed to removing them from the chat accordingly with the presumption that they are likely only fishing for pity...
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I personally will never be directing anyone to any of your ridiculous, hateful threads. Iā€™ll do what Iā€™ve always done if people talk about suicide in chat. Warn them to stop. Provide them with mental health resources. And if they continue then I will incrementally mute/kick them, per the rules and standard practice.
 
TheDifference said:
I personally will never be directing anyone to any of your ridiculous, hateful threads. Iā€™ll do what Iā€™ve always done if people talk about suicide in chat. Warn them to stop. Provide them with mental health resources. And if they continue then I will incrementally mute/kick them, per the rules and standard practice.
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No one in their right mind would hire you as a mod though. Keep dreaming.
 
DontCostYaNuffin said:
If youā€™re not able to gather that from the comments she has made on here thereā€™s no point in giving you examples. The details are there for all to see on this forum.
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you're not making any sense. Babydolla has started a thread to incite hatred towards anyone contemplating suicide. WHY would any mod direct any vulnerable person to anything Babydolla has to offer?
 
DontCostYaNuffin said:
If youā€™re not able to gather that from the comments she has made on here thereā€™s no point in giving you examples. The details are there for all to see on this forum.
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Thatā€™s a great example of a deflection. If you make a statement you should be able to back it up with facts. This thread isnā€™t about me and my ability to moderate a chat room. Youā€™re the one that brought that in. So either back it up with factual statements or itā€™s not valid.
 
TheDifference said:
Thatā€™s a great example of a deflection. If you make a statement you should be able to back it up with facts. This thread isnā€™t about me and my ability to moderate a chat room.
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Itā€™s not a deflection, because I already gave examples in the previous comments I made, ad nauseam. Whatā€™s the point in repeating them? We can agree to disagree.
 
DontCostYaNuffin said:
Itā€™s not a deflection, because I already gave examples in the previous comments I made, ad nauseam. Whatā€™s the point in repeating them? We can agree to disagree.
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Huh? Where exactly are examples you gave of why no one in their right mind would hire me as a mod? I just scanned all 7 pages and you never made any comments related to that. šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø
 
TheDifference said:
Nope. Just waiting for you to provide all these examples you said you made about me in this thread.
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Iā€™m not your lackey. I posted an example earlier as to why I believe Sanguine isnā€™t qualified to be a mod. I donā€™t care if you believe Babydollaā€™s thread is hateful, it doesnā€™t give Sanguine the right to talk **** about Babydollaā€™s deceased father.
 
DontCostYaNuffin said:
Iā€™m not your lackey. I posted an example earlier as to why I believe Sanguine isnā€™t qualified to be a mod. I donā€™t care if you believe Babydollaā€™s thread is hateful, it doesnā€™t give Sanguine the right to talk **** about Babydollaā€™s deceased father.
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Uhmmm ok? But that has nothing to do with me.
You quoted MY post and said no one in their right mind would hire ME as a mod. Maybe you got confused or something? Idk šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø
 
TheDifference said:
Uhmmm ok? But that has nothing to do with me.
You quoted MY post and said no one in their right mind would hire ME as a mod. Maybe you got confused or something? Idk šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø
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I meant hire you as a forums admin, after you made that comment about Babydollaā€™s thread, calling it a ridiculous and hateful thread. Babydolla lost her father due to suicide, I donā€™t think itā€™s her intention to hate on people who are suicidal and she has every right to make this thread. It looks like youā€™re trying to get her thread closed down.
 
TheDifference said:
Uhmmm ok? But that has nothing to do with me.
You quoted MY post and said no one in their right mind would hire ME as a mod. Maybe you got confused or something? Idk šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø
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Lol, I thought the post I quoted was by Sanguine until I saw your name, must have been a glitch because it said Abigail19 at first. I still stand by my original post regarding Sanguineā€™s comment being out of line. Her comment was uncalled for. You donā€™t talk **** about the dead, plus I donā€™t think itā€™s Babydollaā€™s intention to be hateful, after all, she stated she lost het father due to suicide.
 
DontCostYaNuffin said:
Lol, I thought the post I quoted was by Sanguine until I saw your name, must have been a glitch because it said Abigail19 at first. I still stand by my original post regarding Sanguineā€™s comment being out of line. Her comment was uncalled for. You donā€™t talk **** about the dead, plus I donā€™t think itā€™s Babydollaā€™s intention to be hateful, after all, she stated she lost het father due to suicide.
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I figured it was a mix up. All good.
 
Kim said:
So we can both confirm that we do not know each other or have ever chatted in the past . I did think she thought maybe i was a previous AC Admin Courage Under fire who i do believe is called Kim ? And the only reason i know this is because of a Pm last yearish from a random saying CUF you are still here . CUF was Admin waaaaayyyyyyy way before me .
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Yes I can confirm I have never had a conversation with you or ever chatted with you in the past. Sanguine is delusional and thinks everyone is someone else out to get her/his/its 500 personalities.
 
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@Abigail 19,

as always; anytime someone tries to dispute my claims against them, & tries gaslighting everyone against me...

someway, somehow, that evidence they swear i don't has or will ever get bc it *doesnt exist* always finds it's way to me; & u are no exception to this phenomenon, Sanguine u decerped $kank... LOL

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it comes to me bc god knows i'm doing god's work here on earth, baby šŸ’šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļøšŸ‘¼šŸ¼

MAYBE NEXT TIME U FAKE UR SUICIDE, DONT FUCKIN' COME BACK, & ESPECIALLY DONT COME BACK THINKING EVERYONE FORGOT LOL MAYBE THEN WE WOULD HAS ACTUALLY BELEIVED UR OLD GERIATIC ASS šŸ¤£šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£šŸ˜‚

this proves; my righteousness ~
this proves; ur a sucker ~

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TheDifference said:
I personally will never be directing anyone to any of your ridiculous, hateful threads. Iā€™ll do what Iā€™ve always done if people talk about suicide in chat. Warn them to stop. Provide them with mental health resources. And if they continue then I will incrementally mute/kick them, per the rules and standard practice.
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hateful threads??? i didn't post any hateful threads, show me one hateful thread that i posted, & dont say this one bc it isn't hateful u just dislike how outspoken i am about it - but being outspoken doesn't equate to being hateful...

also the thread that u will *never be directing anyone to*...

for one, wasn't even made by me it was made by johnny...

& two, that same thread that u refuse to direct anyone to contains suicide prevention information, & resources from various countries...

how insensitive of u, i think u just has it out for me like everyone has it out for someone who that is very outspoken & won't be fake about sh*t bc *PeOpLe HaS fEeLiNgS* gimmie a fuckin' break šŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø

u can leave my thread now;


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So to talk about this subject can be hard. I think people shouldn't lie abt suicide to get attention. It's hard for me to talk about bc of my very close bff. He was going through a terrible situation and he ended up killing himself. I tried to be there for him. I find it hard bc i was at his house with him when he killed himself. He asked me to go get him a drink. When i left he seemed fine. When i came back he killed himself. I tried saving him he barely had a heartbeat. When i yelled for his parents by the time they came up he died in my arms. Everyday i see the whole thing. I deal with the guilt all the time. So people joking abt suicide and talking abt it just for attention is very wrong to do. I am sry if i answered very wrong. I just gave my opinion.
 
babydolla said:
@Abigail 19,

as always; anytime someone tries to dispute my claims against them, & tries gaslighting everyone against me...

someway, somehow, that evidence they swear i don't has or will ever get bc it *doesnt exist* always finds it's way to me; & u are no exception to this phenomenon, Sanguine u decerped $kank... LOL

7SXv3om.jpeg


it comes to me bc god knows i'm doing god's work here on earth, baby šŸ’šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļøšŸ‘¼šŸ¼

MAYBE NEXT TIME U FAKE UR SUICIDE, DONT FUCKIN' COME BACK, & ESPECIALLY DONT COME BACK THINKING EVERYONE FORGOT LOL MAYBE THEN WE WOULD HAS ACTUALLY BELEIVED UR OLD GERIATIC ASS šŸ¤£šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£šŸ˜‚

this proves; my righteousness ~
this proves; ur a sucker ~

šŸ­
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She'll say it wasn't suicide, that she was murdered, and in a way, she was.

 
GothandRock said:
So to talk about this subject can be hard. I think people shouldn't lie abt suicide to get attention. It's hard for me to talk about bc of my very close bff. He was going through a terrible situation and he ended up killing himself. I tried to be there for him. I find it hard bc i was at his house with him when he killed himself. He asked me to go get him a drink. When i left he seemed fine. When i came back he killed himself. I tried saving him he barely had a heartbeat. When i yelled for his parents by the time they came up he died in my arms. Everyday i see the whole thing. I deal with the guilt all the time. So people joking abt suicide and talking abt it just for attention is very wrong to do. I am sry if i answered very wrong. I just gave my opinion.
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*those who sincerely suffer, suffer silently*
 
GothandRock said:
I really wish he would've told me how bad he was instead of hiding it from me and his family.
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i'm terribly sorry for ur loss, truly...

sadly, that is all too common & too often what happens & that was the same situation for my father...

IDK about ur friend, but my family is pretty unanimous that the reason he never said anything to anyone, especially my mom is bc he didn't feel like he wanted to burden his family with his problems more than he already has...

it wasn't bc of some outrageous nonsense like; *talking about suicide is stigmatized, & if he felt like he could & not be seen as if he's just wanting attention then maybe he would has* quite the contrary, if anything we live in a day & age where it's encouraged... which im sure is likely the case w/ ur friend too, probablys & this is just speculating, like my father felt the same way about it being burdensome...

ur friend certainly if he wasn't talking to u or ur family about it, wasn't coming onto chat-avenue or any other chatroom & droning on about it 9/10 of the time they're on there... bc ur friend was sincerely suffering, & suffering silently, & not doing it for something as petty as attention...

unlike abigail, katelyn_uk, or dionysus...
 
babydolla said:
i'm terribly sorry for ur loss, truly...

sadly, that is all too common & too often what happens & that was the same situation for my father...

IDK about ur friend, but my family is pretty unanimous that the reason he never said anything to anyone, especially my mom is bc he didn't feel like he wanted to burden his family with his problems more than he already has...

it wasn't bc of some outrageous nonsense like; *talking about suicide is stigmatized, & if he felt like he could & not be seen as if he's just wanting attention then maybe he would has* quite the contrary, if anything we live in a day & age where it's encouraged... which im sure is likely the case w/ ur friend too, probablys & this is just speculating, like my father felt the same way about it being burdensome...

ur friend certainly if he wasn't talking to u or ur family about it, wasn't coming onto chat-avenue or any other chatroom & droning on about it 9/10 of the time they're on there... bc ur friend was sincerely suffering, & suffering silently, & not doing it for something as petty as attention...

unlike abigail, katelyn_uk, or dionysus...
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Thank you. I'm glad my friend and your father aren't suffering anymore
 
GothandRock said:
Thank you. I'm glad my friend and your father aren't suffering anymore
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that is exactly the thought i has, which keeps the fact i had to experience that from becoming every aspect of my life...

i find solace in that, & it allows me to worry more about how it effects my mother & older sisters than how it effects me bc they took it the hardest for sures...

i hope u can find solace in the same, my boy (or girl)...

bless u šŸ’—šŸ‘¼šŸ¼
 
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literally @Abigail 19 2.0, now theyre putting it in their mood rather than incessantly spamming it...

totally not for attention at all šŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø

see this is what i mean, they will always find a way to continue & try to emotionally manipulate ppl & the only way to stop it is by banning everyone who does this sry ass sh*t...
 
babydolla said:
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literally @Abigail 19 2.0, now theyre putting it in their mood rather than incessantly spamming it...

totally not for attention at all šŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø

see this is what i mean, they will always find a way to continue & try to emotionally manipulate ppl & the only way to stop it is by banning everyone who does this sry ass sh*t...
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The detective is at it again!
 
TheDifference said:
Youā€™re clearly obsessed with me and mention me in threads Iā€™m not even involved in. Everyone can see that.
Iā€™m not a moron. I just call you and others out on your hate speech and horrible behavior. And you donā€™t like being held accountable for the things you say. Youā€™ve been banned so many times here you have lost all credibility. Thatā€™s why I usually ignore you.

As for the ā€œmanyā€ adult chat mods who say Iā€™m a moron, thatā€™s baseless. Not a single one of them has come to me with any concerns about my behavior here or how I mod. If they have any problem with me they are always free to talk to me and let me know their concerns. Thatā€™s what adults do.

If you continue to TattletagĀ® my admins for no good reason itā€™s only going to annoy them and make you look petty and childish. Grow up and move on.
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Iā€™m so obsessed yet you always respond.

Checkmate youā€™re my little bitch. šŸ¤£

Also as for not being held accountable? I do my fair time of ban from here. Only loses credibility with certain people who really shouldnā€™t be on the internet when theyā€™re more sensitive than a fanny that has more than 8000 nerve endings. Shut the **** up you anthrax spore. Iā€™ve apologised to people more than youā€™d know.
 
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Youā€™re clearly obsessed with me and mention me in threads Iā€™m not even involved in. Everyone can see that.
Iā€™m not a moron. I just call you and others out on your hate speech and horrible behavior. And you donā€™t like being held accountable for the things you say. Youā€™ve been banned so many times here you have lost all credibility. Thatā€™s why I usually ignore you.

As for the ā€œmanyā€ adult chat mods who say Iā€™m a moron, thatā€™s baseless. Not a single one of them has come to me with any concerns about my behavior here or how I mod. If they have any problem with me they are always free to talk to me and let me know their concerns. Thatā€™s what adults do.

If you continue to TattletagĀ® my admins for no good reason itā€™s only going to annoy them and make you look petty and childish. Grow up and move on.
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u involved urself in my thread, for a 4th time & even went as far as to pathetically try & manipulate me using piss poor reverse psychology into closing itā€¦

u choose to respond, even after as the OP i told u to f*ck off, u didnt has to reply to @Luka u could has ignored him but u replied anywaysā€¦

& just like i told u i would, i am reporting u for spam / derailment; @Samwise / @Ness_eb
 
babydolla said:
u involved urself in my thread, for a 4th time & even went as far as to pathetically try & manipulate me using piss poor reverse psychology into closing itā€¦

u choose to respond, even after as the OP i told u to f*ck off, u didnt has to reply to @Luka u could has ignored him but u replied anywaysā€¦

& just like i told u i would, i am reporting u for spam / derailment; @Samwise / @Ness_eb
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He does love to detail these threads. You should close this one so he canā€™t do it!
 
babydolla said:
i am hoping that sammy, or nessie, will just ban him from replying to this thread anymore...

there are still tons of users who has not gave any insight / their vote, still tons of users that has not read it, & tons of new users that join the forums everyday whether to lurk or not that this thread should be available to...

this thread is important, bc it's a discussion about the issues that comes with allowing a user to nimbly bring up suicide every chance they get, as far as to suggest they want to kill themselves, but it's all just an act for attention... like the many examples i has given of different users who do exactly that...

it even allows other victims of suicide, ppl that has experienced someone very dear to them killing themselves to share not only their experience, but to share further indication that no one comes on chat-room that is sincerely suicidal & starts talking about wanting to die with total strangers & are actually serious about it...

& u know what??? if this thread closes without my blessing, i'll just fuckin' make another one i dont care... šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø
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Just for clarification, I laugh reacted purely for the last line.

I agree itā€™s an important topic and anyone who uses false claims of suicide just for attention should be banned. I ainā€™t getting paid to decipher who is legit and who isnā€™t.
 
@babydolla

Thatā€™s fine. I made my points here so Iā€™m done. And just to be clear, my first few posts were valid and on topic. Then I asked you an on topic question that you didnā€™t like. Then Dontcostyanuffin got mixed up and the thread derailed a bit. But that got resolved. Until Luka decided to ā€œpoke his nose inā€ and TattletagĀ® my admin. Which I needed to respond to. So if you want to blame anyone for bringing me back here, itā€™s him. šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø Now hopefully people can stop talking about me and get back to the topic at hand. Anyhoo, Iā€™m out āœŒšŸ»

(P.S. remember everyone, no talking about me).
 
TheDifference said:
@babydolla

Thatā€™s fine. I made my points here so Iā€™m done. And just to be clear, my first few posts were valid and on topic. Then I asked you an on topic question that you didnā€™t like. Then Dontcostyanuffin got mixed up and the thread derailed a bit. But that got resolved. Until Luka decided to ā€œpoke his nose inā€ and TattletagĀ® my admin. Which I needed to respond to. So if you want to blame anyone for bringing me back here, itā€™s him. šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø Now hopefully people can stop talking about me and get back to the topic at hand. Anyhoo, Iā€™m out āœŒšŸ»

(P.S. remember everyone, no talking about me).
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Threads get derailed all the time. I derail most of them myself. Canā€™t help it. Thereā€™s things I have to say that people need to hear.

In my opinion, itā€™s only the complaint threads that should get closed when derailed. Threads such as this can handle a little derailment. Iā€™m sure if @babydolla wanred it closed, sheā€™d request it.

Now leave her alone, you bully. Or Iā€™m gonna subliminally suggest she starts a poll on whether you should be banned. Monster
 
babydolla said:
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literally @Abigail 19 2.0, now theyre putting it in their mood rather than incessantly spamming it...

totally not for attention at all šŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø

see this is what i mean, they will always find a way to continue & try to emotionally manipulate ppl & the only way to stop it is by banning everyone who does this sry ass sh*t...
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What if she's one of the entombed women from Duke Nukem 3D?

 
TheDifference said:
@babydolla

Thatā€™s fine. I made my points here so Iā€™m done. And just to be clear, my first few posts were valid and on topic. Then I asked you an on topic question that you didnā€™t like. Then Dontcostyanuffin got mixed up and the thread derailed a bit. But that got resolved. Until Luka decided to ā€œpoke his nose inā€ and TattletagĀ® my admin. Which I needed to respond to. So if you want to blame anyone for bringing me back here, itā€™s him. šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø Now hopefully people can stop talking about me and get back to the topic at hand. Anyhoo, Iā€™m out āœŒšŸ»

(P.S. remember everyone, no talking about me).
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I still stand by my original post regarding Sanguineā€™s comment being out of line, though. Her comment was uncalled for. You donā€™t talk **** about a forum member's dead parent, plus itā€™s not Babydollaā€™s intention to be hateful as you assumed , after all, she stated she lost het father due to suicide.
 
Samwise said:
No thank you, Debate forum rules mention off topic posts etc get pruned, and coincidently, as a long time gardener Im happy to prune.

The debate lives on for now.
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thx u so much for leaving it open, & moving all the derailed responses... šŸ„²šŸ„²

i just want to add though that my followed up response moving on from the derailment actually is relevant to the thread that entire derailment & their motive for derailment is a point to all this my boy...

i swear some of the mod's in this thread are the more reason as to why ppl bringing up suicide here should be a bannable offense;

he knows that if these lunatics that behave like this were to be banned, he wouldnt has anyone to try saving & use to make himself look like as if heā€™s a totally good guyā€¦

its so insensitive that its pitiful, & grossly inappropriate; literally refused to reference people to the suicide prevention thread bc he embarrassingly assumed i made that thread, all bc im outspoken & wont mask what i believe in to spare some fuckinā€™ lilā€™ yella bitchā€™s feelingsā€¦

heā€™s the opposite extreme of ppl talking about killing themselves for attention, bc he acts like hes holier than thou bc he think hes doing a service, like the other jack off modā€™s that think theyre obligated to help these ppl like they took some sort of oath that gave their self entitled & disrespectful opinions in this thread tooā€¦ but as soon as u call them out on how inappropriate / disrespectful & frankly sociopathic that is, they start demanding ur degree, its crazy why any of this is acceptable is beyond me... šŸ¤ŒšŸ¼
 
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Honestly when i lost my bsf at his house. I honestly thought about suicide. Never for attention though. I did go through depression for a month and a half. This is hard to explain but then i got a "sign" from my bsf. There was this stray dog. Badly injured. My bsf said if there is every a yellow lab in danger it will be a sign from God. Sure enough the stray dog was a yellow lab. So i ended up crying and helping the pup. She's 5 yrs now. She's helped me through times when i cry about my bsf. I feel that my friend is always with me and his family. I am so sorry if i went off topic.
 
GothandRock said:
Honestly when i lost my bsf at his house. I honestly thought about suicide. Never for attention though. I did go through depression for a month and a half. This is hard to explain but then i got a "sign" from my bsf. There was this stray dog. Badly injured. My bsf said if there is every a yellow lab in danger it will be a sign from God. Sure enough the stray dog was a yellow lab. So i ended up crying and helping the pup. She's 5 yrs now. She's helped me through times when i cry about my bsf. I feel that my friend is always with me and his family. I am so sorry if i went off topic.
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thx u for sharing (not sarcastic)

i dont feel that is off-topic, if anything u aide in the debate by sharing ur experience bc u are a victim of someone who was very dear to you that has committed suicide...

so i can imagine that ppl who use suicide to feed off of the attention they receive strikes u as well as extremely disrespectful & inappropriate, as well as those who facilitate & enable it...
 
babydolla said:
thx u for sharing (not sarcastic)

i dont feel that is off-topic, if anything u aide in the debate by sharing ur experience bc u are a victim of someone who was very dear to you that has committed suicide...

so i can imagine that ppl who use suicide to feed off of the attention they receive strikes u as well as extremely disrespectful & inappropriate, as well as those who facilitate & enable it...
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Yes ma'am i don't understand why people do i for attention. It's wrong.
 
I do feel a lil dumb though i don't understand how to vote. Bc i don't fully understand the question to vote. Sorry i'm slow to understanding some things
 
GothandRock said:
I do feel a lil dumb though i don't understand how to vote. Bc i don't fully understand the question to vote. Sorry i'm slow to understanding some things
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based on how u answered my question,

select no, & hit submit... bc the topic of the thread is *is talking about suicide for attention acceptable*

since u dont think it's acceptable, ur answer would be no & therefore think it should be a bannable offense...
 
babydolla said:
tbh, the *Yes?* option is entirely sarcastic, bc the only moral choice honestly is no...


šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø moving on;
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Yea I kinda question the morals of those who vote yes thatā€™s it ok to talk/joke about suicide simply for attention. I put that up there with those who make false rape allegations. Does a total disservice to real victims. šŸ¤¬
 
babydolla said:
i swear some of the mod's in this thread are the more reason as to why ppl bringing up suicide here should be a bannable offense;

he knows that if these lunatics that behave like this were to be banned, he wouldnt has anyone to try saving & use to make himself look like as if heā€™s a totally good guyā€¦
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For someone who doesnā€™t want me in your thread you sure keep referencing me a lot. šŸ¤Ø
Since you referenced me Iā€™ll respond to your comment and to make my position completely clear Iā€™ll say this:

- The site rules are clear about suicide talk in chat. Itā€™s not allowed.

- I enforce that rule by first warning the person to stop and providing mental health support information. If they keep talking about it Iā€™ll incrementally mute/kick.

- Itā€™s not my place to try and ā€œsaveā€ someone or talk them down off the ledge.

- Itā€™s also not my place to determine if someone is seriously suicidal or doing it for attention. Thats why I handle it the way I described in my first point.

- I donā€™t think Iā€™m ā€œholier than thouā€. I enforce the site rules. Full stop.

My position on the ā€œdebateā€ is that the site rules as written are appropriate and prevent people from talking about suicide in chat. Those rules do not need to be changed. If someone continues to violate the site rules on a daily basis the room admin should consider them for a ban.
 
TheDifference said:
For someone who doesnā€™t want me in your thread you sure keep referencing me a lot. šŸ¤Ø
Since you referenced me Iā€™ll respond to your comment and to make my position completely clear Iā€™ll say this:

- The site rules are clear about suicide talk in chat. Itā€™s not allowed.

- I enforce that rule by first warning the person to stop and providing mental health support information. If they keep talking about it Iā€™ll incrementally mute/kick.

- Itā€™s not my place to try and ā€œsaveā€ someone or talk them down off the ledge.

- Itā€™s also not my place to determine if someone is seriously suicidal or doing it for attention. Thats why I handle it the way I described in my first point.

- I donā€™t think Iā€™m ā€œholier than thouā€. I enforce the site rules. Full stop.

My position on the ā€œdebateā€ is that the site rules as written are appropriate and prevent people from talking about suicide in chat. Those rules do not need to be changed. If someone continues to violate the site rules on a daily basis the room admin should consider them for a ban.
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those rules don't do anything to prevent people from talking about suicide in chat, if they were as effective as u seem to imagine them being then the mods wouldn't has to mute / kick / tell katelyn_uk to stop talking about suicide every damn time she is there...

but guess what??? every single time she comes right back & does it again... bc these rules that u glorify so much as flawless & appropriate enough don't do sh*t...

ur right it's neither ur place to determine if theyre serious or help them, exactly as @Finn2.0 one of ur colleagues said;

*I agree itā€™s an important topic and anyone who uses false claims of suicide just for attention should be banned. I ainā€™t getting paid to decipher who is legit and who isnā€™t*

its not ur obligation as a mod to do anything other than remove them, ur only determination needs to be that they're doing it for attention because no seriously suicidal person is coming on chat-avenue to tell total strangers how theyre killing themselves unless it's entirely for attention...

ur how old??? i was born in the year 2000, were u born yesterday??? did u only just discover the internet a couple years ago when u joined this website???? how are u even a mod @ adult chat, ur as naive as a child l0l

i bet u thought @Abigail 19 was possibly being serious when she was pretending to be suicidal too... šŸ™„šŸ™„šŸ™„
 
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babydolla said:
those rules don't do anything to prevent people from talking about suicide in chat, if they were as effective as u seem to imagine them being then the mods wouldn't has to mute / kick / tell katelyn_uk to stop talking about suicide every damn time she is there...

but guess what??? every single time she comes right back & does it again... bc these rules that u glorify so much as flawless & appropriate enough don't do sh*t...

ur right it's neither ur place to determine if theyre serious or help them, exactly as @Finn2.0 one of ur colleagues said;

*I agree itā€™s an important topic and anyone who uses false claims of suicide just for attention should be banned. I ainā€™t getting paid to decipher who is legit and who isnā€™t*

its not ur obligation as a mod to do anything other than remove them, ur only determination needs to be that they're doing it for attention because no seriously suicidal person is coming on chat-avenue to tell total strangers how theyre killing themselves unless it's entirely for attention...

ur how old??? i was born in the year 2000, were u born yesterday??? did u only just discover the internet a couple years ago when u joined this website???? how are u even a mod @ adult chat, ur as naive as a child l0l

i bet u thought @Abigail 19 was possibly being serious when she was pretending to be suicidal too... šŸ™„šŸ™„šŸ™„
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My age is off topic. When I discovered the internet is off topic. How am I a mod is off topic.
Try and stay on topic please.
 
@TheDifference the gentlemanly and honorable thing to do in this situation would be to admit defeat and apologize. False accusations wonā€™t get you anywhere in life. If anything, they will come to haunt you and gnaw away at your conscience. You openly defended someone who made insensitive and hateful accusations about Babydollaā€™s family. Her father took his life. At the end of the day, are you still able to look at yourself in the mirror and say youā€™re a decent human being?
 
TheDifference said:
My age is off topic. When I discovered the internet is off topic. How am I a mod is off topic.
Try and stay on topic please.
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theyre actually entirely relevant questions, bc u has to be either living under-a-rock or born yesterday if u think anyone coming on to chat-avenue, or any online community like it to talk about killing themselves is doing it for anything other than attention...

but ur retarded baiting into trying to further derail the thread is actually what is off-topic, i thought u were done??? this thread as well as myself must rly be eating at u mentally... doesn't matter, its okie i reported u loseršŸ˜„
 
babydolla said:
theyre actually entirely relevant questions, bc u has to be either be living under-a-rock or born yesterday if u think anyone coming on to chat-avenue to talk about killing themselves is doing it for anything other than attention...

but ur retarded baiting into trying to further derail the thread is actually what is off-topic, i thought u were done??? this thread must rly be eating at u mentally... doesn't matter, its okie i reported u šŸ˜„
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I came back because you referenced me. I was happy to stay away but if you reference me you need to accept that I might respond. Can we get back to the topic now? And maybe you can debate like an adult and not call names? You know, follow rule #1 - Personal insults of other members will not be tolerated. šŸ¤”

You said ā€œbc u has to be either be living under-a-rock or born yesterday if u think anyone coming on to chat-avenue to talk about killing themselves is doing it for anything other than attention...ā€

Neither you nor I nor anyone can know why someone comes to chat ave to talk about suicide. They may be seriously thinking about it and just want to reach out to another human being. Or they may just be trolling for attention. Your position is that the ONLY reason is for attention. But you canā€™t know whatā€™s in the other persons mind or their intentions. Neither can I.
So the rule is suicide talk is not allowed. And itā€™s a good rule.
 
TheDifference said:
I came back because you referenced me. I was happy to stay away but if you reference me you need to accept that I might respond. Can we get back to the topic now?

You said ā€œbc u has to be either be living under-a-rock or born yesterday if u think anyone coming on to chat-avenue to talk about killing themselves is doing it for anything other than attention...ā€
Neither you nor I nor anyone can know why someone comes to chat ave to talk about suicide. They may be seriously thinking about it and just want to reach out to another human being. Or they may just be trolling for attention. Your position is that the ONLY reason is for attention. But you canā€™t know whatā€™s in the other persons mind or their intentions. Neither can I.
So the rule is suicide talk is not allowed. And itā€™s a good rule.
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i referenced u, but i didnt tag or quote u... so u weren't *happy to stay away* u were stalking the thread the entire time just waiting for even the slightest reference to u, yet again u didn't has to reply but u chose to involve urself exactly as u denied doing...

...ur fuckin' weird & a sh*tty mod lmao...

anyway, i can't know??? r u totally sure about that???

because its VERY obvious to literally everyone not just myself in general-chat that katelyn_uk is doing it entirely for attention, & it's become very apparent to everyone in this thread based on my screen shots that she is too...

if they were seriously thinking about it, & wanted to reach out to a human being why would they come on to chat-avenue when there is actual resources, & professionals who will actually talk to them without giving any treatment???? literally the suicide-prevention hotline exists exactly for this purpose & it has trained professionals who are paid to do it @ no cost to the caller... you sound insane even suggesting that it's possible they aren't just lunatics coming here to has a pity party...

like i said, i bet u thought there was a 50/50 chance that abigail was seriously going to kill herself, despite her being a complete psychopath that will do literally anything for attention... do u also think that when u get e-mails from someone claiming to be a nigerian prince, & that if u give them 10,000$ to free the disposed king of nigeria they'll transfer to u their entire fortune are also for real???

i'm honestly questioning ur ability to differentiate anything on this website as serious or not, how exactly are u effective at detecting sex offenders if u cant even tell when someone is being an emotional vampire???
 
TheDifference said:
I personally will never be directing anyone to any of your ridiculous, hateful threads. Iā€™ll do what Iā€™ve always done if people talk about suicide in chat. Warn them to stop. Provide them with mental health resources. And if they continue then I will incrementally mute/kick them, per the rules and standard practice.
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^ riding Sanguineā€™s coattails. Come one man, why did you have to stoop to her level?
 
DontCostYaNuffin said:
@TheDifference the gentlemanly and honorable thing to do in this situation would be to admit defeat and apologize. False accusations wonā€™t get you anywhere in life. If anything, they will come to haunt you and gnaw away at your conscience. You openly defended someone who made insensitive and hateful accusations about Babydollaā€™s family. Her father took his life. At the end of the day, are you still able to look at yourself in the mirror and say youā€™re a decent human being?
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Again, this has nothing to do with the topic. But since youā€™re determined to talk about it I will. Just donā€™t accuse me of derailing.
I have nothing to apologize for. My opinion is she is a horrible person. She spews hate speech against people that are trans and she mocks the murder of thousands of innocent men women and children. Is that the type of person you want to defend???
 
@babydolla
As I stated in my very first post, there is an ulterior motive for this thread. And that motive is because you think katelyn_uk is talking about suicide for attention. And based on the ss Iā€™ve seen I actually AGREE with you. Shocker huh?
But I think you would have been better off just being honest about your complaint instead of couching it as a ā€œdebateā€.

Anyway, Iā€™m happy to leave this thread and let it spin round and round. Hopefully you can move on and stop referencing me and I wonā€™t need to feel the need to respond. āœŒšŸ»
 
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Again, this has nothing to do with the topic. But since youā€™re determined to talk about it I will. Just donā€™t accuse me of derailing.
I have nothing to apologize for. My opinion is she is a horrible person. She spews hate speech against people that are trans and she mocks the murder of thousands of innocent men women and children. Is that the type of person you want to defend???
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Iā€™m defending someone whose father took his life. Try to put yourself in her position for once. I love my parents and if anyone defended someone (Sanguine in this case) who talked trash about my parents in front of me in real life, Iā€™d put them to sleep in a blink of an eye. You fuckinā€™ try me, fatso.
 
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@babydolla
As I stated in my very first post, there is an ulterior motive for this thread. And that motive is because you think katelyn_uk is talking about suicide for attention. And based on the ss Iā€™ve seen I actually AGREE with you. Shocker huh?
But I think you would have been better off just being honest about your complaint instead of couching it as a ā€œdebateā€.

Anyway, Iā€™m happy to leave this thread and let it spin round and round. Hopefully you can move on and stop referencing me and I wonā€™t need to feel the need to respond. āœŒšŸ»
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stop stalking the thread & u wouldn't has to worry about if anyone indirectly referenced u or not, u would has had no other way of knowing if u werent, weirdo šŸ‘šŸ¼

nice try so u tried, but there is no ulterior motive here though; sry to disappoint u... i'm speaking for everyone who ppl like u & those who use suicide as a vice disrespect with ur inappropriate & distasteful shenanigans...

hell i tried to even be her friend @ one point... in fact i had a thread specifically about her, but sammy or nessie closed it; this one was made separately right after i made the one about her as to not derail the one about her with debates about the topic.. aka doing god's work šŸ‘¼šŸ¼

...stupid ass, jokes on u...

she just so happened to has been my opening example of someone who does exactly what the thread is about, bc unlike u i actually am cognitive & knew that i couldnt just make a thread about this & how it should be a bannable offense without someone asking me to show an example of someone doing so...

& i has no doubt that it would has been u or the one of the other jerk off mods who think they should be intervening in someone acting suicidal on chat, even though it's a thing as old as the internet that ppl do this online...

like i said, ppl such as them & urself are the opposite extreme of the ppl i am talking about talking about suicide for attention...
 
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Just to wrap up my interactions with youā€¦..I think you might be mixed up again.

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^ riding Sanguineā€™s coattails. Come one man, why did you have to stoop to her level?
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I donā€™t know that person nor am I riding their coattails.

DontCostYaNuffin said:
Iā€™m defending someone whose father took his life. Try to put yourself in her position for once. I love my parents and if anyone defended someone (Sanguine in this case) who talked trash about my parents in front of me in real life, Iā€™d put them to sleep in a blink of an eye. You fuckinā€™ try me, fatso.
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Again, I never defended anyone. Not sure what youā€™re talking about. Iā€™ve also never commented on the OPā€™s father. Thatā€™s not how I operate. Iā€™ve lost loved ones and am sympathetic to others who have lost loved ones, especially to suicide.
 
TheDifference said:
Just to wrap up my interactions with youā€¦..I think you might be mixed up again.



I donā€™t know that person nor am I riding their coattails.



Again, I never defended anyone. Not sure what youā€™re talking about. Iā€™ve also never commented on the OPā€™s father. Thatā€™s not how I operate. Iā€™ve lost loved ones and am sympathetic to others who have lost loved ones, especially to suicide.
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Mixed up? I think your brain is more mixed up than a tossed salad. You were openly riding Abigail19ā€™s coattails with that distasteful comment. You posted that vile comment right after Abigail19 posted hers.
 
TheDifference said:
I personally will never be directing anyone to any of your ridiculous, hateful threads. Iā€™ll do what Iā€™ve always done if people talk about suicide in chat. Warn them to stop. Provide them with mental health resources. And if they continue then I will incrementally mute/kick them, per the rules and standard practice.
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Babydollaā€™s thread is far from ridiculous and hateful,
 
DontCostYaNuffin said:
Mixed up? I think your brain is more mixed up than a tossed salad. You were openly riding Abigail19ā€™s coattails with that distasteful comment. You posted that vile comment right after Abigail19 posted hers.
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Ugh. šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø
My comments have nothing to do with that person. And just because my post appeared after hers doesnā€™t make them connected. Letā€™s agree to disagree and let this thread get back on topic ok? Please?
 
TheDifference said:
Ugh. šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø
My comments have nothing to do with that person. And just because my post appeared after hers doesnā€™t make them connected. Letā€™s agree to disagree and let this thread get back on topic ok? Please?
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Why call it a ridiculous and hateful thread, though? Back on topic? Whatā€™s your idea of getting this thread back on topic? For starters, stop attacking Babydolla and leave her alone.
 
TheDifference said:
Letā€™s agree to disagree and let this thread get back on topic ok? Please?
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thank u, i genuinely appreciate this response...

DontCostYaNuffin said:
Why call it a ridiculous and hateful thread, though? Back on topic? Whatā€™s your idea of getting this thread back on topic? For starters, stop attacking Babydolla and leave her alone.
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let's just move on from this, he made his peace & hopefully will actually move on this time & f*ck off for good...

the whole way he went about this as well just contributed & aided towards my entire argument, & the point i am trying to make... that there are some moderators here that are perfectly content with ppl going on about acting this way & manipulating ppl using suicide as a method in doing so, & going as far as to inappropriately intervene...

believing that the rules as they currently stand in regards to suicide are effective in deterring this behavior, when they just come back & continue unchecked... so they actually aren't at all...

bc they has the bizarre notion that it's possible that their incessant spamming of the subject is an indicator that they may actually be seriously contemplating the deed... even though on just about every social media site, & online community like this one, it's a general rule of thumb to never take anything u read seriously, & be under the presumption that it's entirely false...

back to the initial concern that there are minors on this website,

if there are genuinely suicidal people here they aren't discussing it openly & if they truly want to reach out, they know there are resources it's 2023 & discussing suicide isn't something that is stigmatized it's encouraged precisely why there are such a large magnitude of resources available for suicide prevention & mental health care...

that said, just as sexual discussions aren't tolerated around minors, neither should be suicide, bc that is equally just as poisonous to the brains of kids as discussing sex around them is...
 
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